Whats life and relationships all about is there a surefire way of being positive no matter what?

yes, decide to be positive no matter what. take nothing personally, and view every experience as a teacher. what's being taught? research in the areas of psychology and mysticism and you'll find the answer. btw check out *the complete idiot's guide to toltec wisdom* for some helpful hints ;-)Whats life and relationships all about is there a surefire way of being positive no matter what?
Develop an affinity for pain.Whats life and relationships all about is there a surefire way of being positive no matter what?
Wow that is a question that we would all love to know the answer to.I believe that you have to be positive most of the time and one way to manage that is to think for a couple of seconds before you speak.It gives you time not to regret a sudden comment and also to work out a positive reaction when you can.However there are times when you must be negative but even then try to find the best slant .For example if someone asks you out and you do not want to go ,your answer has to leave them feeling that you care about the world and them.Tricky but worth it in the long run.


Good luck with your life and relationships
I believe that having integrity,and knowing when when one of the two have exhausted thier resorces,and being the strong one and move on.Or bask in the love you feel from it.
A surefire way of being positive no matter what: be an idiot.





Life and relationships is all about the being aware enough to appreciate and encourage the ';ups'; while being strong and broad-minded enough to deal with the ';downs';.





Xan Shui,


Philosophic Philanthropist, Honest Man
The way to remain positive lies in knowing everything has the potential to change and to not become upset when it happens.
Life is made up of things you can't change or things that might happen!


Learn to change the only thing you can control which is YOU. Always missing buses or being late? You can change the behaviour that might make it happen.Getting up 10 mins earlier could be enough and the more you think Positive (I will catch the bus) the easier it becomes to change.


As for what might happen, if worrying is not going to change the outcome then dont.


The bad will happen sometimes and how we face it is individual to us all but people who remain positive really do better than the ones who dont!