why dont people want to work throug things anymore it seems like people jump ship at the first sight of stormy sea isnt this sad do you not think people today just dispose of people in relationships like disposible tisuesWhy do people hurt others in relationships why do we do this 10 POINTS?
Because now-a-days people are selfish and only think of their wellbeings. Especially guys, they just want to have as many girls as they can.Girls on the other hand are starting to act like guys too. give them a taste of their own medicine. It's too bad they get penalized for it. Double standard.
Either that or they are afraid to get hurt so they hurt instead.
make sense?Why do people hurt others in relationships why do we do this 10 POINTS?
cause we can
gl
people now a days only think about themselves and not the type of impact that their actions will have on the person they love.
because they are lazy and just interested in sex... not making relationships work.
a lot of people see relationships like their other toys. they are really cool right when you get them, but they get bored fast and want a new toy.
I tend to value relationships more over time, especially romantic ones.
i totally agree with u , but we're humans , we make bad stuff and good stuff
thats the main reason we're created for
Becauce they're afraid that it's not goin to work no matter how hard they try to work it out. They try to rush it thinking nothing should go wrong in a relationship.
Maby they are just scared that they might get hurt or something.....Alot of people do that.
i resolve my issues. and im 14. so i dont know about other people, but i don't get out of a relationship at the first sight of a problem.
Because no one wants to put in the work. Its pretty sad. PPL just throw away relationships like its absolutely nothing. And for dumb reasons. These days ppl want it to be happy all the time and thats just not humanly possible. There are going to be hard times and there are going to be those days when you feel like throwing in the towel. But you have to work through it (as long as its something thats workable). Most ppl just don't get that
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
What do you think of after-relationships?
Like an ex that stays friends, but wants to stay friends with you even after he/she gets with another person and keeps calling you, etc etc. Do you think that's healthy even?What do you think of after-relationships?
no it is not a healthy relationship as friends cause the other one can stalk you in hurt you or even kill youWhat do you think of after-relationships?
I wouldn't recommend it, i did the same thing and then i just stopped talking to her because i was distancing myself from her (She was acting worse than when we were together) and I couldn't take it anymore.
So it wasn't healthy for me, but for other people the situation could be different.
Not healthy
kinda strange and not healthy
yes...if you're over that person that is
only will lead to heartbreak
Nope. All ex's get cut off... The End.
lol i still talk to my ex.. shes fun to hang around with
no it is not a healthy relationship as friends cause the other one can stalk you in hurt you or even kill youWhat do you think of after-relationships?
I wouldn't recommend it, i did the same thing and then i just stopped talking to her because i was distancing myself from her (She was acting worse than when we were together) and I couldn't take it anymore.
So it wasn't healthy for me, but for other people the situation could be different.
Not healthy
kinda strange and not healthy
yes...if you're over that person that is
only will lead to heartbreak
Nope. All ex's get cut off... The End.
lol i still talk to my ex.. shes fun to hang around with
Can men with autism have successful relationships?
anyone no matter their handycap can have a successful relationship.. Just need to tak**** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED*** e it slowCan men with autism have successful relationships?
Absolutely, many men with autism or aspergers have had successful relationships and families of their own. There are many different types of autistic men who may function more or less similarly to men without autism, but there is no limit to how severe your autism can be and still fall in love with another person. Here are some comments from people who are autistic or in a relationship with someone who is.Can men with autism have successful relationships?
Anyone can be in a successful relationship including those with disabilities. Three things you have to have, understanding, willingness, and patience. I have had a stroke and while it isn't the same as autism it is in a way. It took me a while to let my boyfriend in, to let him touch my crippled side. You have to be open to doing things in a different way and moving slowly or at a comfortable pace. Being disabled means nothing when it comes to being able to love or to hold on. Good Luck. Email me if you need too.
Not very likely Most children with autism lack social support, meaningful relationships, future employment opportunities or self-determination.Although core difficulties tend to persist, symptoms often become less severe with age.[Few high-quality studies address long-term prognosis. Some adults show modest improvement in communication skills, but a few decline; no study has focused on autism after midlife. Acquiring language before age six, having an IQ above 50, and having a marketable skill all predict better outcomes; independent living is unlikely with severe autism.[132] A 2004 British study of 68 adults who were diagnosed before 1980 as autistic children with IQ above 50 found that 12% achieved a high level of independence as adults, 10% had some friends and were generally in work but required some support, 19% had some independence but were generally living at home and needed considerable support and supervision in daily living, 46% needed specialist residential provision from facilities specializing in ASD with a high level of support and very limited autonomy, and 12% needed high-level hospital care.
Here's an article about a guy with either Autism or Aspberger's Syndrome who is happily married, and working on a doctorate degree:
http://www.autism.com/individuals/datara鈥?/a>
Sorry, I'm being POLITICALLY CORRECT and can't answer that question honestly so...
Yep. Better not to answer at all.
Copy this if you agree and us PCs will take over Y!A
I think they can love comes from within.
Absolutely, many men with autism or aspergers have had successful relationships and families of their own. There are many different types of autistic men who may function more or less similarly to men without autism, but there is no limit to how severe your autism can be and still fall in love with another person. Here are some comments from people who are autistic or in a relationship with someone who is.Can men with autism have successful relationships?
Anyone can be in a successful relationship including those with disabilities. Three things you have to have, understanding, willingness, and patience. I have had a stroke and while it isn't the same as autism it is in a way. It took me a while to let my boyfriend in, to let him touch my crippled side. You have to be open to doing things in a different way and moving slowly or at a comfortable pace. Being disabled means nothing when it comes to being able to love or to hold on. Good Luck. Email me if you need too.
Not very likely Most children with autism lack social support, meaningful relationships, future employment opportunities or self-determination.Although core difficulties tend to persist, symptoms often become less severe with age.[Few high-quality studies address long-term prognosis. Some adults show modest improvement in communication skills, but a few decline; no study has focused on autism after midlife. Acquiring language before age six, having an IQ above 50, and having a marketable skill all predict better outcomes; independent living is unlikely with severe autism.[132] A 2004 British study of 68 adults who were diagnosed before 1980 as autistic children with IQ above 50 found that 12% achieved a high level of independence as adults, 10% had some friends and were generally in work but required some support, 19% had some independence but were generally living at home and needed considerable support and supervision in daily living, 46% needed specialist residential provision from facilities specializing in ASD with a high level of support and very limited autonomy, and 12% needed high-level hospital care.
Here's an article about a guy with either Autism or Aspberger's Syndrome who is happily married, and working on a doctorate degree:
http://www.autism.com/individuals/datara鈥?/a>
Sorry, I'm being POLITICALLY CORRECT and can't answer that question honestly so...
Yep. Better not to answer at all.
Copy this if you agree and us PCs will take over Y!A
I think they can love comes from within.
Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
Me %26amp; My co-worker have been very interested in eachother for some time now. Occasionally, after work, we make out in the back room. We plan on maybe dating sometime in the future. Do you agree with relationships at work? Or what is your personal opinion with it.Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
Keep it private away from the workforce. If you tend to get to touchy and get caught, that is a sure fire. Also fratenizing in the workforce is frowned upon, and result is being fired.
(';'\(o.o)/';')Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
You know what its your life if you wanna date someone you work with then go ahead.
It's OK unless you 2 break-up. Then it's going to be rough seeing your X everyday at work. It'll lead to fights at work, and problems.
Photo,
Hey that is great that you two are interested in each other.
My best advice and (opion),is keep every thing professional at work,and keep relationship out side of work.
It is bad news,and it will come back and bite you in the end.
My opion photo.Relationships do not belong in the work place because of sexual harassment laws and other law that comes with it,oh yes and gossips too.
I hope you understand,and gl with your relation ship.
God bless you both,
Kenny
Inhibits work, and when the inevitable breakup comes - it's awkward thereafter.
I did the same thing many years ago and you know what it in a way it was a mistake. I was the boss though and then one day I was told by my boss I had to fire the girl's mom.
That kinda put a damper on my love life with her anyway. But that was okay at the time I was also seeing the boss's niece.
Not to mention the two other girls I was seeing at the time.rosacea
Keep it private away from the workforce. If you tend to get to touchy and get caught, that is a sure fire. Also fratenizing in the workforce is frowned upon, and result is being fired.
(';'\(o.o)/';')Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
You know what its your life if you wanna date someone you work with then go ahead.
It's OK unless you 2 break-up. Then it's going to be rough seeing your X everyday at work. It'll lead to fights at work, and problems.
Photo,
Hey that is great that you two are interested in each other.
My best advice and (opion),is keep every thing professional at work,and keep relationship out side of work.
It is bad news,and it will come back and bite you in the end.
My opion photo.Relationships do not belong in the work place because of sexual harassment laws and other law that comes with it,oh yes and gossips too.
I hope you understand,and gl with your relation ship.
God bless you both,
Kenny
Inhibits work, and when the inevitable breakup comes - it's awkward thereafter.
I did the same thing many years ago and you know what it in a way it was a mistake. I was the boss though and then one day I was told by my boss I had to fire the girl's mom.
That kinda put a damper on my love life with her anyway. But that was okay at the time I was also seeing the boss's niece.
Not to mention the two other girls I was seeing at the time.
What should i do about this relationships?
ok i have a bf but i havent seen him in over 3 months right n now like dis other guy likes me n im starting to like him but i still like my bf also there is this other guy dat als likes me but idk n since i havent seen my bf for like 3 months things have changed. I jus dont know if i love him like i did before thats the problem??What should i do about this relationships?
There is no good answer to your scenario because no one can tell you what's in your heart - right? :) The only thing I can advise is to make a decision before the decision gets made for you.
Here's what I mean. If you don't make a conscious decision about who you feel more drawn to or which one you actually want as a boyfriend - you'll end up in some close compromising moment with some other boy and get caught up in the moment. If you screw up by screwing then the decision is almost made for you by your pants instead of your head and heart.
Of course, if you're not looking for an instant relationship and like this moment in your life where multiple boys like you - there may be some benefit / reward for you in staying single and playing around a little more. Just make sure to be honest with everyone that you're dating around - they should have the choice whether or not to wait and see if there one of the finalists or not.What should i do about this relationships?
I think that, before you do anything else, you should have a heart-to-heart discussion with your boyfriend -- preferably in person. But if that's not possible, you should at least talk to him over the phone.
Express your concerns about your relationship to him as tactfully as possible. Then go from there. If the two of you can salvage your relationship, that's great. If not, you'll be free to date other guys (including the two available ones you described) until you find your true ';Mr. Right.';
Good luck, brother!
well, first i think you should talk about things with your bf and see where they're going. and then if you decided that you shouldn't be together then just break up. just don't do anything with another guy while still being with your boyfriend. that's not cool.
follow ur heart
There is no good answer to your scenario because no one can tell you what's in your heart - right? :) The only thing I can advise is to make a decision before the decision gets made for you.
Here's what I mean. If you don't make a conscious decision about who you feel more drawn to or which one you actually want as a boyfriend - you'll end up in some close compromising moment with some other boy and get caught up in the moment. If you screw up by screwing then the decision is almost made for you by your pants instead of your head and heart.
Of course, if you're not looking for an instant relationship and like this moment in your life where multiple boys like you - there may be some benefit / reward for you in staying single and playing around a little more. Just make sure to be honest with everyone that you're dating around - they should have the choice whether or not to wait and see if there one of the finalists or not.What should i do about this relationships?
I think that, before you do anything else, you should have a heart-to-heart discussion with your boyfriend -- preferably in person. But if that's not possible, you should at least talk to him over the phone.
Express your concerns about your relationship to him as tactfully as possible. Then go from there. If the two of you can salvage your relationship, that's great. If not, you'll be free to date other guys (including the two available ones you described) until you find your true ';Mr. Right.';
Good luck, brother!
well, first i think you should talk about things with your bf and see where they're going. and then if you decided that you shouldn't be together then just break up. just don't do anything with another guy while still being with your boyfriend. that's not cool.
follow ur heart
How does war change people's relationships?
depends on the person. i am against the war completely, but some of my friends are for it. A few of my best friends are Marines and one of them is in Iraq right now. We all agree that we disagree with the war and some of the President's decisions, but that does not affect our relationship at all. They respect my views as I respect theirs, and I definately have respect for all of our troops overseas.How does war change people's relationships?
I think it changes the outlook of life for a person who went? I remeber my hubby, when he came home. He was in good sprits but when he would talk, he talked of the poor. He had seen poor here but over there it was so sad to hear him speak of it. He is alot more I don't know senstive to certain issues? I know that I changed while he was gone.
MY respect grew a 10000 more than it did for single moms and dads that do this everyday! That was hard. But you know what it made me stronger than before.How does war change people's relationships?
they become animals
nightmares, nightsweats, weird rashes, Oh and that is from DESERT STORM.......the war everyone forgets we fought.
This war they have fun tents (big screen TVs, computers, hot food)!
That war (waited a week to make a call, burned their own ****, slept on top of their vehicles too avoid snakes, scorpions and spiders.)
This war they are paid almost 3 times what those who fought in Desert Storm received.
Oh back to the question......wake up with someone who has is sweating, screaming and trying to find the top of his vehicle. That is how ';war'; changes a relationship.
Other than that.....oh wait the rash...no skin problems until.....yep......the ';other war';.
We are great.....he didn't get DVD's when he was there but he got cigarettes and ramen LMAO. Believe me that mattered!
Well, my husband, who is on his way back home for the 2nd time, has nightmares, wakes up in a cold sweat, he also talks in his sleep so I know more than what he thinks I do. I have also dodged a few swings from him while he was sleeping. While he is sleeping if anyone walks by our door he sits straight up. Other than in his sleep, some nights all he wants to do is lay in the floor with me and the kids and just hold all of us, where other nights he just spaces out and is jumpy when someone says anything to him. He doesn't talk about what he saw or what he did the first time he was there, but I know that when he is ready to talk he will. It's hard to deal with at times because I love him and there is nothing I can do to help him deal with it because he doesn't WANT me to know what happened over there, and I can't go to him and say I know because you talk in your sleep so just talk to me about it.
Not for the better, but with out knowing more about your question, I can't elaborate.
It does a lot. I know some people who went to war and act different. Those people have terrible experiences that haunt them for the rest their lives. WAR IS HELL! I do wish good luck to those out there though
i've been to war and i don't think i change
War changes people's relationships because war changes people. The most changed are those who experience combat, especially on a personal or face to face level.
Once, in psychology class, the question was asked ';How do people change? The answers were frontal lobotomy, religious conversion, and traumatic experience (like war).
this war doesn't change anything.
watch JarHead i jsut did it might help altho its not always like in that movie but it is quite a few of the times
the relationship has a few more things thrown into the mix. My significant other needs to realize that sometimes I need to vent, to talk about what happened, about being shot at, and about shooting back. She understands that I'm going to have occasional nightmares and sleepless nights. Overall, it's not just the person that experienced the war that is effected, it's their loved ones as well.
War changes most people no matter if they want to admit it or not. I try not to show it outwardly but it will affect you. It does affect some differently than others but no one goes truly unchanged. A word to the spouses, hang in there and try not to get frustrated with them if they do not want to talk about it. Sometimes it is just to hard to talk about. We see things no one should have to see over there.
I think it changes the outlook of life for a person who went? I remeber my hubby, when he came home. He was in good sprits but when he would talk, he talked of the poor. He had seen poor here but over there it was so sad to hear him speak of it. He is alot more I don't know senstive to certain issues? I know that I changed while he was gone.
MY respect grew a 10000 more than it did for single moms and dads that do this everyday! That was hard. But you know what it made me stronger than before.How does war change people's relationships?
they become animals
nightmares, nightsweats, weird rashes, Oh and that is from DESERT STORM.......the war everyone forgets we fought.
This war they have fun tents (big screen TVs, computers, hot food)!
That war (waited a week to make a call, burned their own ****, slept on top of their vehicles too avoid snakes, scorpions and spiders.)
This war they are paid almost 3 times what those who fought in Desert Storm received.
Oh back to the question......wake up with someone who has is sweating, screaming and trying to find the top of his vehicle. That is how ';war'; changes a relationship.
Other than that.....oh wait the rash...no skin problems until.....yep......the ';other war';.
We are great.....he didn't get DVD's when he was there but he got cigarettes and ramen LMAO. Believe me that mattered!
