Mine has we been together 3 years see each other every 3 months cept when he was in the army for 6 months. in 5 weeks we are gonna close the gap for good. I will never say its easy it can be lonely and be tough on every single one of your emotions but there's pros like running to their arms holding them close again
i think there's got to be alot of trust, honesty and communication for them to work. well those are those lessons i have learnt
very excited about the thought of no more goodbyes i must admit thoughCan long distant relationships work?
I just got out of a long distance relationship.it absolutley sucked!! We saw eachother every now and again but it wasnt enough.you need someone you can see whenever you need them.you need someone who will be there for you, and not just through the phone.
Some can work, but in my opinion i think they are pointless....but it also depends on how often you get to see them.but still, i wouldnt do it again.Can long distant relationships work?
They CAN work, but on very few occasions. They suck if you never get to see each other. If you really REALLY want to start a relationship that is long-distance, then by all means go ahead. You'll want to be with that person but can't cause you live so far away. It's best not to. But it's your choice. Good luck! Look to the Lord for guidance.
Yes. My sister dated a guy in Cali (we live in CO) for like 2 years before she moved out there with him. They ended up getting married. :) So yes i believe they do
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yes, they can. but the sexual part is messed up.
if you can, it's better to be with someone you can see more often, but it'll prevent STI's and STD's from getting spread!
FO-SHOOOO
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nahhh, seriouslllly..
they can
no cuz they could cheat on each other without the other person knowing
In my opinion, no.
Yes, if you really want it to...
Friday, July 30, 2010
In marriages or relationships who do you think sacrifices more, men or women?
We have all heard the 50% 50% deal that goes along with relationships between men and women. I personally believe in 100% 100% myself. Anyway, who do you guys think sacrifices more in today's marriages and relationships, the man or the women?In marriages or relationships who do you think sacrifices more, men or women?
Well I believe in the theory of the partner of least interest..which would be the one in the relationship who cares just a tad less than the other. So it depends who in the relationship is the partner of least interest, and doesn't put as much into the relationship. The other person would be the one who sacrifices a little more to make the relationship work. In my experience, the partner of least interest has always been the man. Don't know why.In marriages or relationships who do you think sacrifices more, men or women?
Probably the man; he is the protector and provider, and most men would (or are expected to) put themselves in danger first before letting the woman come to harm... that's what I would do; sacrifice myself to keep her safe.
I am married... I feel that we both do our share... sometimes i feel he does... but i also do alot..
In the other hand, I think that the person that loves the most.... but if you both love each other the 100%-100%..
The man. At least in my family. My poor grandfather is like a child, he goes to bed when my grandma tells him to, he's afraid of eating in the living room, he does all the grocery shopping... I feel bad.
Both really.
Marriage is all about being there for one another in thick %26amp; thin.
Basically, both genders are supposed to sacrifice equally.
I think in loving relationships its about 50 50 or 60 40 but in todays world there is usually one really selfish partner.
I definitely think both should contribute 100%!!!
Well I believe in the theory of the partner of least interest..which would be the one in the relationship who cares just a tad less than the other. So it depends who in the relationship is the partner of least interest, and doesn't put as much into the relationship. The other person would be the one who sacrifices a little more to make the relationship work. In my experience, the partner of least interest has always been the man. Don't know why.In marriages or relationships who do you think sacrifices more, men or women?
Probably the man; he is the protector and provider, and most men would (or are expected to) put themselves in danger first before letting the woman come to harm... that's what I would do; sacrifice myself to keep her safe.
I am married... I feel that we both do our share... sometimes i feel he does... but i also do alot..
In the other hand, I think that the person that loves the most.... but if you both love each other the 100%-100%..
The man. At least in my family. My poor grandfather is like a child, he goes to bed when my grandma tells him to, he's afraid of eating in the living room, he does all the grocery shopping... I feel bad.
Both really.
Marriage is all about being there for one another in thick %26amp; thin.
Basically, both genders are supposed to sacrifice equally.
I think in loving relationships its about 50 50 or 60 40 but in todays world there is usually one really selfish partner.
I definitely think both should contribute 100%!!!
What are the relationships of velocity and mass, radius, and force in physics?
okay I was doing a lab today and I totally don't get what was going on. we spun things...What are the relationships of velocity and mass, radius, and force in physics?
