Saturday, August 21, 2010

Why is it that women keep going back into their (already) abusive relationships?

because in their heads they think there is hope that they will change,people will do anything when they are in love and sometimes will put up with anything from the other person when they are really in love with them its not easy just to walk away from someone you care and love for i was in that situation a few years ago and in the end i had the courage to do it but you will not understand unless you have been through that sort of thing yourself the other person that is the abuser becomes a manipulator its all the sorrys and i will change that makes the other person think there is a chance :)Why is it that women keep going back into their (already) abusive relationships?
Its sad but some of the women I have spoken with....well if you got to know them then you would understand that they are programmed that way and they try to surround themselves with what is comfortable to them. What theyre used to. Usually. They cant really see beyond that and they are constantly trying to please them. They think that they arent good enough. They dont think they can find someone else its a matter of self esteem.Why is it that women keep going back into their (already) abusive relationships?
In an abusive relationship woman offend feel that the fight or why he is screaming is because he/she said or did something. They will lie if they get hit and tell people oh he is nice guy he didn't mean all those things he/she said. Woman are not the only ones who can get caught in an abusive relationship
I think a lot of abused women are afraid. Many times the abuser will not only threaten harm against them but other family members.

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