Well, my husband, who is on his way back home for the 2nd time, has nightmares, wakes up in a cold sweat, he also talks in his sleep so I know more than what he thinks I do. I have also dodged a few swings from him while he was sleeping. While he is sleeping if anyone walks by our door he sits straight up. Other than in his sleep, some nights all he wants to do is lay in the floor with me and the kids and just hold all of us, where other nights he just spaces out and is jumpy when someone says anything to him. He doesn't talk about what he saw or what he did the first time he was there, but I know that when he is ready to talk he will. It's hard to deal with at times because I love him and there is nothing I can do to help him deal with it because he doesn't WANT me to know what happened over there, and I can't go to him and say I know because you talk in your sleep so just talk to me about it.
Not for the better, but with out knowing more about your question, I can't elaborate.
It does a lot. I know some people who went to war and act different. Those people have terrible experiences that haunt them for the rest their lives. WAR IS HELL! I do wish good luck to those out there though
i've been to war and i don't think i change
War changes people's relationships because war changes people. The most changed are those who experience combat, especially on a personal or face to face level.
Once, in psychology class, the question was asked ';How do people change? The answers were frontal lobotomy, religious conversion, and traumatic experience (like war).
this war doesn't change anything.
watch JarHead i jsut did it might help altho its not always like in that movie but it is quite a few of the times
the relationship has a few more things thrown into the mix. My significant other needs to realize that sometimes I need to vent, to talk about what happened, about being shot at, and about shooting back. She understands that I'm going to have occasional nightmares and sleepless nights. Overall, it's not just the person that experienced the war that is effected, it's their loved ones as well.
War changes most people no matter if they want to admit it or not. I try not to show it outwardly but it will affect you. It does affect some differently than others but no one goes truly unchanged. A word to the spouses, hang in there and try not to get frustrated with them if they do not want to talk about it. Sometimes it is just to hard to talk about. We see things no one should have to see over there.
MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
I don't believe in a ';bro code';, I believe in being ruthless and fighting for what you want. And I know women would find that mentality attractive.
NOW, there's this one girl in my college class whom I talk to daily, but she has a boyfriend and let me know about it. What are some effective field strategies you've used before in order to get a woman to dump her guy, for YOU?MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Awww..... Samian.... There are other fish in the sea...
I know you feel that women find it attractive but that's not true of any respectful woman. Its ruthless and underhanded. This only shows her that you have no respect for relationships or care about other peoples interests or investments. It might make her like you less. Be her friend but move on with your life. There's no telling what kind of person you will meet down the road in your life.MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Judging by your question, it is obvious you are retarded. She is not interested in you at all, she is being nice. Like volunteering at the special olympics, it makes her feel good about herself. Does she help you with the seatbelt in the front seat of the bus, too?
';effective field strategies'; - wow, you're a stalker, too.
Good luck with life. Don't forget your helmet.
You learn to be a mature adult and respect someone elses wishes. Look she has someone else, thats a major hint to you that she's not interested nor will ever be. The more you try to persue her the more she will be turned off.
Also I don't use ';stratagies'; on women because I'm gay, and I don't even use them on men. At least not in a homewrecker way.
Find some self respect.
-Connor
for one u sound like an *** and two no girl is gonna leave her bf for someone else if she is happy and if she is letting u know about her boyfriend that means shes telling u too back off. and i would be careful if i were u a lot of guys are very protective of their girlfriends. and no girls do not find that attractive. but if you do want to try it would be to wine and dine her take her on expensive dinners and buy her everything and u have to be super sweet to her. but if shes happy with her bf it wont matter what u do.
No, we don't find that mentality attractive. We find it arrogant.
Oh, and you saying ';no women allowed'; just makes us women want to answer even more. ;)
If you really care about this girl why do you want to hurt her? You're just being selfish. Wait till she breaks up with her boyfriend, be her friend, let her come to you.
First if your going to behave like this you need to be WELL ARMED have a security expert check your car for bombs everyday and live in a windowless room deep underground, or your going to live a VERY SHORT LIFE.
Second, be prepared for PAIN.
Next to impossible.
What you can do is:
Remember this: Love them, appreciate them and always treat ALL women with respect no matter if overweight, skinny, pretty, homely, short or tall.
In the end - personality is everything and beauty IS only skin deep!
women get very attached (even if it doesn't make sense)... its kinda difficult, unless their relationship is on the rocks.
best bet is to build a better relationship with her than the other guy.... but this usually places u as a friend, and making a move after is awkward.... er... so.... start working out a lot and make lotsa money
Does Yo Mama have good dental insurance for you? Any day now, somebody will probably be rearranging your dental work when you mess with the wrong one. She could file charges for stalking or sexual harrassment - then whatcha gonna do - call Mama?
You're a douchebag. Don't ruin a relationship because you want to date a girl.
You suck
Sniches are bitches and bitches get stitches.
You get her drunk and **** the hell out of her. If she doesn't dump him, who cares?
you are really mentally ill and sick minded...
personally i just whip out my wanker. gets em every time.
NOW, there's this one girl in my college class whom I talk to daily, but she has a boyfriend and let me know about it. What are some effective field strategies you've used before in order to get a woman to dump her guy, for YOU?MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Awww..... Samian.... There are other fish in the sea...
I know you feel that women find it attractive but that's not true of any respectful woman. Its ruthless and underhanded. This only shows her that you have no respect for relationships or care about other peoples interests or investments. It might make her like you less. Be her friend but move on with your life. There's no telling what kind of person you will meet down the road in your life.MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Judging by your question, it is obvious you are retarded. She is not interested in you at all, she is being nice. Like volunteering at the special olympics, it makes her feel good about herself. Does she help you with the seatbelt in the front seat of the bus, too?
';effective field strategies'; - wow, you're a stalker, too.
Good luck with life. Don't forget your helmet.
You learn to be a mature adult and respect someone elses wishes. Look she has someone else, thats a major hint to you that she's not interested nor will ever be. The more you try to persue her the more she will be turned off.
Also I don't use ';stratagies'; on women because I'm gay, and I don't even use them on men. At least not in a homewrecker way.
Find some self respect.
-Connor
for one u sound like an *** and two no girl is gonna leave her bf for someone else if she is happy and if she is letting u know about her boyfriend that means shes telling u too back off. and i would be careful if i were u a lot of guys are very protective of their girlfriends. and no girls do not find that attractive. but if you do want to try it would be to wine and dine her take her on expensive dinners and buy her everything and u have to be super sweet to her. but if shes happy with her bf it wont matter what u do.
No, we don't find that mentality attractive. We find it arrogant.
Oh, and you saying ';no women allowed'; just makes us women want to answer even more. ;)
If you really care about this girl why do you want to hurt her? You're just being selfish. Wait till she breaks up with her boyfriend, be her friend, let her come to you.
First if your going to behave like this you need to be WELL ARMED have a security expert check your car for bombs everyday and live in a windowless room deep underground, or your going to live a VERY SHORT LIFE.
Second, be prepared for PAIN.
Next to impossible.
What you can do is:
Remember this: Love them, appreciate them and always treat ALL women with respect no matter if overweight, skinny, pretty, homely, short or tall.
In the end - personality is everything and beauty IS only skin deep!
women get very attached (even if it doesn't make sense)... its kinda difficult, unless their relationship is on the rocks.
best bet is to build a better relationship with her than the other guy.... but this usually places u as a friend, and making a move after is awkward.... er... so.... start working out a lot and make lotsa money
Does Yo Mama have good dental insurance for you? Any day now, somebody will probably be rearranging your dental work when you mess with the wrong one. She could file charges for stalking or sexual harrassment - then whatcha gonna do - call Mama?
You're a douchebag. Don't ruin a relationship because you want to date a girl.
You suck
Sniches are bitches and bitches get stitches.
You get her drunk and **** the hell out of her. If she doesn't dump him, who cares?
you are really mentally ill and sick minded...
personally i just whip out my wanker. gets em every time.
Are there any songs about perfect relationships ending for no reason?
are there any songs about PERFECT relationships ending for no reason?
just want one that is my story, to listen toAre there any songs about perfect relationships ending for no reason?
';comfortable'; - John Mayer?
lol thats all i can think of..Are there any songs about perfect relationships ending for no reason?
forever and always by taylor swift
comforting sounds - mew
I dunno about perfect but try
Pain- by three days grace
just want one that is my story, to listen toAre there any songs about perfect relationships ending for no reason?
';comfortable'; - John Mayer?
lol thats all i can think of..Are there any songs about perfect relationships ending for no reason?
forever and always by taylor swift
comforting sounds - mew
I dunno about perfect but try
Pain- by three days grace
If a boy grows up with an absent or distant mother, how will his relationships with women be affected?
Good question. I can tell you one thing, if your mother is open to establishing a renewed relationship with you it could at least patch up a hole in your heart. But you have made it this far and I am assuming doing well.If a boy grows up with an absent or distant mother, how will his relationships with women be affected?
Prisons are full of guys like this. Most drink too much and do drugs.If a boy grows up with an absent or distant mother, how will his relationships with women be affected?
My husbands mother wasn't absent but she has never shown him affection. She has even admitting to wishing he had been a girl cause ';boys are difficult';. I could never list all the ways she has been cruel to him, as a child and as a man. I can tell you though I believe his need to be constantly reassured that I love him and that he isn't a horrible person is a direct cause. This can be exhausting on a daily basis...but I'm patient with him. He also has a awful temper. We've been married 8 yrs and the first few yrs were rough because of his temper. Thankfully he controls it much better now. Also he is still always trying to win her approval, even though she has made it pretty clear he will never be good enough to make her proud.
With me he is loving, attentive, and playful. He is a good provider and the best father I have ever known.
He could have difficulty showing/talking about feelings, may be less affectionate OR the opposite of what he was deprived of. Depends on who the other women were in his life like a grandmother who may have nurtured him.
Prisons are full of guys like this. Most drink too much and do drugs.If a boy grows up with an absent or distant mother, how will his relationships with women be affected?
My husbands mother wasn't absent but she has never shown him affection. She has even admitting to wishing he had been a girl cause ';boys are difficult';. I could never list all the ways she has been cruel to him, as a child and as a man. I can tell you though I believe his need to be constantly reassured that I love him and that he isn't a horrible person is a direct cause. This can be exhausting on a daily basis...but I'm patient with him. He also has a awful temper. We've been married 8 yrs and the first few yrs were rough because of his temper. Thankfully he controls it much better now. Also he is still always trying to win her approval, even though she has made it pretty clear he will never be good enough to make her proud.
With me he is loving, attentive, and playful. He is a good provider and the best father I have ever known.
He could have difficulty showing/talking about feelings, may be less affectionate OR the opposite of what he was deprived of. Depends on who the other women were in his life like a grandmother who may have nurtured him.
What is your opinion on rebound relationships?
usually they don't work. maybe at first it seems the right thing to do but then it gets in the same rut and it's a no win situation. Your better to go on with your life because there are plenty of fish in the sea.What is your opinion on rebound relationships?
Whatever gets you through. Just be honest that you are just getting out of a relationship and you don't know how serious you can be with anyone right now. If he is okay with that you would like to date.
Love,
MichelleWhat is your opinion on rebound relationships?
Never heard of a rebound relationship. You're rebound should only last 1 night.
do it with someone who doesnt care about you like you dont care about them.rosacea
Whatever gets you through. Just be honest that you are just getting out of a relationship and you don't know how serious you can be with anyone right now. If he is okay with that you would like to date.
Love,
MichelleWhat is your opinion on rebound relationships?
Never heard of a rebound relationship. You're rebound should only last 1 night.
do it with someone who doesnt care about you like you dont care about them.
How can I become a relationships advice columnist?
Hello All.
I have done alot of living, experienced my fair share of heartache and made it through to the other side. I have been played, abondoned, used by men, made about all the mistakes that you can make with a man, and now that I am a bit older and wiser, i would like to share advice with my fellow women out there. I feel that I can give the best advice, not because I am perfect and I have never made any mistakes, but because I have made those mistakes, I have been there and done that. I feel this puts me in a better place for understanding and sympathizing with other women, and I feel it gives me the wisdom to possibly prevent other women from being hurt or played. In fact I have even developed a very keen sense about those sorts of things and can spot them from a mile away. So, I want to help people. I feel this is what I have been put on earth to do. Does anyone know how I may get started with this? Thanks for your help!How can I become a relationships advice columnist?
You need at least a degree in journalism or a degree on your field of expertise.
Papers don't hire people without qualifications (there are many legal and credibility problems they might get into), you need a degree on social science, human relationship, psychology or something similar; the point is that you need to prove you are an expert. Being the author of some successful books in the matter will also help.How can I become a relationships advice columnist?
A degree in journalism is a good start. Enroll in some journalism classes at a local college or university and join the school newspaper club or group. That's a start, and will help build your resume so you can move on to bigger and better publications for your advice.
I have done alot of living, experienced my fair share of heartache and made it through to the other side. I have been played, abondoned, used by men, made about all the mistakes that you can make with a man, and now that I am a bit older and wiser, i would like to share advice with my fellow women out there. I feel that I can give the best advice, not because I am perfect and I have never made any mistakes, but because I have made those mistakes, I have been there and done that. I feel this puts me in a better place for understanding and sympathizing with other women, and I feel it gives me the wisdom to possibly prevent other women from being hurt or played. In fact I have even developed a very keen sense about those sorts of things and can spot them from a mile away. So, I want to help people. I feel this is what I have been put on earth to do. Does anyone know how I may get started with this? Thanks for your help!How can I become a relationships advice columnist?
You need at least a degree in journalism or a degree on your field of expertise.
Papers don't hire people without qualifications (there are many legal and credibility problems they might get into), you need a degree on social science, human relationship, psychology or something similar; the point is that you need to prove you are an expert. Being the author of some successful books in the matter will also help.How can I become a relationships advice columnist?
A degree in journalism is a good start. Enroll in some journalism classes at a local college or university and join the school newspaper club or group. That's a start, and will help build your resume so you can move on to bigger and better publications for your advice.
Before you realised you were gay how did you imagine you're future relationships?
Did you ever imagine yourself married to someone of the same sex.
I remember when I was younger and I tried to imagine my adult life I couldn't really picture it very well, and I couldn't ever think of a situation where I would feel normal being with a man. It kind of made me afraid to grow up cos I just assumed I would be alone and depressed, I stopped myself from thinking about my future at all and instead made up these stories about a guy called Justin doing all the things that I actually wished I could do.
What about y'all?Before you realised you were gay how did you imagine you're future relationships?
I am male -- I always assumed and fantasized about being with another male -- from as early as age 5 or 6. By 8 I realized that boys were special to me and girls were not. By 11 I found out what gay was and immediately knew that was what I was.
Kind thoughts,
HermesBefore you realised you were gay how did you imagine you're future relationships?
For myself, I've always known I was gay. When I was four, I knew I wanted to marry a man when I grew up. So are my adult relationships anything like what I wanted when I was little? In some ways yes, and in some ways no. Kids don't think about the serious aspects of marriage, like earning money, paying bills, doing chores, shopping, etc. So I wasn't anticipating those things. But the other parts, about finding a man, falling in love with each other, owning a house and being happy together, that has certainly come true.
As a kid I didn't think about these things, I was always in the moment kind of girl. In my younger years, I'd have boyfriends but there wasn't really a future beyond our short lived 'relationship'. But when puberty hit and hormones were flying everywhere I could only imagine having my girlfriend as my best friend, lover and soul mate.
I didnt think too much about it. I knew I wanted kids, I knew I wanted to get married, but I couldn't imagine any of those thing being done w men! One year,I was 8, I was a bride for Halloween. Everyone asked who was my groom and I didn't even want to think about it. I had no desire to have a groom I just liked my long pretty white dress. lol.
When i tried my hardest to picture my future if there was a man living with me he was a roommate or a really close friend. I remember thinking thats not right. I was like where is the spouse?? So after that i stopped picturing it and just thought we'll see what happens. I didnt think i would turn out to be a lesbian though so i was kind of like OHHHHHHH when i realized i was.
I couldn't ever picture myself with a guy, it just felt wrong to me. But when my family members and such would ask me about my future husband/family, in my mind I always saw my ';husband'; as my best friend, but NOTHING more. More than that never even crossed my mind. It wasn't natural for me.
First of all, I don't remember a time when I did not think I was gay. I got my first piece at eight years old and don't remember much before that. And I never 'imagined' a future relationship. Not with a man. Even now I can't see me 'married' to a man. just a partnership or relationship.
Nope it was white picket fence, dog, lil billy and jane with the wife. Honestly I never saw my life as not leading to that ';cookie cutter'; of ends. Sometimes I still wish it was possible to dream that only with the Hubby instead ~_~
i had a similar situation as you, i just tried not thinking about it. though actually, i didn't really ever think about it much.