Their are many different ways to relate these 4 properties in physics, but it seems that you are probobly thinking of angular momentum. For you people who don't like to read angular momentum= mvr or L=mrv
1.) You should know that linear momentum (normal omentum)
is found by the relation P=mv, that is momentum= mass times velocity.
2.) Angular momentum is very similar with the exception that
instead of traveling in a line, it travels along a curve or
in a circular path. (remember that most curves can be arcs
of circles, just incomplete).
2.) The formula for angular momentum is: L=rmv, in other
words, angular momentum= the length of the radius of
the circle about which the object is traveling times the
mass of the object times the velocity the object is moving.What are the relationships of velocity and mass, radius, and force in physics?
F = Ma
In circular motion (when you ';spun things';),
A = V^2 / r
so F = M(V^2 / R)
You should really read this free E-book containing 97 steps to a happy relationship. highly recommended!
Their are many different ways to relate these 4 properties in physics, but it seems that you are probobly thinking of angular momentum. For you people who don't like to read angular momentum= mvr or L=mrv
1.) You should know that linear momentum (normal omentum)
is found by the relation P=mv, that is momentum= mass times velocity.
2.) Angular momentum is very similar with the exception that
instead of traveling in a line, it travels along a curve or
in a circular path. (remember that most curves can be arcs
of circles, just incomplete).
2.) The formula for angular momentum is: L=rmv, in other
words, angular momentum= the length of the radius of
the circle about which the object is traveling times the
mass of the object times the velocity the object is moving.What are the relationships of velocity and mass, radius, and force in physics?
F = Ma
In circular motion (when you ';spun things';),
A = V^2 / r
so F = M(V^2 / R)
You should really read this free E-book containing 97 steps to a happy relationship. highly recommended!
What are you most afraid of when it comes to relationships?
The fear of being alone or the fear of being hurt? If you have both fears, which one out weighs the other and why? What do you do to try to overcome these fears?What are you most afraid of when it comes to relationships?
Loosing my freedom!That's my biggest fear besides the one I could be spending my years on the person that's not worth it.I really prefer to be single.What are you most afraid of when it comes to relationships?
being rejected
A lor of fears is due to your in-securing when in relationship. Once you can eliminate this fears of yours. Then you can love a man whole heatedly without fear.
my fear of being hurt. and that son of b i tch that i was with he did that to me and it is very hard to deal with
Rejection.
The fear of being hurt definitely. I'm 16 so guys my age aren't typically known for being a one woman man or have other ideas in mind that's not a proper relationship.
Me is being hurt. If i like the guy a lot like im in a relationship right now and i really like him and i am afraid that he will hurt me!
the thing im scared of the most when it comes to a relationship is getting hurt. but i try to not to open up very quickly when it comes to having a boyfriend, i take it slow.
Loosing my freedom!That's my biggest fear besides the one I could be spending my years on the person that's not worth it.I really prefer to be single.What are you most afraid of when it comes to relationships?
being rejected
A lor of fears is due to your in-securing when in relationship. Once you can eliminate this fears of yours. Then you can love a man whole heatedly without fear.
my fear of being hurt. and that son of b i tch that i was with he did that to me and it is very hard to deal with
Rejection.
The fear of being hurt definitely. I'm 16 so guys my age aren't typically known for being a one woman man or have other ideas in mind that's not a proper relationship.
Me is being hurt. If i like the guy a lot like im in a relationship right now and i really like him and i am afraid that he will hurt me!
the thing im scared of the most when it comes to a relationship is getting hurt. but i try to not to open up very quickly when it comes to having a boyfriend, i take it slow.
Do long-distance relationships work? How do I make this work?
ive been in three.
they work for a while,
but eventually they fail.
its hard.
keep it going as long as you can.
but wen its time to say goodbye,
accept it and move on.
its more than likely going to happen.Do long-distance relationships work? How do I make this work?
myself and my partner got off to a 9 month start of him being in Australia and me being in South Africa. We wrote letters, sent emails and gifts and spoke on the phone once a week. It was really hard, but we stuck it out and we now live together in SA and have been together for 6 years and we are expecting a baby boy. It can be done, don't listen to all the synics...Do long-distance relationships work? How do I make this work?
