Tuesday, August 24, 2010

What should i do about this relationships?

ok i have a bf but i havent seen him in over 3 months right n now like dis other guy likes me n im starting to like him but i still like my bf also there is this other guy dat als likes me but idk n since i havent seen my bf for like 3 months things have changed. I jus dont know if i love him like i did before thats the problem??What should i do about this relationships?
There is no good answer to your scenario because no one can tell you what's in your heart - right? :) The only thing I can advise is to make a decision before the decision gets made for you.





Here's what I mean. If you don't make a conscious decision about who you feel more drawn to or which one you actually want as a boyfriend - you'll end up in some close compromising moment with some other boy and get caught up in the moment. If you screw up by screwing then the decision is almost made for you by your pants instead of your head and heart.





Of course, if you're not looking for an instant relationship and like this moment in your life where multiple boys like you - there may be some benefit / reward for you in staying single and playing around a little more. Just make sure to be honest with everyone that you're dating around - they should have the choice whether or not to wait and see if there one of the finalists or not.What should i do about this relationships?
I think that, before you do anything else, you should have a heart-to-heart discussion with your boyfriend -- preferably in person. But if that's not possible, you should at least talk to him over the phone.





Express your concerns about your relationship to him as tactfully as possible. Then go from there. If the two of you can salvage your relationship, that's great. If not, you'll be free to date other guys (including the two available ones you described) until you find your true ';Mr. Right.';





Good luck, brother!
well, first i think you should talk about things with your bf and see where they're going. and then if you decided that you shouldn't be together then just break up. just don't do anything with another guy while still being with your boyfriend. that's not cool.
follow ur heart

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