Before then I just never really thought about sex. I knew I wasnt attracted to women and I just figured I didnt have a sex drive.
I guess I imagined it to be sex free.
I'm still not quite sure if I am gay.
its gonna be the same as much as i can make it! xD
Lol when I was 7 I told my mom I didn't wanna get married. being gay never crossed my mind :P
yeah same as you
used to want a wife and loads of kids
now i want a husband and a couple of kids
I remember when I was younger and I tried to imagine my adult life I couldn't really picture it very well, and I couldn't ever think of a situation where I would feel normal being with a man. It kind of made me afraid to grow up cos I just assumed I would be alone and depressed, I stopped myself from thinking about my future at all and instead made up these stories about a guy called Justin doing all the things that I actually wished I could do.
What about y'all?Before you realised you were gay how did you imagine you're future relationships?
I am male -- I always assumed and fantasized about being with another male -- from as early as age 5 or 6. By 8 I realized that boys were special to me and girls were not. By 11 I found out what gay was and immediately knew that was what I was.
Kind thoughts,
HermesBefore you realised you were gay how did you imagine you're future relationships?
For myself, I've always known I was gay. When I was four, I knew I wanted to marry a man when I grew up. So are my adult relationships anything like what I wanted when I was little? In some ways yes, and in some ways no. Kids don't think about the serious aspects of marriage, like earning money, paying bills, doing chores, shopping, etc. So I wasn't anticipating those things. But the other parts, about finding a man, falling in love with each other, owning a house and being happy together, that has certainly come true.
As a kid I didn't think about these things, I was always in the moment kind of girl. In my younger years, I'd have boyfriends but there wasn't really a future beyond our short lived 'relationship'. But when puberty hit and hormones were flying everywhere I could only imagine having my girlfriend as my best friend, lover and soul mate.
I didnt think too much about it. I knew I wanted kids, I knew I wanted to get married, but I couldn't imagine any of those thing being done w men! One year,I was 8, I was a bride for Halloween. Everyone asked who was my groom and I didn't even want to think about it. I had no desire to have a groom I just liked my long pretty white dress. lol.
When i tried my hardest to picture my future if there was a man living with me he was a roommate or a really close friend. I remember thinking thats not right. I was like where is the spouse?? So after that i stopped picturing it and just thought we'll see what happens. I didnt think i would turn out to be a lesbian though so i was kind of like OHHHHHHH when i realized i was.
I couldn't ever picture myself with a guy, it just felt wrong to me. But when my family members and such would ask me about my future husband/family, in my mind I always saw my ';husband'; as my best friend, but NOTHING more. More than that never even crossed my mind. It wasn't natural for me.
First of all, I don't remember a time when I did not think I was gay. I got my first piece at eight years old and don't remember much before that. And I never 'imagined' a future relationship. Not with a man. Even now I can't see me 'married' to a man. just a partnership or relationship.
Nope it was white picket fence, dog, lil billy and jane with the wife. Honestly I never saw my life as not leading to that ';cookie cutter'; of ends. Sometimes I still wish it was possible to dream that only with the Hubby instead ~_~
i had a similar situation as you, i just tried not thinking about it. though actually, i didn't really ever think about it much.
Before then I just never really thought about sex. I knew I wasnt attracted to women and I just figured I didnt have a sex drive.
I guess I imagined it to be sex free.
I'm still not quite sure if I am gay.
its gonna be the same as much as i can make it! xD
Lol when I was 7 I told my mom I didn't wanna get married. being gay never crossed my mind :P
yeah same as you
used to want a wife and loads of kids
now i want a husband and a couple of kids
How do you go about making up for past mistakes in your personal relationships?
There are a number of people I would like to bring back into my life. I'm not sure of the best way to approach this initially.How do you go about making up for past mistakes in your personal relationships?
I'd say go slowly and be prepared to have a rough time with some of them...Some may not want you close at all.
Perhaps an email would be best as a first approach...Writing things down is a good idea because you can choose your words...(and also because the other person can re-read your words in case they are not sure they have understood you.)
If they respond to your email, then perhaps you can call them. If they want to meet, great. But be ready to have some people say they are not interested, and understand they may harbor resentment and ill feelings if you were truly mean or vicious.How do you go about making up for past mistakes in your personal relationships?
Write or email them, apologizing for whatever you've done and telling them why you value them. Follow up with a phone call, if necessary, and then meet with them for lunch or a picnic or whatever.
Do whatever works to bring them back into your life. Whether they choose to return or not is totally up to them, and, if they say no, accept their decisions and move on.
This is really not difficult; it just takes your being willing to take the first step. Once that's done, you'll figure the rest out on your own.
Good luck to you!
you can apologize to them.and try not to make those mistakes again.if they see you are really sorry about your mistakes then i don't think there will be a reason not to be in your life back..
apologize sincerely and try not to make the same mistakes..
I'd say go slowly and be prepared to have a rough time with some of them...Some may not want you close at all.
Perhaps an email would be best as a first approach...Writing things down is a good idea because you can choose your words...(and also because the other person can re-read your words in case they are not sure they have understood you.)
If they respond to your email, then perhaps you can call them. If they want to meet, great. But be ready to have some people say they are not interested, and understand they may harbor resentment and ill feelings if you were truly mean or vicious.How do you go about making up for past mistakes in your personal relationships?
Write or email them, apologizing for whatever you've done and telling them why you value them. Follow up with a phone call, if necessary, and then meet with them for lunch or a picnic or whatever.
Do whatever works to bring them back into your life. Whether they choose to return or not is totally up to them, and, if they say no, accept their decisions and move on.
This is really not difficult; it just takes your being willing to take the first step. Once that's done, you'll figure the rest out on your own.
Good luck to you!
you can apologize to them.and try not to make those mistakes again.if they see you are really sorry about your mistakes then i don't think there will be a reason not to be in your life back..
apologize sincerely and try not to make the same mistakes..
Judging from your experience in relationships which sign is the worst to date or marry?
judging from the relationships and experiences of your life what sign would you say is the worst to date or marry?Judging from your experience in relationships which sign is the worst to date or marry?
CapricornJudging from your experience in relationships which sign is the worst to date or marry?
Do NOT date a stop sign, she/he is too thin and hot headed. Do not date an under construction sign, he/she is not a finished work. I would probably date a Yield to heavy traffic is OK.
that would greatly depend on what you are willing to tolerate or not for long term.
each sign has its pro and con. it's a matter of which combo you can live with.
CAPRICORN
Gemini
scorpio
CapricornJudging from your experience in relationships which sign is the worst to date or marry?
Do NOT date a stop sign, she/he is too thin and hot headed. Do not date an under construction sign, he/she is not a finished work. I would probably date a Yield to heavy traffic is OK.
that would greatly depend on what you are willing to tolerate or not for long term.
each sign has its pro and con. it's a matter of which combo you can live with.
CAPRICORN
Gemini
scorpio
I need information about shallow relationships, why people get in them etc...?
One of my best friends is always subjecting herself to shallow relationships. I feel like she never dates anyone for their mind, but just for sex and because she doesn't want to be lonely. These relationships are always doomed to fail. She puts herself in positions where she must subconsciously know that the relationship wont work out. I want VALID information backed up by studies to explain why people do this and how to have them realize and help themselves out of this habit. Any medical sources and journals are prefered.I need information about shallow relationships, why people get in them etc...?
Hmm don't limit yourself to just psychiatry and journals. Experience is just as valid as evidence, because most research found in journals comes from gathering ppl's experiences in one way or another. Then it becomes evidence. I know, because I did research in this way and it is about to be published, lol. Not on this subject tho.
So....
Being deprived emotionally as children, therefore trying to fill a void. In contrast, someone who is secure as a child will be sure of the quality of person they want, and secure enough in themselves to wait until the right person comes along.
Parents setting an example of shallow relationships or multiple relationships so they think this is the norm, or they think this is love. Someone from a secure home has role-models of parents who seek one partner for life and stick together and communicate to work through difficulties. The contrast to shallow thinking.
Parents don't communicate with them, so they never get told anything, they just have to find it out from their friends or the big wide world. So school relationships are all shallow and they copy.
If you have been sexually abused you think this is how to please people and be loved.
If you ask your friend about her childhood I bet one or more of these things are the case.I need information about shallow relationships, why people get in them etc...?
Sexual attraction doesn't make the relationship 'shallow'...promoting the species is the basic reason for animals mating in the first place! The truth is, the unrealistic, modern 'civilized' reasons for dating are the shallow ones...they don't allow for the natural call and response to interpret sexual and physical indications of health and compatibility.
Hmm don't limit yourself to just psychiatry and journals. Experience is just as valid as evidence, because most research found in journals comes from gathering ppl's experiences in one way or another. Then it becomes evidence. I know, because I did research in this way and it is about to be published, lol. Not on this subject tho.
So....
Being deprived emotionally as children, therefore trying to fill a void. In contrast, someone who is secure as a child will be sure of the quality of person they want, and secure enough in themselves to wait until the right person comes along.
Parents setting an example of shallow relationships or multiple relationships so they think this is the norm, or they think this is love. Someone from a secure home has role-models of parents who seek one partner for life and stick together and communicate to work through difficulties. The contrast to shallow thinking.
Parents don't communicate with them, so they never get told anything, they just have to find it out from their friends or the big wide world. So school relationships are all shallow and they copy.
If you have been sexually abused you think this is how to please people and be loved.
If you ask your friend about her childhood I bet one or more of these things are the case.I need information about shallow relationships, why people get in them etc...?
Sexual attraction doesn't make the relationship 'shallow'...promoting the species is the basic reason for animals mating in the first place! The truth is, the unrealistic, modern 'civilized' reasons for dating are the shallow ones...they don't allow for the natural call and response to interpret sexual and physical indications of health and compatibility.
What are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
plzWhat are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
The tic is a parasite of the deer.
The deer is the host of the tic.
The deer is also a vector if travel is considered.What are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
Blood. Dear ticks feed off of the blood of a deer. dear ticks also have the name Deer in their name.rosacea
The tic is a parasite of the deer.
The deer is the host of the tic.
The deer is also a vector if travel is considered.What are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
Blood. Dear ticks feed off of the blood of a deer. dear ticks also have the name Deer in their name.
How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
Doing an essay your opinion please!!How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
The same way it affects all relationships. It eats them from the inside out. Jealousy implies a lack of trust in your partner, and that can be devestating to a relationship.
(btw - affect is the word, not effect. Effect is a noun, affect is a verb)How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
wow, what a question! ummm well teens feel insecure as it is, so feeling jealous hightens that. plus it makes them feel secluded and alone at times, especially if they are jealous of a friend or family member.
The same way it affects all relationships. It eats them from the inside out. Jealousy implies a lack of trust in your partner, and that can be devestating to a relationship.
(btw - affect is the word, not effect. Effect is a noun, affect is a verb)How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
wow, what a question! ummm well teens feel insecure as it is, so feeling jealous hightens that. plus it makes them feel secluded and alone at times, especially if they are jealous of a friend or family member.
What are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
plzWhat are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
The tic is a parasite of the deer.
The deer is the host of the tic.
The deer is also a vector if travel is considered.What are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
Blood. Dear ticks feed off of the blood of a deer. dear ticks also have the name Deer in their name.
The tic is a parasite of the deer.
The deer is the host of the tic.
The deer is also a vector if travel is considered.What are some of the relationships between a tic and a deer?
Blood. Dear ticks feed off of the blood of a deer. dear ticks also have the name Deer in their name.
How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
Doing an essay your opinion please!!How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
The same way it affects all relationships. It eats them from the inside out. Jealousy implies a lack of trust in your partner, and that can be devestating to a relationship.
(btw - affect is the word, not effect. Effect is a noun, affect is a verb)How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
wow, what a question! ummm well teens feel insecure as it is, so feeling jealous hightens that. plus it makes them feel secluded and alone at times, especially if they are jealous of a friend or family member.
The same way it affects all relationships. It eats them from the inside out. Jealousy implies a lack of trust in your partner, and that can be devestating to a relationship.
(btw - affect is the word, not effect. Effect is a noun, affect is a verb)How does jealousy effect teen relationships?
wow, what a question! ummm well teens feel insecure as it is, so feeling jealous hightens that. plus it makes them feel secluded and alone at times, especially if they are jealous of a friend or family member.
How come none of my relationships last for more than six months?
im in my mid twenties and somehow I neva break up with my boyfriends, they just drift away.
We are still friends I dont understand. help.How come none of my relationships last for more than six months?
Some of the common reasons guys drift away would be
You aren't doing what you're told.
You're putting on weight.
Becoming too possessive
Trying to be too controlling.
Not very good in bed
I'm not suggesting all theses apply to you, I'm just suggesting the most common reasons.How come none of my relationships last for more than six months?
I think you are dating people you know in a group and its all a bit casual. I suggest you keep these people as mates and date only people outside your immediate social group and have proper dates and dont treat them as a buddy.
the chemistry between you guys probably just fades away. but hey! there's still plenty of time, the perfect dude's gonna walk into your life and you'll do anything to keep your relationship going (:
that happens to me to.. if you dont like getting dumped or them drifting away.. take control and when things arent going as good as they were then book the relationship and dummpp him.
Simple yo miscalculate by picking ur bf.
maybe u're not good enough u gotta change hun sorry but if that yhappens u re in a bad position lol
p.s. are u fat or sumthing?
We are still friends I dont understand. help.How come none of my relationships last for more than six months?
Some of the common reasons guys drift away would be
You aren't doing what you're told.
You're putting on weight.
Becoming too possessive
Trying to be too controlling.
Not very good in bed
I'm not suggesting all theses apply to you, I'm just suggesting the most common reasons.How come none of my relationships last for more than six months?
I think you are dating people you know in a group and its all a bit casual. I suggest you keep these people as mates and date only people outside your immediate social group and have proper dates and dont treat them as a buddy.
the chemistry between you guys probably just fades away. but hey! there's still plenty of time, the perfect dude's gonna walk into your life and you'll do anything to keep your relationship going (:
that happens to me to.. if you dont like getting dumped or them drifting away.. take control and when things arent going as good as they were then book the relationship and dummpp him.
Simple yo miscalculate by picking ur bf.
maybe u're not good enough u gotta change hun sorry but if that yhappens u re in a bad position lol
p.s. are u fat or sumthing?
What are the ';Bases'; in Relationships?
I always hear ';I got to first (2nd, 3rd, etc) base';. What does each mean?What are the ';Bases'; in Relationships?
1st base is the date, 2nd base is kissing and touching, 3rd base is oral sex and home run is the sex itself. If you hear any guys talking about ';bases'; they are not looking for a real relationship. They just want sex with a lot of girls so that they can brag about it and put notches on their belts.What are the ';Bases'; in Relationships?
Im pretty sure its not the above. Thats too morbid for me. I think it is as follows...
1st base is kissing...
2nd base is feeling up...
3rd base is oral...
and home plate is sex...
Hope that clears some stuff up for those nasty talking boys.
This is total guy talk. They have this locker room chat language. It's something like - the bases are levels leading up to a home run being sex. First base is mutal liking and second would be a kiss and so forth. I think you can catch my drift here.
To what my friends say here it is:
1st base: He kissed you on the cheek
2nd base: He gave you a make-out session
3rd base: he touched you someplace not appropriate
4th base: Ya....THAT happened....you could imagine.
According to them kay? I've got silly friends and they make up their own stuff. :)
It's different for everyone. Typically a base is getting to the kissing stage, holding hands stage, intimacy stage, etc.
Some people put them in different orders.
depends on who you ask, but generally:
1st - kissing and kissing neck/ears/etc
2nd - groping/playing with breasts
3rd - oral sex or hand jobs/fingering
home - sex
1st base: kissing mouth to mouth
2nd base: round up the breasts and fingering down there
3rd base: oral sex
4th base: full deal sex
1st is kissing/making out
2nd is feeling up
3rd is fingering
home is sex
Easy way of remembering is to remember the 4 F's:
French, Feel, Finger, F***
1st is usually kissing, making out
2nd is feeling up
3rd is some sort of sexual contact short of intercourse
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1st = kissing
2nd = making out
short stop = fingering, hand job
3rd = oral
Home = all the way baby
1st = kissing
2nd = feel you up (chest)
3rd = feel you up (down south)
home run = well all of the above and more :) enjoy
1st base is kissing, making out
2nd base is fingering and handjobs
3rd base is blow jobs
and home base is sex
That's the basis for it
1 base is just kissing, 2 base is touching, and 3 base is having sex!
first base is kiss makeout whatever,
second is hand job, fingering and yeah.
third is oral.
home is duhh..sex.
its the four F's
1st base - French
2nd base - Feel
3rd base - Finger
4th base - F*ck (includes oral)
1st base is kissing 2nd base is making out 3rd base is hand jobs and stuff and HOME RUN means sticking in it in her pooper
1st base is sex
2nd base in child
3rd base is divorce
home plate is death
1st is making out
2nd is feeling up
3rd is oral sex
home is sex
alwayz sayin it but its not like i know wat is it ..lol
1st is making out
2nd is hand jobs or fingering
3rd is oral sex
home plate or w.e is sexrosacea
1st base is the date, 2nd base is kissing and touching, 3rd base is oral sex and home run is the sex itself. If you hear any guys talking about ';bases'; they are not looking for a real relationship. They just want sex with a lot of girls so that they can brag about it and put notches on their belts.What are the ';Bases'; in Relationships?