They don't. I'm sorry. There's always the idea of that ';one day'; when you'll be together, but in reality it never happens.. I ended my last two relationships because they were long distance. It hurts to not be able to see them often, and that leads to depression, and heartbreak, and then you start wondering if they're cheating etc. It's not worth it.
Has to be a lot of trust and patience.
If you're used to being physically next to someone, it may take a while to get used to this.
But otherwise, go for it. Just make sure there's the trust and the patience, and make sure you talk quite often.
I don't advise it unless it is absolute true love. But if you start suspecting lies then get out immediately. Don't be a fool and believe lies like I did.
Being apart makes relationships stronger if It doesnt kill them.
Good luck, seriously!!
i dont think that they do a whole part of the relation ship is seeing and touching each other everyday to make it work you have to have major trust if you do that you wont be steped out on then it should be fine good luck :)
yes they do work if both people are willing to put in the effort to make them work altho they are harder then normal relationships and require more perseverance
never heard of one working.....if the relationship continues to grow then one of you have to move....if that does not happen then what is the point of the relationship...
True love never fails.
A long distance relationship can work, yes. But only if BOTH people are willing. Two people working for the same cause [love]? What could be better?!
Best of luck in your situation!
Sorry, it never worked for me, after a while, we just lost interest in each other.
86% of long distance relationships are doomed to failure. srry
yea they do matter of fact my sister is a long-distance relationship and they are going on thier 10th month proud of them.
first of all i its true love it will last and the best way for it to last long is to viset each outher reaguleary
Have a bunch of phone sex and use picture mail
NO!!! one person will be heartbroken when another moves on. don't do it!!! save yourself from heartbreak!
Keep in touch and try to remain faithful.
Truly, give it up. They just can't compete with the local exchange.
some distance work but not a distance lover relationship !
they usually work for one and not the other...it's convenience
they work for a while,
but eventually they fail.
its hard.
keep it going as long as you can.
but wen its time to say goodbye,
accept it and move on.
its more than likely going to happen.Do long-distance relationships work? How do I make this work?
myself and my partner got off to a 9 month start of him being in Australia and me being in South Africa. We wrote letters, sent emails and gifts and spoke on the phone once a week. It was really hard, but we stuck it out and we now live together in SA and have been together for 6 years and we are expecting a baby boy. It can be done, don't listen to all the synics...Do long-distance relationships work? How do I make this work?
They don't. I'm sorry. There's always the idea of that ';one day'; when you'll be together, but in reality it never happens.. I ended my last two relationships because they were long distance. It hurts to not be able to see them often, and that leads to depression, and heartbreak, and then you start wondering if they're cheating etc. It's not worth it.
Has to be a lot of trust and patience.
If you're used to being physically next to someone, it may take a while to get used to this.
But otherwise, go for it. Just make sure there's the trust and the patience, and make sure you talk quite often.
I don't advise it unless it is absolute true love. But if you start suspecting lies then get out immediately. Don't be a fool and believe lies like I did.
Being apart makes relationships stronger if It doesnt kill them.
Good luck, seriously!!
i dont think that they do a whole part of the relation ship is seeing and touching each other everyday to make it work you have to have major trust if you do that you wont be steped out on then it should be fine good luck :)
yes they do work if both people are willing to put in the effort to make them work altho they are harder then normal relationships and require more perseverance
never heard of one working.....if the relationship continues to grow then one of you have to move....if that does not happen then what is the point of the relationship...
True love never fails.
A long distance relationship can work, yes. But only if BOTH people are willing. Two people working for the same cause [love]? What could be better?!
Best of luck in your situation!
Sorry, it never worked for me, after a while, we just lost interest in each other.
86% of long distance relationships are doomed to failure. srry
yea they do matter of fact my sister is a long-distance relationship and they are going on thier 10th month proud of them.
first of all i its true love it will last and the best way for it to last long is to viset each outher reaguleary
Have a bunch of phone sex and use picture mail
NO!!! one person will be heartbroken when another moves on. don't do it!!! save yourself from heartbreak!
Keep in touch and try to remain faithful.
Truly, give it up. They just can't compete with the local exchange.
some distance work but not a distance lover relationship !
they usually work for one and not the other...it's convenience
Why are blood relationships are less important in an industrial society than in a preindustrial society.?
