Saturday, August 21, 2010

How do you learn to trust people after so many distrustful relationships?

By believing in Your SELF, FIRST %26amp; Foremost, -that WHATEVER happens to You- that You WILL survive... And that having ANY kind of Friends- can only HELP..! Good luck! :)How do you learn to trust people after so many distrustful relationships?
As a mental health professional with 20+ years experience, I have to ask myself the question why, and how, you get yourself in so many distrustful relationships? In the mental health profession, we look for trends and patterns, and you've revealed one big one about yourself, which is that you get into relationships that either innately are distrustful, or become distrustful. There are plenty of reasons for that, some more valid and consistent than others, but, one thing we would notice is that YOU are, consistently, in distrustful relationships. So I would ask, what do you ';bring-to-the-table'; that may help them be distrustful, because we can't know about the next person you'll develop a relationship with, but we can know a bit about you, if by no other method than listening to your question. Mental health is a very probing profession, and an answer to your question may come in a probing into what YOU bring-to-the-table in a relationship. I hope you find that and that it helps you find a way to improve your part in relating. God Bless you.How do you learn to trust people after so many distrustful relationships?
You need to trust yourself first. The next relationship you're gonna have is a brand new one, and that it'll be wonderful. Go into a relationship only if you feel ready, though. Don't see it as a bad thing...see it as a good thing!! Focus on the first kisses, and friendship you get out of it....it's really good to have someone with you. Just don't tolerate something you don't approve of! Trust your instincts!
i personally feel that people have to trust themselves before they trust others. i have a huge problem with trusting others so i feel you!

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