Im pretty sure its not the above. Thats too morbid for me. I think it is as follows...
1st base is kissing...
2nd base is feeling up...
3rd base is oral...
and home plate is sex...
Hope that clears some stuff up for those nasty talking boys.
This is total guy talk. They have this locker room chat language. It's something like - the bases are levels leading up to a home run being sex. First base is mutal liking and second would be a kiss and so forth. I think you can catch my drift here.
To what my friends say here it is:
1st base: He kissed you on the cheek
2nd base: He gave you a make-out session
3rd base: he touched you someplace not appropriate
4th base: Ya....THAT happened....you could imagine.
According to them kay? I've got silly friends and they make up their own stuff. :)
It's different for everyone. Typically a base is getting to the kissing stage, holding hands stage, intimacy stage, etc.
Some people put them in different orders.
depends on who you ask, but generally:
1st - kissing and kissing neck/ears/etc
2nd - groping/playing with breasts
3rd - oral sex or hand jobs/fingering
home - sex
1st base: kissing mouth to mouth
2nd base: round up the breasts and fingering down there
3rd base: oral sex
4th base: full deal sex
1st is kissing/making out
2nd is feeling up
3rd is fingering
home is sex
Easy way of remembering is to remember the 4 F's:
French, Feel, Finger, F***
1st is usually kissing, making out
2nd is feeling up
3rd is some sort of sexual contact short of intercourse
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1st = kissing
2nd = making out
short stop = fingering, hand job
3rd = oral
Home = all the way baby
1st = kissing
2nd = feel you up (chest)
3rd = feel you up (down south)
home run = well all of the above and more :) enjoy
1st base is kissing, making out
2nd base is fingering and handjobs
3rd base is blow jobs
and home base is sex
That's the basis for it
1 base is just kissing, 2 base is touching, and 3 base is having sex!
first base is kiss makeout whatever,
second is hand job, fingering and yeah.
third is oral.
home is duhh..sex.
its the four F's
1st base - French
2nd base - Feel
3rd base - Finger
4th base - F*ck (includes oral)
1st base is kissing 2nd base is making out 3rd base is hand jobs and stuff and HOME RUN means sticking in it in her pooper
1st base is sex
2nd base in child
3rd base is divorce
home plate is death
1st is making out
2nd is feeling up
3rd is oral sex
home is sex
alwayz sayin it but its not like i know wat is it ..lol
1st is making out
2nd is hand jobs or fingering
3rd is oral sex
home plate or w.e is sex
How did the puritans in their belief in the covenant shape their individual relationships?
Everything was governed by the Bible and the church hierarchy. That's why it was called a ';Bible Commonwealth.'; All church members were responsible for looking out for one another. If someone wasn't at church they were checked up on, if someone acted in an unconventional way they might be labeled a witch. Of course all of these actions reflected one of the great contradictions of the Puritans doesn't it? If people were actually predestined to heaven or predestined to hell (as John Calvin taught and as the Puritans believed) then there was no need to ever attend church or read the Bible was there? If you are going to hell anyway and good works won't change the hand of God, then why be a good person? Why not cheat on your wife, why not set fire to sheep, why not trip blind people? If heaven and hell are decided before our birth then what good is religion anyway?
Therefore the Puritan belief system was based on an illogical and irrational premise to begin with wasn't it?
And there you have it from a real historian.
Therefore the Puritan belief system was based on an illogical and irrational premise to begin with wasn't it?
And there you have it from a real historian.
Why do dogs always ruin relationships?
who do dogs always ruin family relationships and cause the female of the sex to commit suicicide?Why do dogs always ruin relationships?
lolz huh?
lolz huh?
A food chain can be very complex since it considers all the feeding relationships between organisms.?
Is this true or false?? And if its not food chain, then what is it??A food chain can be very complex since it considers all the feeding relationships between organisms.?
False
its food web
False
its food web
Why can't I form close, normal relationships with people in school?
Is this just a phase of teenage years? Or is this another problem? Can this be fixed? Help, I think I'm so depressed.Why can't I form close, normal relationships with people in school?
look , dude , there are A LOT of factors that might affect this , things like that may be caused by people having bad first impressions of u, you said that you are depressed , its hard for someone to come over to a sad person that they dont really know and say hi, so my advice is to cheer up , and add more details so someone can help u properlyWhy can't I form close, normal relationships with people in school?
I suspect that you've had bad experiences in childhood. As a result, you don't have any idea of who you really are and you don't know yet what direction to take in your life.
I strongly recommend that you consult your guidance counsellor in school. This would be a good start for you to know yourself and learning to love, respect, and accept yourself. Because you cannot be intimate with anybody else unless you cannot be intimate on your own.
Similarly, you cannot love somebody else unless you don't know how to love yourself.
I hope that someday you would come to understand this. And I really hope that you heed my advice - it's for your own good.
One thing I have learned is that you have to be open to people. When I was younger, I was closed off and wouldn't let people in-- I was afraid if they knew the 'real' me they would be scared off. Once I started letting people know the real me, they liked me despite my faults and in many cases they have flaws of their own.
Good luck.
Mortals are hard to trust or get along with. We're nasty little creatures that are very particular. You should be fine though, theres all types of people and Im sure theres a crowd for you out there, you just haven't met them.
Maybe you have not found the right crowd. Don't worry, it takes time to get close friends. Just relax and be yourself, be friendly to others.
look , dude , there are A LOT of factors that might affect this , things like that may be caused by people having bad first impressions of u, you said that you are depressed , its hard for someone to come over to a sad person that they dont really know and say hi, so my advice is to cheer up , and add more details so someone can help u properlyWhy can't I form close, normal relationships with people in school?
I suspect that you've had bad experiences in childhood. As a result, you don't have any idea of who you really are and you don't know yet what direction to take in your life.
I strongly recommend that you consult your guidance counsellor in school. This would be a good start for you to know yourself and learning to love, respect, and accept yourself. Because you cannot be intimate with anybody else unless you cannot be intimate on your own.
Similarly, you cannot love somebody else unless you don't know how to love yourself.
I hope that someday you would come to understand this. And I really hope that you heed my advice - it's for your own good.
One thing I have learned is that you have to be open to people. When I was younger, I was closed off and wouldn't let people in-- I was afraid if they knew the 'real' me they would be scared off. Once I started letting people know the real me, they liked me despite my faults and in many cases they have flaws of their own.
Good luck.
Mortals are hard to trust or get along with. We're nasty little creatures that are very particular. You should be fine though, theres all types of people and Im sure theres a crowd for you out there, you just haven't met them.
Maybe you have not found the right crowd. Don't worry, it takes time to get close friends. Just relax and be yourself, be friendly to others.
Does anyone know any love songs that have to do with long distance relationships?
hey there delilah by plain white tsDoes anyone know any love songs that have to do with long distance relationships?
long distance relationships - asia cruise
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9hY7nHK6鈥?/a>
:]Does anyone know any love songs that have to do with long distance relationships?
1,393 Miles Away by Nawlage. You should listen to it. Its really good. (:
long distance relationships - asia cruise
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9hY7nHK6鈥?/a>
:]Does anyone know any love songs that have to do with long distance relationships?
1,393 Miles Away by Nawlage. You should listen to it. Its really good. (:
Do you believe that highschool relationships ever make it?
My parents got married when they were 19, they were high school sweethearts
It lasted 18 years..till my mommy died but it woulda lasted a lot longer, so yea I do :)Do you believe that highschool relationships ever make it?
well, me and my boytoy went to diff schools, but we still together atfter we both graduated, been like 3 years.
but who knows for the future, i dont like it when little teeny boppers are like: together 4evess 3/06/2009 i love himmm/herrr 鈾?br>
i hope we make it, i love him and he loves me, but if we dont i will cry and then get over it.
[eta: my rents have been together since they were like 16]Do you believe that highschool relationships ever make it?
Sometimes they do. Mine lasted until I graduated, she was a year behind. She got real jealous, and caught it an attitude constantly with me over nothing. I did appreciate her though, she was a good girl, just let the wrong people influence her.
Oh heck no!!!
If they did, you would be severely limited in your life experiences.
Get out and live more, love more, see more and experience more...
Don't limit yourself to the tiny little community that you grew up in.
Yes.I know some who are happily married. My uncle met his wife and they were boyfriend and girlfriend every since they were five year old children.They werea couple all their life. They got married when they were adults and had four children.
yes...I went to a highschool with a couple (highschool sweethearts)....they are still together...and he's a surgeon....they of course married and had several children..
NOpe
I do I'm living it me %26amp; my husband have been together since High School we met when I was 15 %26amp; he was 17 twenty three years later we are still together with no break~ups ever we have been inseparable.
i've had the pleasure of meeting a wonderful couple who have been together since freshman year of high school and just recently got married earlier this year in january.
Rarely, no relationship made during immaturity has high possibility of lasting long. It is mostly volatile.
The odds a very much against a high school relationship working, but I've definitely heard of stranger things happening.
They do.
Here in the UK, 'Soccer' Superstar Wayne Rooney met his now Wife Coleen in high school, they are expecting a baby now too....
well i know a few people that met their boyfriends from their and gotton married with them...but i think thats corny because they still act like their still in high school even though their married...its so stupid!
idk abt love relationships..but friendship can surely last..
i have a friend from school, and we are still friends..
and so does my sis.. and i know many more people, who are still good friends with their school friends..
I have seen only a few..most do not
thank God we were not in high school together....
good luck
smile
I am sure some do, and while the idea sounds romantic, I am glad mine didn't make it.
I hope so. Seems today is a throw it away society.
My french teacher's been married to her high school boyfriend for forty years :)
One in a billion, that is.
sometimes,but couples need to explore.
Not since the 1940's
well none of mine did, but i know a few that did. so i guess my answer would be yes. lol it's possible.
yes my parents meet when they were 14 and there still together
YES
Mine has....
Yes they do make it :))))
Sure, why not
only a few
Why would I disbelieve it. Make what.
yeah,why not...
nahhh
yesrosacea
It lasted 18 years..till my mommy died but it woulda lasted a lot longer, so yea I do :)Do you believe that highschool relationships ever make it?
well, me and my boytoy went to diff schools, but we still together atfter we both graduated, been like 3 years.
but who knows for the future, i dont like it when little teeny boppers are like: together 4evess 3/06/2009 i love himmm/herrr 鈾?br>
i hope we make it, i love him and he loves me, but if we dont i will cry and then get over it.
[eta: my rents have been together since they were like 16]Do you believe that highschool relationships ever make it?
Sometimes they do. Mine lasted until I graduated, she was a year behind. She got real jealous, and caught it an attitude constantly with me over nothing. I did appreciate her though, she was a good girl, just let the wrong people influence her.
Oh heck no!!!
If they did, you would be severely limited in your life experiences.
Get out and live more, love more, see more and experience more...
Don't limit yourself to the tiny little community that you grew up in.
Yes.I know some who are happily married. My uncle met his wife and they were boyfriend and girlfriend every since they were five year old children.They werea couple all their life. They got married when they were adults and had four children.
yes...I went to a highschool with a couple (highschool sweethearts)....they are still together...and he's a surgeon....they of course married and had several children..
NOpe
I do I'm living it me %26amp; my husband have been together since High School we met when I was 15 %26amp; he was 17 twenty three years later we are still together with no break~ups ever we have been inseparable.
i've had the pleasure of meeting a wonderful couple who have been together since freshman year of high school and just recently got married earlier this year in january.
Rarely, no relationship made during immaturity has high possibility of lasting long. It is mostly volatile.
The odds a very much against a high school relationship working, but I've definitely heard of stranger things happening.
They do.
Here in the UK, 'Soccer' Superstar Wayne Rooney met his now Wife Coleen in high school, they are expecting a baby now too....
well i know a few people that met their boyfriends from their and gotton married with them...but i think thats corny because they still act like their still in high school even though their married...its so stupid!
idk abt love relationships..but friendship can surely last..
i have a friend from school, and we are still friends..
and so does my sis.. and i know many more people, who are still good friends with their school friends..
I have seen only a few..most do not
thank God we were not in high school together....
good luck
smile
I am sure some do, and while the idea sounds romantic, I am glad mine didn't make it.
I hope so. Seems today is a throw it away society.
My french teacher's been married to her high school boyfriend for forty years :)
One in a billion, that is.
sometimes,but couples need to explore.
Not since the 1940's
well none of mine did, but i know a few that did. so i guess my answer would be yes. lol it's possible.
yes my parents meet when they were 14 and there still together
YES
Mine has....
Yes they do make it :))))
Sure, why not
only a few
Why would I disbelieve it. Make what.
yeah,why not...
nahhh
yes
What is the importance of relationships?
To learn and grow as a person.
To help others do the same.
In healthy ones we find stability...mental, physical and psychological.
Recent medical studies prove that isolation contributes to all sorts of illnesses, including different forms of cancer...we were never meant to be alone...';no man is an island';.What is the importance of relationships?
People need connections its jus how we are, without relationships either it be family, a partner, a friend we would be lonley, depressed and have a very sad existance.
Even animals form relationships.What is the importance of relationships?
It is part of our nature as social creatures, to be part of a family or society. This is where we can both share and receive love, have a sense of belongingness, a source of support, trust, commitment, strength etc.
to be able to establish a family because it's our instincts.
To help others do the same.
In healthy ones we find stability...mental, physical and psychological.
Recent medical studies prove that isolation contributes to all sorts of illnesses, including different forms of cancer...we were never meant to be alone...';no man is an island';.What is the importance of relationships?
People need connections its jus how we are, without relationships either it be family, a partner, a friend we would be lonley, depressed and have a very sad existance.
Even animals form relationships.What is the importance of relationships?
It is part of our nature as social creatures, to be part of a family or society. This is where we can both share and receive love, have a sense of belongingness, a source of support, trust, commitment, strength etc.
to be able to establish a family because it's our instincts.
Star sign and effects on relationships?
My virgo man has ignored me for 13 days so far. no trace of him at all. we were so happy before that. once he had told me that he has the character of sometimes neglecting one...he all the time said im her type. im sure he is not cheating,too.
do most virgo men ignore their favourite girl?how long would that take? what is their reason?
anyone expereinced it before?Star sign and effects on relationships?
Virgos are loners as Scorpios and Capricorns are.
They just need their space, quiet time and solitude.
It doesn't mean they won't have love in their lives, just not too many people. They are sensitive that way
Hope it helps
PeaceStar sign and effects on relationships?
Thank u for picking me as best answer!
my man is a virgo and he hasnt ignored me for days ever. but it is something i can see him capable of doing. he is very independent and doesn't rely on me....if that makes sense
Um.. I think so!
Yea i experienced b4 but not from a virgo..
Luanne xx
do most virgo men ignore their favourite girl?how long would that take? what is their reason?
anyone expereinced it before?Star sign and effects on relationships?
Virgos are loners as Scorpios and Capricorns are.
They just need their space, quiet time and solitude.
It doesn't mean they won't have love in their lives, just not too many people. They are sensitive that way
Hope it helps
PeaceStar sign and effects on relationships?
Thank u for picking me as best answer!
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my man is a virgo and he hasnt ignored me for days ever. but it is something i can see him capable of doing. he is very independent and doesn't rely on me....if that makes sense
Um.. I think so!
Yea i experienced b4 but not from a virgo..
Luanne xx
Why do people form relationships?
Is it true that attraction is just for breeding?Why do people form relationships?
Not really. Relationships help you to feel less alone in this world. There are situations, such as a breakup with a boyfriend or death in the family, where the comfort from another person helps the healing process and ultimately being able to move forward with your life, without losing yourself in this chaotic world.