Please Help, sociology!Why are blood relationships are less important in an industrial society than in a preindustrial society.?
Well in a preindustrial society everything is very face to face and personal. Everyone knows each other and class is very important - this is often dictated by blood relationships - you're born as part of the proletariat, you stay a member of the proletariat.
In an industrial society, there is much greater social mobility and so you can easily go from being a member of the proletariat to a member of the bourgeoisie.
Also, norms and values change. In an industrial society they are just seen as less important!
Hope this helps, will edit if you put what context in? EG family life, social classes, jobs etcWhy are blood relationships are less important in an industrial society than in a preindustrial society.?
Some would point to trust as the answer, In industrial societies there are institutions which enforce things like contracts and agreements which allow us to borrow, loan and engage in projects that are too large to do ourselves but benefit many of us. Things like building a house in any society requires the cooperation of many people. In a family or clan one person's exploitation of another member will result in sanctions by the other clan members. This threat of sanctions permits clan/family members to trust that the others will not take advantage of the other. One member exploiting another outside of the clan does not present an issue unless that other clan chooses to retaliate - which requires the cooperation of the other clan with respect to that outsider. I've read a few articles that suggest that this is what ';guanxi'; is, which is a means that many Chinese business transactions are done. Guanxi's use of close friends and family expedites business activities in the extremely corrupt Communist government. The trust from the relationships replaces (imperfectly) the strong tort and regulatory system that exists in the US.
Well in a preindustrial society everything is very face to face and personal. Everyone knows each other and class is very important - this is often dictated by blood relationships - you're born as part of the proletariat, you stay a member of the proletariat.
In an industrial society, there is much greater social mobility and so you can easily go from being a member of the proletariat to a member of the bourgeoisie.
Also, norms and values change. In an industrial society they are just seen as less important!
Hope this helps, will edit if you put what context in? EG family life, social classes, jobs etcWhy are blood relationships are less important in an industrial society than in a preindustrial society.?
Some would point to trust as the answer, In industrial societies there are institutions which enforce things like contracts and agreements which allow us to borrow, loan and engage in projects that are too large to do ourselves but benefit many of us. Things like building a house in any society requires the cooperation of many people. In a family or clan one person's exploitation of another member will result in sanctions by the other clan members. This threat of sanctions permits clan/family members to trust that the others will not take advantage of the other. One member exploiting another outside of the clan does not present an issue unless that other clan chooses to retaliate - which requires the cooperation of the other clan with respect to that outsider. I've read a few articles that suggest that this is what ';guanxi'; is, which is a means that many Chinese business transactions are done. Guanxi's use of close friends and family expedites business activities in the extremely corrupt Communist government. The trust from the relationships replaces (imperfectly) the strong tort and regulatory system that exists in the US.
Borderline personality disorder relationships?
I was just recently diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder, my wife was diagnosed about 2 months ago. What are some things I can do to to make my relationship better? What are some things my wife and I may need to do or work on?Borderline personality disorder relationships?
You can work DBT if it's available where you live. You've got a tough road ahead if the diagnosis is accurate. Folks with BPD actually do a lot better outside of relationships, and tend to have a hard time having lasting or happy relationships with non-borderlines.
I used to be married to a borderline who didn't work on her disorder, and used to belong to a support group for non-borderlines that allowed borderlines to join, and there was at least one couple with two borderlines in it that was struggling along. But it will be a struggle.
If you're able, against all odds, to take responsibility for your actions, to take therapy seriously, to take any meds you may need - antidepressants and mood stabilizers are often important just as they are for bipolar disorder, oddly - and if you can find a good DBT group, I think that's your best chance.
Especially the DBT. I've heard great things about it from borderlines who did it.Borderline personality disorder relationships?
Wow, only 2% of the population has that, did you know that? I have it. You learn about your condition, realize the times you are reverting between the kid and adult. A lot of it is solved just by the fact that you know what your problem is. A lot of these people do fine later in life in stable relationships with routine. Do research and talk to each other, realize when you are throwing a fit. You can definately tell when she is reverting because she will get into her stuffed animals. REFUSE TO DEAL WITH THE CHILD. You will have to raise the child within. You have a fully functional adult in there, who better to raise the child than you? DO NOT LET THE CHILD DRIVE YOUR LIFE. You will spend half of your time cleaning up the mess the child makes. Just save time by refusing to let the child be in charge. Since you will see this in each other, you can help each other. It sounds like quite a challenge, but you can do it.