Finding true friends is difficult, but once you realize that you have one...you will wonder what you did without them.Why do people form relationships?
relationships as in sexual relationships or relationships in gen? If relationships in gen. then it's because humans are social creatures and we thrive on the interaction of one another. Sexual relationships are mostly for breeding and expressing love
Imagine a flock of locusts devouring natural resources to keep moving ahead leaving a dust bowl behind.
Not really. Relationships help you to feel less alone in this world. There are situations, such as a breakup with a boyfriend or death in the family, where the comfort from another person helps the healing process and ultimately being able to move forward with your life, without losing yourself in this chaotic world.
Finding true friends is difficult, but once you realize that you have one...you will wonder what you did without them.Why do people form relationships?
relationships as in sexual relationships or relationships in gen? If relationships in gen. then it's because humans are social creatures and we thrive on the interaction of one another. Sexual relationships are mostly for breeding and expressing love
Imagine a flock of locusts devouring natural resources to keep moving ahead leaving a dust bowl behind.
Yesterday, someone asked a question about hookups, friends with benefits, and relationships?
One of the responses made light of those who had ';too many hookups to count'; and in a round about way suggested that they were ';sl*ts.'; In your opinion, how many hookups would that take?Yesterday, someone asked a question about hookups, friends with benefits, and relationships?
One time with me is all it would take. You'd be addicted.Yesterday, someone asked a question about hookups, friends with benefits, and relationships?
Ugggg why are people so hung up on labeling others who have had a lot of sexual partners, it is their decision weather or not they sleep with someone and well it does not make someone a ****. I have had quite a few partners over the years and don't regret any of them. IMO those who label others are either jealous or trying to make themselves feel better about something.
I don't think I'm qualified to make a judgement on this topic. Or maybe I'm overqualified.
It's not the amount of people, it's the people:time ratio that determines sluttiness.
For instance if I told you I slept with 100 men, but that I was 80 years old- would that be slutty?
Now if I told you I slept with 100 men and am 19 years old- then yes, ****.
more than 10
One time with me is all it would take. You'd be addicted.Yesterday, someone asked a question about hookups, friends with benefits, and relationships?
Ugggg why are people so hung up on labeling others who have had a lot of sexual partners, it is their decision weather or not they sleep with someone and well it does not make someone a ****. I have had quite a few partners over the years and don't regret any of them. IMO those who label others are either jealous or trying to make themselves feel better about something.
I don't think I'm qualified to make a judgement on this topic. Or maybe I'm overqualified.
It's not the amount of people, it's the people:time ratio that determines sluttiness.
For instance if I told you I slept with 100 men, but that I was 80 years old- would that be slutty?
Now if I told you I slept with 100 men and am 19 years old- then yes, ****.
more than 10
I'm confused about relationships and this guy who is my friend thinking that I like him.?
My friend told this guy that i like him but i dont and know it will be really awkward when i see him. i dont want to lose him as a friend, any advice?I'm confused about relationships and this guy who is my friend thinking that I like him.?
The next time you see him just say:';Hey, I'm sorry that (friends name) told you some things that are not true. I like you but as a friend. I just wanted to tell you that because I respect our friendship and don't want anything to change or be wierd between us.';
That's what I would do.I'm confused about relationships and this guy who is my friend thinking that I like him.?
confront him about it directly say if its true if it is true and see how he reacts if he doesn't look interested and doesnt keep eyecontact hes probably not that into you but if he smile and keeps eyecontact go for it you got nothing to loose girl
ur making me look bad :*( im gonna cry
hey go for it u have nothing to loose (i think)
(i already apologised)
The next time you see him just say:';Hey, I'm sorry that (friends name) told you some things that are not true. I like you but as a friend. I just wanted to tell you that because I respect our friendship and don't want anything to change or be wierd between us.';
That's what I would do.I'm confused about relationships and this guy who is my friend thinking that I like him.?
confront him about it directly say if its true if it is true and see how he reacts if he doesn't look interested and doesnt keep eyecontact hes probably not that into you but if he smile and keeps eyecontact go for it you got nothing to loose girl
ur making me look bad :*( im gonna cry
hey go for it u have nothing to loose (i think)
(i already apologised)
Why do MOST teenage relationships last only 1-2 weeks?
I've always wondered how people could go through life just getting into one shallow relationship after the other? I mean what are they thinking what is the psychology behind this? I;m 17 by the way and all my relationships since I was 13+ have been at least one year long before we broke up.Why do MOST teenage relationships last only 1-2 weeks?
The girl doesn't give it up maybe. Or she does and the dude still moves on. Sex and infatuation is the main factor in young boys relationships, sorry.Why do MOST teenage relationships last only 1-2 weeks?
puberty.
most kids like one person one day, another person the next.
mixed emotions.
i understand though.
or its just that they are sooo immature that they cant keep a steady relationship.
at least my relationships last at least a month.
because little kids should not be in relationships period. They should play with stuffed animals... and if they are in a relationship.. they shouldn't make that person their everything.
infatuation
thats not right u aparently did not meet the right person yet i know relations last for 3 years
just find your soul materosacea
The girl doesn't give it up maybe. Or she does and the dude still moves on. Sex and infatuation is the main factor in young boys relationships, sorry.Why do MOST teenage relationships last only 1-2 weeks?
puberty.
most kids like one person one day, another person the next.
mixed emotions.
i understand though.
or its just that they are sooo immature that they cant keep a steady relationship.
at least my relationships last at least a month.
because little kids should not be in relationships period. They should play with stuffed animals... and if they are in a relationship.. they shouldn't make that person their everything.
infatuation
thats not right u aparently did not meet the right person yet i know relations last for 3 years
just find your soul mate
Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
Reasons would be nice... and I know this is a touchy subject, but try to contain your racial comments a bit. =]Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
it is their business not mine.Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
Interracial dating is not ready a problem... I don't call it ';interracial dating';, I call it inter HUMAN dating. But what do I know? I'm a young black who dating a ';white girl';.
Individual choices are just that - individual choices. No one has the right to judge what other people do, especially when it doesn't involve them.
My gf is white and I've only ever dated white girls
Might date an asian but black girls just aren't attractive to me and I barely see east indians/other races etc
Yes its wrong your parents must be ashamed of you
it is their business not mine.Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
Interracial dating is not ready a problem... I don't call it ';interracial dating';, I call it inter HUMAN dating. But what do I know? I'm a young black who dating a ';white girl';.
Individual choices are just that - individual choices. No one has the right to judge what other people do, especially when it doesn't involve them.
My gf is white and I've only ever dated white girls
Might date an asian but black girls just aren't attractive to me and I barely see east indians/other races etc
Yes its wrong your parents must be ashamed of you
A few questions on relationships and your values?
1. what's your gender?
2. what's your age?
3. age range you date in?
4. sexual orientation?
5. how important is communication in a relationship to you?
6. how important is inclusion in your partners life to you?
7. single or in a relationship currently?
in depth answers preferred. thanks in advanceA few questions on relationships and your values?
female
31
5 years older, 2 years younger than my age.
Straight.
Communication is very important. If you cannot talk to me and discuss things intelligently, then it's a waste of time.
Inclusion is important when family is concerned. But, I can entertain myself so nights out with the boys are fine with me. If there's a game on and your friends are over, then I'll make some snacks and stay out of the way...unless I want to watch the game too.
I'm single now just got out of a long relationship.A few questions on relationships and your values?
1) female
2) 54
3) 35 to 60
4) hetero
5) very, without it there is no relationship
6) very much inclusion, except to give a down time alone. Yet, I would need to know everything that I am up against and vice versa
7) single
1. Male, but gender-dysphoric.
2. 41.
3. I have had four sexual partners, as follows (my age first, then hers):
20 - 19
21 - 27
25 - 19
26 - 36 (we're now married).
4. Asexual.
5. Very.
6. Indifferent.
7. Married 16 years, both faithful.
:p
2. what's your age?
3. age range you date in?
4. sexual orientation?
5. how important is communication in a relationship to you?
6. how important is inclusion in your partners life to you?
7. single or in a relationship currently?
in depth answers preferred. thanks in advanceA few questions on relationships and your values?
female
31
5 years older, 2 years younger than my age.
Straight.
Communication is very important. If you cannot talk to me and discuss things intelligently, then it's a waste of time.
Inclusion is important when family is concerned. But, I can entertain myself so nights out with the boys are fine with me. If there's a game on and your friends are over, then I'll make some snacks and stay out of the way...unless I want to watch the game too.
I'm single now just got out of a long relationship.A few questions on relationships and your values?
1) female
2) 54
3) 35 to 60
4) hetero
5) very, without it there is no relationship
6) very much inclusion, except to give a down time alone. Yet, I would need to know everything that I am up against and vice versa
7) single
1. Male, but gender-dysphoric.
2. 41.
3. I have had four sexual partners, as follows (my age first, then hers):
20 - 19
21 - 27
25 - 19
26 - 36 (we're now married).
4. Asexual.
5. Very.
6. Indifferent.
7. Married 16 years, both faithful.
:p
In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
Does it vary geographically? By religion? Economic class? Etc.?In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
all depends where, dublin is very tolerant but ireland as a whole is only just getting used to immigrants flooding into their country and as a whole they do not really participate in interacial relationships and will not publicly say/do anything about it but privatley they do not approve. there are always exceptions of course. ireland is not as innocent as it used to be and a lot of the youngsters are the same as in the uk. ie racist, binge drinking, drug taking yobos. peace.In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
Frantic drunken jerking off
all depends where, dublin is very tolerant but ireland as a whole is only just getting used to immigrants flooding into their country and as a whole they do not really participate in interacial relationships and will not publicly say/do anything about it but privatley they do not approve. there are always exceptions of course. ireland is not as innocent as it used to be and a lot of the youngsters are the same as in the uk. ie racist, binge drinking, drug taking yobos. peace.In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
Frantic drunken jerking off
Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
Reasons would be nice... and I know this is a touchy subject, but try to contain your racial comments a bit. =]Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
it is their business not mine.Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
Interracial dating is not ready a problem... I don't call it ';interracial dating';, I call it inter HUMAN dating. But what do I know? I'm a young black who dating a ';white girl';.
Individual choices are just that - individual choices. No one has the right to judge what other people do, especially when it doesn't involve them.
My gf is white and I've only ever dated white girls
Might date an asian but black girls just aren't attractive to me and I barely see east indians/other races etc
Yes its wrong your parents must be ashamed of you
it is their business not mine.Do you think interracial relationships are right or wrong?
Interracial dating is not ready a problem... I don't call it ';interracial dating';, I call it inter HUMAN dating. But what do I know? I'm a young black who dating a ';white girl';.
Individual choices are just that - individual choices. No one has the right to judge what other people do, especially when it doesn't involve them.
My gf is white and I've only ever dated white girls
Might date an asian but black girls just aren't attractive to me and I barely see east indians/other races etc
Yes its wrong your parents must be ashamed of you
A few questions on relationships and your values?
1. what's your gender?
2. what's your age?
3. age range you date in?
4. sexual orientation?
5. how important is communication in a relationship to you?
6. how important is inclusion in your partners life to you?
7. single or in a relationship currently?
in depth answers preferred. thanks in advanceA few questions on relationships and your values?
female
31
5 years older, 2 years younger than my age.
Straight.
Communication is very important. If you cannot talk to me and discuss things intelligently, then it's a waste of time.
Inclusion is important when family is concerned. But, I can entertain myself so nights out with the boys are fine with me. If there's a game on and your friends are over, then I'll make some snacks and stay out of the way...unless I want to watch the game too.
I'm single now just got out of a long relationship.A few questions on relationships and your values?
1) female
2) 54
3) 35 to 60
4) hetero
5) very, without it there is no relationship
6) very much inclusion, except to give a down time alone. Yet, I would need to know everything that I am up against and vice versa
7) single
1. Male, but gender-dysphoric.
2. 41.
3. I have had four sexual partners, as follows (my age first, then hers):
20 - 19
21 - 27
25 - 19
26 - 36 (we're now married).
4. Asexual.
5. Very.
6. Indifferent.
7. Married 16 years, both faithful.
:p
2. what's your age?
3. age range you date in?
4. sexual orientation?
5. how important is communication in a relationship to you?
6. how important is inclusion in your partners life to you?
7. single or in a relationship currently?
in depth answers preferred. thanks in advanceA few questions on relationships and your values?
female
31
5 years older, 2 years younger than my age.
Straight.
Communication is very important. If you cannot talk to me and discuss things intelligently, then it's a waste of time.
Inclusion is important when family is concerned. But, I can entertain myself so nights out with the boys are fine with me. If there's a game on and your friends are over, then I'll make some snacks and stay out of the way...unless I want to watch the game too.
I'm single now just got out of a long relationship.A few questions on relationships and your values?
1) female
2) 54
3) 35 to 60
4) hetero
5) very, without it there is no relationship
6) very much inclusion, except to give a down time alone. Yet, I would need to know everything that I am up against and vice versa
7) single
1. Male, but gender-dysphoric.
2. 41.
3. I have had four sexual partners, as follows (my age first, then hers):
20 - 19
21 - 27
25 - 19
26 - 36 (we're now married).
4. Asexual.
5. Very.
6. Indifferent.
7. Married 16 years, both faithful.
:p
In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
Does it vary geographically? By religion? Economic class? Etc.?In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
all depends where, dublin is very tolerant but ireland as a whole is only just getting used to immigrants flooding into their country and as a whole they do not really participate in interacial relationships and will not publicly say/do anything about it but privatley they do not approve. there are always exceptions of course. ireland is not as innocent as it used to be and a lot of the youngsters are the same as in the uk. ie racist, binge drinking, drug taking yobos. peace.In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
Frantic drunken jerking offrosacea
all depends where, dublin is very tolerant but ireland as a whole is only just getting used to immigrants flooding into their country and as a whole they do not really participate in interacial relationships and will not publicly say/do anything about it but privatley they do not approve. there are always exceptions of course. ireland is not as innocent as it used to be and a lot of the youngsters are the same as in the uk. ie racist, binge drinking, drug taking yobos. peace.In Ireland, generally speaking, what is the typical response to interracial relationships/marriages?
Frantic drunken jerking off
Saturday, August 21, 2010
How can sex make relationships better?
I don't think it will make it better...If the relationship isn't great before you have sex then sex won't change it.
Sex is blinding, it may seem better in the begginning, but it's not. Sex just brings a lot of unwanted emotions.How can sex make relationships better?
It depends on who you having sex with and why.
If its a person you just met, its obvious its only for the sex and pleasure.
If its a person you had a great relationship with, and its been about a few months. Its also obvious that the person acutally cares about you and loves you.How can sex make relationships better?
better?...maybe not the correct word...but I will say that it just brings the relationship to a whole other level. It is a way of expressing love, trust, attraction, a connection and a deep intimacy. I always say this...sex is sex...making love to someone is just different.
It brings together two people closer, but I believe an emotional connection should be reached before a sexual for a relationship to really work.
it doesnt really, in most situations it gets worse.
in other it just adds more fun in the bedrm.
Sex is blinding, it may seem better in the begginning, but it's not. Sex just brings a lot of unwanted emotions.How can sex make relationships better?
It depends on who you having sex with and why.
If its a person you just met, its obvious its only for the sex and pleasure.
If its a person you had a great relationship with, and its been about a few months. Its also obvious that the person acutally cares about you and loves you.How can sex make relationships better?
better?...maybe not the correct word...but I will say that it just brings the relationship to a whole other level. It is a way of expressing love, trust, attraction, a connection and a deep intimacy. I always say this...sex is sex...making love to someone is just different.
It brings together two people closer, but I believe an emotional connection should be reached before a sexual for a relationship to really work.
it doesnt really, in most situations it gets worse.
in other it just adds more fun in the bedrm.
Why does Canada have a higher legal age for same sex relationships?
To the best of my knowledge, that's not the case. The sections of the criminal code pertaining to age of consent do not make particular mention of same-sex relationships. Even with recent amendment of bill C-2 raising age of consent to 16.
You might be refering to section159 of the Criminal code that make anal intercourse a crime except when between husband and wife (any age) or unmaried couples (including gay men) over the age of 18. However, section 159 was struck down by Canadian courts:
';...criminal offence for anal intercourse can no longer stand in light of this court's decision in R. v. M.(C.), (1995), 98 C.C.C. (3d) 481 (Ont. C.A.). In that case, this court determined that s. 159(1) of the Criminal Code, the section providing for the offence of anal intercourse, is of no force or effect because it discriminates on the basis of age contrary to section 15 of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. ';Why does Canada have a higher legal age for same sex relationships?
Higher than what? Straight relationships, or other countries? Why does Canada have a higher legal age for same sex relationships?
Maybe it's an outdated law or whatever.
You might be refering to section159 of the Criminal code that make anal intercourse a crime except when between husband and wife (any age) or unmaried couples (including gay men) over the age of 18. However, section 159 was struck down by Canadian courts:
';...criminal offence for anal intercourse can no longer stand in light of this court's decision in R. v. M.(C.), (1995), 98 C.C.C. (3d) 481 (Ont. C.A.). In that case, this court determined that s. 159(1) of the Criminal Code, the section providing for the offence of anal intercourse, is of no force or effect because it discriminates on the basis of age contrary to section 15 of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. ';Why does Canada have a higher legal age for same sex relationships?
Higher than what? Straight relationships, or other countries? Why does Canada have a higher legal age for same sex relationships?
Maybe it's an outdated law or whatever.
Problems being in romantic relationships?
I have always had trouble being in romantic relationships. I want so much to have a girlfriend and a relationship, but I feel that I cannot get over my low self esteem (which is only low when it comes to women) and my fear of touching and being intimate. It has caused me alot of grief- has anyone here had or having simmilar problems? Am I the only one here?Problems being in romantic relationships?
I have the same problem!!!(Only I鈥檓 a girl). I like the idea of being in a relationship, but when a guy actually likes me, I don鈥檛 like it because I鈥檓 afraid of being intimate. lol, I鈥檓 glad I鈥檓 not the only one!Problems being in romantic relationships?
Hey dont beat yourself up youre a hopeless romantic and time will bring someone who feels exactly the way you do
I have the same problem!!!(Only I鈥檓 a girl). I like the idea of being in a relationship, but when a guy actually likes me, I don鈥檛 like it because I鈥檓 afraid of being intimate. lol, I鈥檓 glad I鈥檓 not the only one!Problems being in romantic relationships?
Hey dont beat yourself up youre a hopeless romantic and time will bring someone who feels exactly the way you do
What are the reproductive relationships found in the animal kingdom?
Intersexual: Female picks who she mates with
Intrasexual: Males compete over who mates with females.
Asexual: Reproduce by splitting in two
Homosexuality: Occurs is 10% of Earth's population
Intrasexual: Males compete over who mates with females.
Asexual: Reproduce by splitting in two
Homosexuality: Occurs is 10% of Earth's population
Why is it so hard for fellow Christians to veiw homosexual relationships as loving and commited?
It seems in our Christian or post Christian culture that fellow Christians veiw those in loving commited homosexual relationship as being always immoral or the type of people to sleep around with anyone. Why is this do you think?Why is it so hard for fellow Christians to veiw homosexual relationships as loving and commited?
Some Christians just feel that they are right and you are wrong and there can't be any middle ground because in their minds you are a sinner.I would never pass such judgements as I know it is not my place to condemn anyone to anything.Only God shall judge.But they, those who make the most anti gay speech, seem to think they know what God is thinking and what God wants.They forget that even Jesus was recorded as saying, ';Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.';What does that mean?It means that Jesus was telling those people who would judge someone that they should look at themselves and judge first.
Many people just can't get past the whole ';gay sex'; thing.They spend all their time thinking about gay sex and call it ';un-natural'; or so forth.I often wonder why they do that.I am not gay and could care less what gays do in their bed.If gays are happy then that is all that matters and I would never judge them for only God may do that.And I would not dare to presume to know how God would judge them for perhaps love is blind in God's eyes and God may see only that two people love each other.And love is a beautiful thing.
As to what 'pathfinder' said about the Catholic Church, I have found that the church's official stance has been to reject gays and reject human rights and equal rights for gays at every turn.I even knew a guy, who was gay, and his local church, a Catholic church, rejected to hold his funeral because he was gay.Love the sinner but not the sin?More like hate the person for reasons that you have judged.Why is it so hard for fellow Christians to veiw homosexual relationships as loving and commited?
i'll bet that many feel, how ever much they may be misguided, a sincere urge to resue the ';perishing.';
Personally, I believe they're using their faith and the bible as fig leaves to cover up their own insanity with the matter.
Simply put, bible writers reveal NOTHING about homosexuality.
I have been working with a lot of homosexuals and I have a friend who is gay, so I know, that some of them are in a loving, committed relationship.
Does that make homosexuality OK before God? Does it change what the Bible says about it? No.
It is said that the first 3years of our lives determine what our sexual orientation will be later on in life.
If that is true, then it becomes obvious, why most homosexuals think they were born that way.
The question for me, is not so much whether you were born with it or not, but rather whether it can be changed or not.
We all know that homosexuals can not change themselves and contrary to what all Christians are saying, it's not a choice for most of them!
I believe however, that God can change us, even our sexuality. He is our maker after all and He wouldn't ask us to be something, some of us couldn't possibly be.
I think most homosexuals believe that they have to become straight first, in order for God to accept them. That is not true.
All God is asking you to do, is to give your life to Him, so that He can change you and so you can become the person He created you to be.
That is not an easy decision to make, because it does mean that you have to be willing to let God transform you and it takes commitment as well!
That is true for all of us though, not just for homosexuals!
closed minded bigotry and hate
We as Catholic accept the homosexuals as brothers and sisters, but we also must admonish their action, because it goes against God's teachings and commandments.We love the sinner, but abhor the sin.
The 'loving and committed' relationship part of your question is totally acceptable. However, the sexual act between two men is equally totally unacceptable. I find it disgusting. Absence of sex in any type of relationship is not taboo so why can't homosexual men have the relationship without sex..............
IT NOT THAT WE DON'T VIEW IT AS A LOVING %26amp; COMMITED RELATIONSHIP, IT IS JUST WRONG.
GAYS GO AGAINST EVERYTHING THAT HOLDS THIS WORLD TOGETHER.
NOT RELIGON HERE, BUT LOGIC.
MEN AND WOMEN WERE MENT TO BE TOGETHER, TO PROCREATE AND POPULATE, JUST LIKE AND SPECIES ON THE EARTH.
GAYS CAN NOT NATURALLY HAVE KIDS, THERE FOR IT IS UNNATURAL TO BE GAY.
I ADMIRE THE COMMITMENT AND THE RELATIONSHIP, IT IS HARD ENOUGH TO MAKE A HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WORK, AND GAYS HAVE IT EVEN HARDER BECAUSWE OF EVERYTHING BEING AGAINST THEM.
IT'S THEIR CHOICE AND THEY WILL SUFFER THE CONCEQUENCES FOR IT.
For those who quote the bible when condeming it go here: http://www.godmademegay.com/Letter.htm
dont feel bad they think people in the bd/sm lifestyle are all devil worshippers...when i was in fact raised catholic..my hubby was raised baptist..we are what we are..guess what i love my Master and he loves his sub...that which binds us sets us free..enjoy bible beaters!!
you KNOW that it's not right that a man lies with a man. you KNOW it.
Its easier to see flaws, or perhaps percieved flaws, in others rather than concentrating on our own issues.
When Jesus said that he who is without sin may cast the first stone, I think that he was speaking to this phenomena.
I believe that any kind of love is good love and if we concentrate on improving ourselves instead of trying to point the finger at others, the world will be a nicer, happier place.
Because it's true! It IS immoral, it says so in the Bible. And homosexuality is about lust. You can try to talk around it all you want, but you know you will be punished by God - and you know it specifically known in the Bible that it IS immoral. It's unnatural. God didn't intend to have us going to the same sex sexually. You know it, and why do homosexuals and lesbians try to force it down our throats to accept it? All of a sudden, if we DON'T accept it, WE are considered weird. What's up with that?
They're ignorant and they need to open their eyes more.
These people don't understand because they've never been in the shoes of homosexuals. They don't realize how hard it is to be the scapegoats of society. Until they become homosexual (which is impossible), educated, or have a homosexual child, then they wouldn't ever understand.
It's like the old saying ';people fear what they don't understand';.rosacea
Some Christians just feel that they are right and you are wrong and there can't be any middle ground because in their minds you are a sinner.I would never pass such judgements as I know it is not my place to condemn anyone to anything.Only God shall judge.But they, those who make the most anti gay speech, seem to think they know what God is thinking and what God wants.They forget that even Jesus was recorded as saying, ';Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.';What does that mean?It means that Jesus was telling those people who would judge someone that they should look at themselves and judge first.
Many people just can't get past the whole ';gay sex'; thing.They spend all their time thinking about gay sex and call it ';un-natural'; or so forth.I often wonder why they do that.I am not gay and could care less what gays do in their bed.If gays are happy then that is all that matters and I would never judge them for only God may do that.And I would not dare to presume to know how God would judge them for perhaps love is blind in God's eyes and God may see only that two people love each other.And love is a beautiful thing.
As to what 'pathfinder' said about the Catholic Church, I have found that the church's official stance has been to reject gays and reject human rights and equal rights for gays at every turn.I even knew a guy, who was gay, and his local church, a Catholic church, rejected to hold his funeral because he was gay.Love the sinner but not the sin?More like hate the person for reasons that you have judged.Why is it so hard for fellow Christians to veiw homosexual relationships as loving and commited?
i'll bet that many feel, how ever much they may be misguided, a sincere urge to resue the ';perishing.';
Personally, I believe they're using their faith and the bible as fig leaves to cover up their own insanity with the matter.
Simply put, bible writers reveal NOTHING about homosexuality.
I have been working with a lot of homosexuals and I have a friend who is gay, so I know, that some of them are in a loving, committed relationship.
Does that make homosexuality OK before God? Does it change what the Bible says about it? No.
It is said that the first 3years of our lives determine what our sexual orientation will be later on in life.
If that is true, then it becomes obvious, why most homosexuals think they were born that way.
The question for me, is not so much whether you were born with it or not, but rather whether it can be changed or not.
We all know that homosexuals can not change themselves and contrary to what all Christians are saying, it's not a choice for most of them!
I believe however, that God can change us, even our sexuality. He is our maker after all and He wouldn't ask us to be something, some of us couldn't possibly be.
I think most homosexuals believe that they have to become straight first, in order for God to accept them. That is not true.
All God is asking you to do, is to give your life to Him, so that He can change you and so you can become the person He created you to be.
That is not an easy decision to make, because it does mean that you have to be willing to let God transform you and it takes commitment as well!
That is true for all of us though, not just for homosexuals!
closed minded bigotry and hate
We as Catholic accept the homosexuals as brothers and sisters, but we also must admonish their action, because it goes against God's teachings and commandments.We love the sinner, but abhor the sin.
The 'loving and committed' relationship part of your question is totally acceptable. However, the sexual act between two men is equally totally unacceptable. I find it disgusting. Absence of sex in any type of relationship is not taboo so why can't homosexual men have the relationship without sex..............
IT NOT THAT WE DON'T VIEW IT AS A LOVING %26amp; COMMITED RELATIONSHIP, IT IS JUST WRONG.
GAYS GO AGAINST EVERYTHING THAT HOLDS THIS WORLD TOGETHER.
NOT RELIGON HERE, BUT LOGIC.
MEN AND WOMEN WERE MENT TO BE TOGETHER, TO PROCREATE AND POPULATE, JUST LIKE AND SPECIES ON THE EARTH.
GAYS CAN NOT NATURALLY HAVE KIDS, THERE FOR IT IS UNNATURAL TO BE GAY.
I ADMIRE THE COMMITMENT AND THE RELATIONSHIP, IT IS HARD ENOUGH TO MAKE A HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WORK, AND GAYS HAVE IT EVEN HARDER BECAUSWE OF EVERYTHING BEING AGAINST THEM.
IT'S THEIR CHOICE AND THEY WILL SUFFER THE CONCEQUENCES FOR IT.
For those who quote the bible when condeming it go here: http://www.godmademegay.com/Letter.htm
dont feel bad they think people in the bd/sm lifestyle are all devil worshippers...when i was in fact raised catholic..my hubby was raised baptist..we are what we are..guess what i love my Master and he loves his sub...that which binds us sets us free..enjoy bible beaters!!
you KNOW that it's not right that a man lies with a man. you KNOW it.
Its easier to see flaws, or perhaps percieved flaws, in others rather than concentrating on our own issues.
When Jesus said that he who is without sin may cast the first stone, I think that he was speaking to this phenomena.
I believe that any kind of love is good love and if we concentrate on improving ourselves instead of trying to point the finger at others, the world will be a nicer, happier place.
Because it's true! It IS immoral, it says so in the Bible. And homosexuality is about lust. You can try to talk around it all you want, but you know you will be punished by God - and you know it specifically known in the Bible that it IS immoral. It's unnatural. God didn't intend to have us going to the same sex sexually. You know it, and why do homosexuals and lesbians try to force it down our throats to accept it? All of a sudden, if we DON'T accept it, WE are considered weird. What's up with that?
They're ignorant and they need to open their eyes more.
These people don't understand because they've never been in the shoes of homosexuals. They don't realize how hard it is to be the scapegoats of society. Until they become homosexual (which is impossible), educated, or have a homosexual child, then they wouldn't ever understand.
It's like the old saying ';people fear what they don't understand';.
What stage are most relationships in after a year? Can they grow into something more lasting?
My boyfriend and I started out hot and heavy a year ago. Now after a year of constant togetherness, he has told me that he isn't in love with me. He does love me, though. Just not enough to live together or get married. He feels like we have been rushing things. So now, he wants to back off and only see each other on weekends. He has stated that he does not want to date anyone else. Nor does he want to break up. It's just that after talking to his dad, he realizes that by rushing into a committment would do more harm than good. He has even went so far as to suggest that breaking up is not the answer. And that in time, his feelings could possibly change in regards to a committment. I love him and enjoy spending time with him. One part of me wants to give him the space he so desires. The other part of me wants to kick him to the curb. Furthermore, I am worried that continuing to have sex while the relationship is in limbo would just further complicate matters. Help! He's coming over now.What stage are most relationships in after a year? Can they grow into something more lasting?
If you are not together per se, and he does not want a committment, stop having sex. No matter how careful you are it could result in a pregnancy and this could complicate things, you don't want to be together for the wrong reasons.
If you are not together per se, and he does not want a committment, stop having sex. No matter how careful you are it could result in a pregnancy and this could complicate things, you don't want to be together for the wrong reasons.
Why do people have a hard time with black and white relationships? I thought our world can handle anything!?
This question may never have a real answer but I thought it is worth asking.Why do people have a hard time with black and white relationships? I thought our world can handle anything!?
It seems that throughout history there has always been conflict of mixed race relations. There will always be a black and white conflict.
(This could be greek and french too! I think it is just a difference between people and attitudes) People born in the early 1900's had prejudice against white anglo's and Indians, just as today we are ending an era of prejudice against black and white and now it seems middle easterners are the new black or white. This actually depends on which side of the coin you are on. But as long as we have people segregating themselves in society we will always have conflict in mixed race or nationalities. Examples: Holidays or events that single out a particular culture or offer better circumstances because of ones skin color should be discontinued. This would be the beginning of all living beings wearing blinders and accepting one another for whom they are.
The world can handle only what it has been taught to handle. Most of our prejudices have been taught. Ever notice young children? They do not notice nor care about differences of skin or race. It is only after they have matured and can understand their parents prejudices that the children mold into judgements.Why do people have a hard time with black and white relationships? I thought our world can handle anything!?
It just depends on where you are. I know of many regions or cities where it's nothing to see interracial couples.
That being said, many of the ones who have a problem with it are often either bigoted whites, or jealous blacks. I've heard it said many times that there are so few 'good' black men out there, it angers many black women to see them with white women. On the other hand, white men with black women conjures old images of white masters taking advantage of the female slaves.
I guess we still have a ways to go in this society, but I still think we have come a long way.
I have dated white, black, and hispanic, so obviously it isn't an issue to me.
Mainly because people are bigoted and racist
it is personal for them but not for me. Only friendship with other race for me. Im married to a white man.
It does? Only racist/prejudice f*cks have problems with someone else because of their skin color..so freakin stupid.
It seems that throughout history there has always been conflict of mixed race relations. There will always be a black and white conflict.
(This could be greek and french too! I think it is just a difference between people and attitudes) People born in the early 1900's had prejudice against white anglo's and Indians, just as today we are ending an era of prejudice against black and white and now it seems middle easterners are the new black or white. This actually depends on which side of the coin you are on. But as long as we have people segregating themselves in society we will always have conflict in mixed race or nationalities. Examples: Holidays or events that single out a particular culture or offer better circumstances because of ones skin color should be discontinued. This would be the beginning of all living beings wearing blinders and accepting one another for whom they are.
The world can handle only what it has been taught to handle. Most of our prejudices have been taught. Ever notice young children? They do not notice nor care about differences of skin or race. It is only after they have matured and can understand their parents prejudices that the children mold into judgements.Why do people have a hard time with black and white relationships? I thought our world can handle anything!?
It just depends on where you are. I know of many regions or cities where it's nothing to see interracial couples.
That being said, many of the ones who have a problem with it are often either bigoted whites, or jealous blacks. I've heard it said many times that there are so few 'good' black men out there, it angers many black women to see them with white women. On the other hand, white men with black women conjures old images of white masters taking advantage of the female slaves.
I guess we still have a ways to go in this society, but I still think we have come a long way.
I have dated white, black, and hispanic, so obviously it isn't an issue to me.
Mainly because people are bigoted and racist
it is personal for them but not for me. Only friendship with other race for me. Im married to a white man.
It does? Only racist/prejudice f*cks have problems with someone else because of their skin color..so freakin stupid.
What happens to codependent relationships?
I have been asking questions about my relationship and i found some stuff on the internet that kinda sounds like mine...as in a codependent relationship. it tell all about them but it doesnt say what happens when they stop being dependent on each other...do they learn to live as upright individuals in strong healthy relationship or do they just split up start a new?What happens to codependent relationships?
I am currently working through my own codependence with therapy. I was in a 5 year relationship with a guy who REALLY needed me. I tried to ';be there'; for both of us for a long time. In the end, he left me for another codependent type. We ';Needed'; each other but I've learned now how to be there for myself. When you sacrifice for another person thats great. When you stop taking care of yourself to do so that's not great. I found that when I started not being so needy I stopped attracting guys who (a) are needy, too or (b) need to ';rescue'; me. Although my relationship didn't work out I believe that with counselling and therapy anyone can recover. Codependency for me and many others developed in early childhood. It is possible to learn healthy habits dealing with relationships. However, it does take a lot of work and constant vigilance. Read ';Women Who Love Too Much.'; It helped me a whole lot.What happens to codependent relationships?
It has always, been my way to be independent. I find that you can't really depend on anyone else, but yourself, and the Good Lord of course.
My last relationship was with a guy who was co-dependent, but I wasn't. I broke it off and ended up having to get a AVO because he was psycho and wouldn't leave me alone.
I've since met another man and I am in another co-dependent relationship. We have been together for 5 years and we need each other. It may be deemed as unhealthy to other people, but my relationship works for me and if yours works for you no worries.
I am currently working through my own codependence with therapy. I was in a 5 year relationship with a guy who REALLY needed me. I tried to ';be there'; for both of us for a long time. In the end, he left me for another codependent type. We ';Needed'; each other but I've learned now how to be there for myself. When you sacrifice for another person thats great. When you stop taking care of yourself to do so that's not great. I found that when I started not being so needy I stopped attracting guys who (a) are needy, too or (b) need to ';rescue'; me. Although my relationship didn't work out I believe that with counselling and therapy anyone can recover. Codependency for me and many others developed in early childhood. It is possible to learn healthy habits dealing with relationships. However, it does take a lot of work and constant vigilance. Read ';Women Who Love Too Much.'; It helped me a whole lot.What happens to codependent relationships?
It has always, been my way to be independent. I find that you can't really depend on anyone else, but yourself, and the Good Lord of course.
My last relationship was with a guy who was co-dependent, but I wasn't. I broke it off and ended up having to get a AVO because he was psycho and wouldn't leave me alone.
I've since met another man and I am in another co-dependent relationship. We have been together for 5 years and we need each other. It may be deemed as unhealthy to other people, but my relationship works for me and if yours works for you no worries.
What are the 5 relationships of confucius?
Central to Confucius' teaching are relationships and social roles. There are five great relationships:
1.Kindness in the father and obedient devotion in the son
2.Gentility in the eldest brother and humility and respect in the younger
3.Righteous behavior in the husband and obedience in the wife
4.Humane consideration in elders and deference in juniors
5.Benevolence in rulers and loyalty of ministers and subjects
If these attitudes are practiced there will be harmony among all.
1.Kindness in the father and obedient devotion in the son
2.Gentility in the eldest brother and humility and respect in the younger
3.Righteous behavior in the husband and obedience in the wife
4.Humane consideration in elders and deference in juniors
5.Benevolence in rulers and loyalty of ministers and subjects
If these attitudes are practiced there will be harmony among all.
Do couples in seriousl relationships still use condoms during sex even if the g/f is on birth control?
My b/f and I haven't had sex yet, but I am on birth control. I was wondering though even if I am on birth control, and I'm planning on having sex with only him...should I still have my b/f use a condom every time?Do couples in seriousl relationships still use condoms during sex even if the g/f is on birth control?
If you are in a monogamous relationship, the condoms wouldn't be necessary....as long as you truly believe you can trust HIM to not have sex with anyone else.
From personal experience, I can tell you that even the sanctity of marriage sometimes isn't enough to keep a guy from cheating and bringing home STD's. If there's ANY risk to you that he might EVER fool around, then you should always use condoms.Do couples in seriousl relationships still use condoms during sex even if the g/f is on birth control?
Condom is not only for birth control, it also reduces the chance of STD. Pills is also not 100%. You should insist on using condoms.
Birth control does not protect you against STD. You should use a condom to help protect you. Now method is 100% effective. I suggest both of you get tested for STD regularly. This is your life we are talking about and it should be taken seriously.
untill u both get checked for stds it is safer to use a condom but if neither of u have any stds or infections i would say you can stop using a condom. just dont for get to take your birth control pills
YES! because you might get STDs! And its better to be safe than sorry!
ive been with my fiance for almost three years and im not on bc and we dont use condoms
it would probably be smart of you to use them atleast untill you are planing to have a baby or know that he is the one. better to be safe.
this varies per couple, i never use condoms, however i will tell you this, i had a baby when i was on the birth control pill, so you may want to consider until you two talk further into ';what might happen if you get pregnant'; because trust and believe being a single mommy is much harder than it appears ;-)
Always use a condom! My boyfriend and I were just using the ';pull out method'; and I just found out that I have HP (Human Papaloma) and now I have given it to him because we did not use condoms. It was a HUGE mistake and we both regret it. PLEASE use condoms.
in theory you should as a backup method and for STD prevention, but i don't and i think most people don't. when my boyfriend found out that i was on birth control he was so excited that we wouldn't have to be fumbling around putting on a condom in the heat of the moment. i was planning on still using condoms, but i didn't have the heart to break it to him. it could be a potentially stupid move on my part, but hormonal birth control is 99%+ effective.
Yes! The pill is not 100% effective so always use a condom! Unless you are planning on wanting a child. Always be safe, use condoms.
Only if you are 100% sure that he doesn't have any diseases that don't show, like STD's, not sure if you've heard, but stuff like Herpes, gonareha, AIDS, that sort of thing. You can take his word for it and live with the consequences for the rest of your life, or you can have him wear a condom and be sure. The choice is up to you. Did you now, that AIDS doesn't show up in tests for ten years after a person gets it? So, if your B/F had sex 9 years ago and that person had AIDS, he wouldn't know about it, and you wouldn't either. IS it really that important not to wear a condom for someone, although you'll probably have sex with, but you most certainly won't be marrying, and most likely won't be around in your old age, or for that matter, won't be around after he gives you herpes or anything else.
Yes, to protect against STDs. Unless you've both been tested.
Yea it's a good idea to wait and continue using a condom. You both should get tested and wait a little while still until you at least know for sure you're the only one he's with.
Using a condom is a very wise choice for several reasons. (1) birth control pills are not 100% effective, so using a condom would ensure you would not get pregnant. (2) protection against STD's. Is he the only person you have been with? And has he been with other women? Until you both know you are ';clean'; using a condom would be beneficial. When you both are ready to have children and both know you don't have any diseases, then you can stop the pill and the use of condoms all together.
I would still use a condom until you have been going out for about a year, and are very serious about eachother b/c in case you do get pregnent you know he won't ';run';, lack of a better word! that way you will be on the pill for a year and it will be in your system for a long while, again another safty precaution! This is what me and my boyfrind did, now we dont use a condom anymore!
sometimes just for fun.
the pill should be protection enough.
use a condom if u want to. do have in mind, men generally do not like condoms.
You should use a condom to protect yourselves from sexually transmitted diseases.
It is up to the couple. I'm on birth control and decided to only use condoms if I miss taking me pill. But just to be on the safe side condoms are probally best. I just can't get aroused when my man uses a condom.
no - unless you have reason to think he may be sleeping around. in such a case you would have to protect yourself from stds. the pill is 97% safe so...you choose...your body!rosacea
If you are in a monogamous relationship, the condoms wouldn't be necessary....as long as you truly believe you can trust HIM to not have sex with anyone else.
From personal experience, I can tell you that even the sanctity of marriage sometimes isn't enough to keep a guy from cheating and bringing home STD's. If there's ANY risk to you that he might EVER fool around, then you should always use condoms.Do couples in seriousl relationships still use condoms during sex even if the g/f is on birth control?
Condom is not only for birth control, it also reduces the chance of STD. Pills is also not 100%. You should insist on using condoms.
Birth control does not protect you against STD. You should use a condom to help protect you. Now method is 100% effective. I suggest both of you get tested for STD regularly. This is your life we are talking about and it should be taken seriously.
untill u both get checked for stds it is safer to use a condom but if neither of u have any stds or infections i would say you can stop using a condom. just dont for get to take your birth control pills
YES! because you might get STDs! And its better to be safe than sorry!
ive been with my fiance for almost three years and im not on bc and we dont use condoms
it would probably be smart of you to use them atleast untill you are planing to have a baby or know that he is the one. better to be safe.
this varies per couple, i never use condoms, however i will tell you this, i had a baby when i was on the birth control pill, so you may want to consider until you two talk further into ';what might happen if you get pregnant'; because trust and believe being a single mommy is much harder than it appears ;-)
Always use a condom! My boyfriend and I were just using the ';pull out method'; and I just found out that I have HP (Human Papaloma) and now I have given it to him because we did not use condoms. It was a HUGE mistake and we both regret it. PLEASE use condoms.
in theory you should as a backup method and for STD prevention, but i don't and i think most people don't. when my boyfriend found out that i was on birth control he was so excited that we wouldn't have to be fumbling around putting on a condom in the heat of the moment. i was planning on still using condoms, but i didn't have the heart to break it to him. it could be a potentially stupid move on my part, but hormonal birth control is 99%+ effective.
Yes! The pill is not 100% effective so always use a condom! Unless you are planning on wanting a child. Always be safe, use condoms.
Only if you are 100% sure that he doesn't have any diseases that don't show, like STD's, not sure if you've heard, but stuff like Herpes, gonareha, AIDS, that sort of thing. You can take his word for it and live with the consequences for the rest of your life, or you can have him wear a condom and be sure. The choice is up to you. Did you now, that AIDS doesn't show up in tests for ten years after a person gets it? So, if your B/F had sex 9 years ago and that person had AIDS, he wouldn't know about it, and you wouldn't either. IS it really that important not to wear a condom for someone, although you'll probably have sex with, but you most certainly won't be marrying, and most likely won't be around in your old age, or for that matter, won't be around after he gives you herpes or anything else.
Yes, to protect against STDs. Unless you've both been tested.
Yea it's a good idea to wait and continue using a condom. You both should get tested and wait a little while still until you at least know for sure you're the only one he's with.
Using a condom is a very wise choice for several reasons. (1) birth control pills are not 100% effective, so using a condom would ensure you would not get pregnant. (2) protection against STD's. Is he the only person you have been with? And has he been with other women? Until you both know you are ';clean'; using a condom would be beneficial. When you both are ready to have children and both know you don't have any diseases, then you can stop the pill and the use of condoms all together.
I would still use a condom until you have been going out for about a year, and are very serious about eachother b/c in case you do get pregnent you know he won't ';run';, lack of a better word! that way you will be on the pill for a year and it will be in your system for a long while, again another safty precaution! This is what me and my boyfrind did, now we dont use a condom anymore!
sometimes just for fun.
the pill should be protection enough.
use a condom if u want to. do have in mind, men generally do not like condoms.
You should use a condom to protect yourselves from sexually transmitted diseases.
It is up to the couple. I'm on birth control and decided to only use condoms if I miss taking me pill. But just to be on the safe side condoms are probally best. I just can't get aroused when my man uses a condom.
no - unless you have reason to think he may be sleeping around. in such a case you would have to protect yourself from stds. the pill is 97% safe so...you choose...your body!
Who know any good thing about Alpha Phi Alpha? Can you find any true ones to when it comes to relationships?
google might know; sorry i do not.
Why is it that women keep going back into their (already) abusive relationships?
because in their heads they think there is hope that they will change,people will do anything when they are in love and sometimes will put up with anything from the other person when they are really in love with them its not easy just to walk away from someone you care and love for i was in that situation a few years ago and in the end i had the courage to do it but you will not understand unless you have been through that sort of thing yourself the other person that is the abuser becomes a manipulator its all the sorrys and i will change that makes the other person think there is a chance :)Why is it that women keep going back into their (already) abusive relationships?
Its sad but some of the women I have spoken with....well if you got to know them then you would understand that they are programmed that way and they try to surround themselves with what is comfortable to them. What theyre used to. Usually. They cant really see beyond that and they are constantly trying to please them. They think that they arent good enough. They dont think they can find someone else its a matter of self esteem.Why is it that women keep going back into their (already) abusive relationships?
In an abusive relationship woman offend feel that the fight or why he is screaming is because he/she said or did something. They will lie if they get hit and tell people oh he is nice guy he didn't mean all those things he/she said. Woman are not the only ones who can get caught in an abusive relationship
I think a lot of abused women are afraid. Many times the abuser will not only threaten harm against them but other family members.
Its sad but some of the women I have spoken with....well if you got to know them then you would understand that they are programmed that way and they try to surround themselves with what is comfortable to them. What theyre used to. Usually. They cant really see beyond that and they are constantly trying to please them. They think that they arent good enough. They dont think they can find someone else its a matter of self esteem.Why is it that women keep going back into their (already) abusive relationships?
In an abusive relationship woman offend feel that the fight or why he is screaming is because he/she said or did something. They will lie if they get hit and tell people oh he is nice guy he didn't mean all those things he/she said. Woman are not the only ones who can get caught in an abusive relationship
I think a lot of abused women are afraid. Many times the abuser will not only threaten harm against them but other family members.
Does evolution explain symbiotic relationships in the wild? ?
For example the Cockroach can not digest wood on its own, so it has protozoans and bacteria living in its intestine digesting the cellulose. They little critters take the nutrients out of the wood for the cockroach and without them the cockroach dies and visa versa. Does evolution explain symbiotic relationships in the wild? ?
For a fascinating insight into this try reading the extended phenotype by Richard Dawkins.
The co evolution principle would say that they evolve together. The Cockroach ancestor would have had some ability to digest food, but after getting some protozoa into their gut would have eventually survived better using this ';way of life'; than other competing populations of protoroachs. The protozoa would adapt to the life inside the roach's guts, losing the ability to survive outside. Effectively the Protozoan's genotype ';reaches inside'; the Roach's genotype and takes the place of the genes ';for'; digestion.
Does evolution explain symbiotic relationships in the wild? ?
Yes, it does. The term is co-evolution.
Those roaches with intestines more hospitable to the protozoa have a survival advantage because they gain a new food supply available, and the protozoa have a survival advantage because they an environment where they have an influx of wood particles broken (chewed) to create extensive surface area.
Cockroaches and protozoa appeared independently. Although protozoa appeared first (before woody plants, as well), the species that formed the initial symbiotic relationship appeared at roughly the same time.
Here an analogy. Chocolate was ancient. Then someone figured out how to make solid chocolate. Peanuts are ancient. Then someone figure out how to make peanut butter. These are independent ';evolution';. Someone put peanut butter in a chocolate cup and it sold -- ';symbiosis';. As they went into production, they reformulated the chocolate so it wouldn't soften from the peanut oil and the peanut butter to get a better texture contrast with the chocolate so the could sell more -- ';co-evolution';.
Yes, I suppose it could to a certain extent. Although, mostly by extension... Natural Selection is what is probably helping to form this relationship and Evolution is related to natural selection. Natural selection is where an animal gains some sort of ability that allows them to have a better chance of survival. The cockroach and bacteria work together because it gives them a survival advantage.
Yes. The cockroach would originally been something else that did not eat wood. As it gained microorganisms that allowed it to digest wood, it started eating wood and evolved into the cockroach.
For a fascinating insight into this try reading the extended phenotype by Richard Dawkins.
The co evolution principle would say that they evolve together. The Cockroach ancestor would have had some ability to digest food, but after getting some protozoa into their gut would have eventually survived better using this ';way of life'; than other competing populations of protoroachs. The protozoa would adapt to the life inside the roach's guts, losing the ability to survive outside. Effectively the Protozoan's genotype ';reaches inside'; the Roach's genotype and takes the place of the genes ';for'; digestion.
Does evolution explain symbiotic relationships in the wild? ?
Yes, it does. The term is co-evolution.
Those roaches with intestines more hospitable to the protozoa have a survival advantage because they gain a new food supply available, and the protozoa have a survival advantage because they an environment where they have an influx of wood particles broken (chewed) to create extensive surface area.
Cockroaches and protozoa appeared independently. Although protozoa appeared first (before woody plants, as well), the species that formed the initial symbiotic relationship appeared at roughly the same time.
Here an analogy. Chocolate was ancient. Then someone figured out how to make solid chocolate. Peanuts are ancient. Then someone figure out how to make peanut butter. These are independent ';evolution';. Someone put peanut butter in a chocolate cup and it sold -- ';symbiosis';. As they went into production, they reformulated the chocolate so it wouldn't soften from the peanut oil and the peanut butter to get a better texture contrast with the chocolate so the could sell more -- ';co-evolution';.
Yes, I suppose it could to a certain extent. Although, mostly by extension... Natural Selection is what is probably helping to form this relationship and Evolution is related to natural selection. Natural selection is where an animal gains some sort of ability that allows them to have a better chance of survival. The cockroach and bacteria work together because it gives them a survival advantage.
Yes. The cockroach would originally been something else that did not eat wood. As it gained microorganisms that allowed it to digest wood, it started eating wood and evolved into the cockroach.
Tips for long distance relationships?
Well, me and my boyfriend have a 5 month old son together. But he lives in Chicago and goes to school there, and I live in North Carolina and go to school here.(both in college)
So we only see each other at Christmas and during the summer
What are some tips for making a long distance realtionship work?Tips for long distance relationships?
they never work out
but you guys have a reason to try and make it work
but again they never work out
don't put some much time and energy into
this relationshipTips for long distance relationships?
well sometimes emails suck, so maybe you could get skype on your computer so that way you to can see each other and talk to teach other AND he can see his baby. =)
So we only see each other at Christmas and during the summer
What are some tips for making a long distance realtionship work?Tips for long distance relationships?
they never work out
but you guys have a reason to try and make it work
but again they never work out
don't put some much time and energy into
this relationshipTips for long distance relationships?
well sometimes emails suck, so maybe you could get skype on your computer so that way you to can see each other and talk to teach other AND he can see his baby. =)
Does our need to attach ourselves to mental activity, material objects and relationships etc. stem from.......
Does our need to attach ourselves to mental activity, material objects and relationships etc.
come from our need to have security on all levels of life, to avoid the feeling of uneasiness/fear, inorder to find firm ground, which stems from our ignornance of the movement/impermanency and uniquness of existence?
or
Is the need for security, a fear of loss, which is bred by attachment. The root of attachment being ignorance?
English is not my mother tongue.Does our need to attach ourselves to mental activity, material objects and relationships etc. stem from.......
Hi Louis,
Yes, I agree with the young lady. This is a very good philosophical question. It's my belief that people who are truly in harmony with themselves and their surroundings don't need all these things. Tibetan monks and others who are more highly evolved spiritually don't need the outer trappings. It's the highly materialistic societies who go to the mall where shopping is their form of worship, and must always been in contact with others, via a cell phone etc. that appear frenetic and out of control. We in N.A. are a long way from true wisdom and understanding.Does our need to attach ourselves to mental activity, material objects and relationships etc. stem from.......
Attachment to objects or material possessions would surely imply a lack of good emotional attachments, or at least that those have been jettisoned in favour of something that cannot talk back!
Attachment to mental activity.... well without that I would be terribly bored, so I find it OK to have that kind of attachment.
Attachment to relationships is expected - we are social animals, and if we look at a babies need to bond we can see that it is absolutely essential for good mental health.
The root of attachment is only ignorance in the sense that it is a primal need, and not an intellectual one.
It is 'natural' to want to feel secure. What is debateable of course is the methods that people use to achieve that feeling of security - usually finding that material possessions are a poor substitute for human interaction.
I like your question. :-)
I do think our need to attach ourselves to mental activity and material objects stems from our need to possess security and certainty (but I do not think that security and certainty actually exist.)
I think that a fear of loss is really the same as a fear of insecurity, because loss makes one feel insecure and breeds the same feelings, and I also think that attachment is the same as mental activity and material objects, all of which appear to be mere distractions keeping us from the ';moment'; and the fear we hold of dying, of losing ourselves, of losing our idea of some sort of security.
If we could only let go of all of that and let ourselves die to ourselves, wouldn't that really be living, without all the fear, the associations, the memories, the ambitions, the insanity? Wouldn't we really be ';one with everything'; then, in the moment? I don't know; I'm too scared! ;-)
It is not a need. It is part of your growing up, experience. From the day you were born, your ego, was/is fed with all this garbage, which you carry around as baggage. Buddhist are a good example of what you state, is not true. They are still human and fail every now and then, but only when they are alone. The moment someone enters their 'space', they immediately think: ';What message is he/she bringing? What can I learn, and what must I teach?'; (not preach!)
Peace.
come from our need to have security on all levels of life, to avoid the feeling of uneasiness/fear, inorder to find firm ground, which stems from our ignornance of the movement/impermanency and uniquness of existence?
or
Is the need for security, a fear of loss, which is bred by attachment. The root of attachment being ignorance?
English is not my mother tongue.Does our need to attach ourselves to mental activity, material objects and relationships etc. stem from.......
Hi Louis,
Yes, I agree with the young lady. This is a very good philosophical question. It's my belief that people who are truly in harmony with themselves and their surroundings don't need all these things. Tibetan monks and others who are more highly evolved spiritually don't need the outer trappings. It's the highly materialistic societies who go to the mall where shopping is their form of worship, and must always been in contact with others, via a cell phone etc. that appear frenetic and out of control. We in N.A. are a long way from true wisdom and understanding.Does our need to attach ourselves to mental activity, material objects and relationships etc. stem from.......
Attachment to objects or material possessions would surely imply a lack of good emotional attachments, or at least that those have been jettisoned in favour of something that cannot talk back!
Attachment to mental activity.... well without that I would be terribly bored, so I find it OK to have that kind of attachment.
Attachment to relationships is expected - we are social animals, and if we look at a babies need to bond we can see that it is absolutely essential for good mental health.
The root of attachment is only ignorance in the sense that it is a primal need, and not an intellectual one.
It is 'natural' to want to feel secure. What is debateable of course is the methods that people use to achieve that feeling of security - usually finding that material possessions are a poor substitute for human interaction.
I like your question. :-)
I do think our need to attach ourselves to mental activity and material objects stems from our need to possess security and certainty (but I do not think that security and certainty actually exist.)
I think that a fear of loss is really the same as a fear of insecurity, because loss makes one feel insecure and breeds the same feelings, and I also think that attachment is the same as mental activity and material objects, all of which appear to be mere distractions keeping us from the ';moment'; and the fear we hold of dying, of losing ourselves, of losing our idea of some sort of security.
If we could only let go of all of that and let ourselves die to ourselves, wouldn't that really be living, without all the fear, the associations, the memories, the ambitions, the insanity? Wouldn't we really be ';one with everything'; then, in the moment? I don't know; I'm too scared! ;-)
It is not a need. It is part of your growing up, experience. From the day you were born, your ego, was/is fed with all this garbage, which you carry around as baggage. Buddhist are a good example of what you state, is not true. They are still human and fail every now and then, but only when they are alone. The moment someone enters their 'space', they immediately think: ';What message is he/she bringing? What can I learn, and what must I teach?'; (not preach!)
Peace.
What are the different religious stands on same-sex marriages and relationships?
I would say the majority of Protestant religions who truly follow the Bible find that numerous texts clearly condemn homosexual behavior, therefore marriages would be condemned as well.
For the Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox Christians, not only the Bible, but also ';natural law'; and the writings of the Church fathers clearly condemn gay sex.
There are some sects that call themselves Christian that take different (erroneous) interpretations of Scripture and use this to sanction gay sex and marriage, but they would not be in the majority. There are also many who attend Protestant and Catholic Churches but refuse to believe the teachings of their own denomination (which doesn't make sense).What are the different religious stands on same-sex marriages and relationships?
No religion had allowed same -sex marriagesWhat are the different religious stands on same-sex marriages and relationships?
Wicca allows for same-sex relationships %26amp; marriages. So the person who said ';no religion...'; has no clue what they're talking about. The problem is individual state laws vary.
Traditionally, the largest world religions like Catholicism, Protestantism, Judaism and Islam, teach that homosexual activity and marriage violate the Natural Law that God estalished. Gay sex is clearly unnatural and perverted and cannot result in offspring.
Also, their religious texts (The Bible, Qu'ran, etc.) clearly condemn homosexuality.
Many other world religions like Hindu, Buddhism, etc. also traditionally teach gay sex is immoral.
There are a growing number of ';religious'; people who believe there is nothing wrong with homosexuality, and some have even started churches/sects simply for the purpose of teaching this fallacy, but the fact remains that most mainline churches still condemn it and the burden of proof is left squarely on the side of the radicals.
The ';religious stands'; make no difference as to what is ';right or wrong';. Same sex relationships of any kind are contradictory to nature(un-natural).
Christianity is split on the issue. Some major denominations denounce same sex relationships, while other major denominations go as far as providing ceremonies (marriage) and even having homosexual priests.
Buddhism has nothing to say on the matter.
Paganism in general, embraces homosexuals and same sex ';hand fasting.'; (marriage)
They should be allowed to marry just like everyone else, in my opinion. I see nothing wrong with it.
Veritas said it perfectly!rosacea
For the Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox Christians, not only the Bible, but also ';natural law'; and the writings of the Church fathers clearly condemn gay sex.
There are some sects that call themselves Christian that take different (erroneous) interpretations of Scripture and use this to sanction gay sex and marriage, but they would not be in the majority. There are also many who attend Protestant and Catholic Churches but refuse to believe the teachings of their own denomination (which doesn't make sense).What are the different religious stands on same-sex marriages and relationships?
No religion had allowed same -sex marriagesWhat are the different religious stands on same-sex marriages and relationships?
Wicca allows for same-sex relationships %26amp; marriages. So the person who said ';no religion...'; has no clue what they're talking about. The problem is individual state laws vary.
Traditionally, the largest world religions like Catholicism, Protestantism, Judaism and Islam, teach that homosexual activity and marriage violate the Natural Law that God estalished. Gay sex is clearly unnatural and perverted and cannot result in offspring.
Also, their religious texts (The Bible, Qu'ran, etc.) clearly condemn homosexuality.
Many other world religions like Hindu, Buddhism, etc. also traditionally teach gay sex is immoral.
There are a growing number of ';religious'; people who believe there is nothing wrong with homosexuality, and some have even started churches/sects simply for the purpose of teaching this fallacy, but the fact remains that most mainline churches still condemn it and the burden of proof is left squarely on the side of the radicals.
The ';religious stands'; make no difference as to what is ';right or wrong';. Same sex relationships of any kind are contradictory to nature(un-natural).
Christianity is split on the issue. Some major denominations denounce same sex relationships, while other major denominations go as far as providing ceremonies (marriage) and even having homosexual priests.
Buddhism has nothing to say on the matter.
Paganism in general, embraces homosexuals and same sex ';hand fasting.'; (marriage)
They should be allowed to marry just like everyone else, in my opinion. I see nothing wrong with it.
Veritas said it perfectly!
How do you learn to trust people after so many distrustful relationships?
By believing in Your SELF, FIRST %26amp; Foremost, -that WHATEVER happens to You- that You WILL survive... And that having ANY kind of Friends- can only HELP..! Good luck! :)How do you learn to trust people after so many distrustful relationships?
As a mental health professional with 20+ years experience, I have to ask myself the question why, and how, you get yourself in so many distrustful relationships? In the mental health profession, we look for trends and patterns, and you've revealed one big one about yourself, which is that you get into relationships that either innately are distrustful, or become distrustful. There are plenty of reasons for that, some more valid and consistent than others, but, one thing we would notice is that YOU are, consistently, in distrustful relationships. So I would ask, what do you ';bring-to-the-table'; that may help them be distrustful, because we can't know about the next person you'll develop a relationship with, but we can know a bit about you, if by no other method than listening to your question. Mental health is a very probing profession, and an answer to your question may come in a probing into what YOU bring-to-the-table in a relationship. I hope you find that and that it helps you find a way to improve your part in relating. God Bless you.How do you learn to trust people after so many distrustful relationships?
You need to trust yourself first. The next relationship you're gonna have is a brand new one, and that it'll be wonderful. Go into a relationship only if you feel ready, though. Don't see it as a bad thing...see it as a good thing!! Focus on the first kisses, and friendship you get out of it....it's really good to have someone with you. Just don't tolerate something you don't approve of! Trust your instincts!
i personally feel that people have to trust themselves before they trust others. i have a huge problem with trusting others so i feel you!
As a mental health professional with 20+ years experience, I have to ask myself the question why, and how, you get yourself in so many distrustful relationships? In the mental health profession, we look for trends and patterns, and you've revealed one big one about yourself, which is that you get into relationships that either innately are distrustful, or become distrustful. There are plenty of reasons for that, some more valid and consistent than others, but, one thing we would notice is that YOU are, consistently, in distrustful relationships. So I would ask, what do you ';bring-to-the-table'; that may help them be distrustful, because we can't know about the next person you'll develop a relationship with, but we can know a bit about you, if by no other method than listening to your question. Mental health is a very probing profession, and an answer to your question may come in a probing into what YOU bring-to-the-table in a relationship. I hope you find that and that it helps you find a way to improve your part in relating. God Bless you.How do you learn to trust people after so many distrustful relationships?
You need to trust yourself first. The next relationship you're gonna have is a brand new one, and that it'll be wonderful. Go into a relationship only if you feel ready, though. Don't see it as a bad thing...see it as a good thing!! Focus on the first kisses, and friendship you get out of it....it's really good to have someone with you. Just don't tolerate something you don't approve of! Trust your instincts!
i personally feel that people have to trust themselves before they trust others. i have a huge problem with trusting others so i feel you!
How to create E-R diagram,which documents the entities and relationships involved in Assets Management system?
create a relational schema to hold the necessary information.identify the tables,perform normalisation to the tables and fully implement the code with necessary validations using MS-Acess/DBASE or any other similar package. provide necessary documentation and coding for the project.
(assumptions can be made wherever necessary)How to create E-R diagram,which documents the entities and relationships involved in Assets Management system?
There are several good E-R modeling tools already on the market that will help to automate the definition of business systems. Also, I believe you can purchase standard models that can be loaded into the tool. The issue will be if your company is willing to invest in costly Case Tools/products up-front without seeing a payback in the near term.
Information engineering (IE) methodology and
I-CASE (integrated CASE) tools supporting IE can provide an integrated view across major
stages of enterprise-wide information-system development: information strategy planning,
business area analysis, system design, and construction. When I left the industry, I used IEW (Information Engineering Workbench) which I think is now called ADW (Application Development Workbench). There was also IEF (Information Engineering Facility).
Good Luck on your adventure!!!How to create E-R diagram,which documents the entities and relationships involved in Assets Management system?
This Sounds Like a Visio Based issue, or at the least Org Chart 6 or above
Chart the Connections and Live link the data; Thats the way I would proceed
(assumptions can be made wherever necessary)How to create E-R diagram,which documents the entities and relationships involved in Assets Management system?
There are several good E-R modeling tools already on the market that will help to automate the definition of business systems. Also, I believe you can purchase standard models that can be loaded into the tool. The issue will be if your company is willing to invest in costly Case Tools/products up-front without seeing a payback in the near term.
Information engineering (IE) methodology and
I-CASE (integrated CASE) tools supporting IE can provide an integrated view across major
stages of enterprise-wide information-system development: information strategy planning,
business area analysis, system design, and construction. When I left the industry, I used IEW (Information Engineering Workbench) which I think is now called ADW (Application Development Workbench). There was also IEF (Information Engineering Facility).
Good Luck on your adventure!!!How to create E-R diagram,which documents the entities and relationships involved in Assets Management system?
This Sounds Like a Visio Based issue, or at the least Org Chart 6 or above
Chart the Connections and Live link the data; Thats the way I would proceed
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