That's okay your not a lone a lot of us have the problem, seek some help if you need to. (Or you can introduce them to each other, just kidding) Really! if you can't solve the problem on your own then Yes seek some help and try doing it naturally with herbs and change your eating habits too it could be just both your diets and eating habits, or a chemical in-bounce. Try taking fish oil, vitamins, herbs, %26amp; minerals this came cause the body to go Thur some weir changes too read up on it. Good luck. This is what happen to me I had to change my eating habits and diet, it was go though the changes and a chemical in-bounce and stay away from drinking alcohol this will cause these reaction a lone. Good luck to you both and I pray things work out for the two of you.
counseling. I was married to a narcissist for 15 years. If he had gotten counseling we may still be married. Don't ever forget that it is your problem and no one elses. they don't deserve to be treated poorly just because you have BPD. You will have to work twice as hard to maintain relationships as others may.
I am glad that you are recognizing it and not denying the problem. Good luck.
Sounds like a cop out to me! Stop all the lying and start taking responsibility for YOUR actions!
Ask a therapist. She could tell you.
after briefly reading a blurb on BDP, i wonder who doesn't have it?rosacea
You can work DBT if it's available where you live. You've got a tough road ahead if the diagnosis is accurate. Folks with BPD actually do a lot better outside of relationships, and tend to have a hard time having lasting or happy relationships with non-borderlines.
I used to be married to a borderline who didn't work on her disorder, and used to belong to a support group for non-borderlines that allowed borderlines to join, and there was at least one couple with two borderlines in it that was struggling along. But it will be a struggle.
If you're able, against all odds, to take responsibility for your actions, to take therapy seriously, to take any meds you may need - antidepressants and mood stabilizers are often important just as they are for bipolar disorder, oddly - and if you can find a good DBT group, I think that's your best chance.
Especially the DBT. I've heard great things about it from borderlines who did it.Borderline personality disorder relationships?
Wow, only 2% of the population has that, did you know that? I have it. You learn about your condition, realize the times you are reverting between the kid and adult. A lot of it is solved just by the fact that you know what your problem is. A lot of these people do fine later in life in stable relationships with routine. Do research and talk to each other, realize when you are throwing a fit. You can definately tell when she is reverting because she will get into her stuffed animals. REFUSE TO DEAL WITH THE CHILD. You will have to raise the child within. You have a fully functional adult in there, who better to raise the child than you? DO NOT LET THE CHILD DRIVE YOUR LIFE. You will spend half of your time cleaning up the mess the child makes. Just save time by refusing to let the child be in charge. Since you will see this in each other, you can help each other. It sounds like quite a challenge, but you can do it.
That's okay your not a lone a lot of us have the problem, seek some help if you need to. (Or you can introduce them to each other, just kidding) Really! if you can't solve the problem on your own then Yes seek some help and try doing it naturally with herbs and change your eating habits too it could be just both your diets and eating habits, or a chemical in-bounce. Try taking fish oil, vitamins, herbs, %26amp; minerals this came cause the body to go Thur some weir changes too read up on it. Good luck. This is what happen to me I had to change my eating habits and diet, it was go though the changes and a chemical in-bounce and stay away from drinking alcohol this will cause these reaction a lone. Good luck to you both and I pray things work out for the two of you.
counseling. I was married to a narcissist for 15 years. If he had gotten counseling we may still be married. Don't ever forget that it is your problem and no one elses. they don't deserve to be treated poorly just because you have BPD. You will have to work twice as hard to maintain relationships as others may.
I am glad that you are recognizing it and not denying the problem. Good luck.
Sounds like a cop out to me! Stop all the lying and start taking responsibility for YOUR actions!
Ask a therapist. She could tell you.
after briefly reading a blurb on BDP, i wonder who doesn't have it?
Why do some people get grossed out about gay/lesbian relationships?
I have mixed feelings about this. When I think of a gay couple, I'm happy they are happy. No problem. When I think of me personally being in a gay relationship, I get grossed out. It's just not for me. Probably gay folks get grossed out at the thought of being in a non-gay relationship. Different strokes and all that, I suppose.Why do some people get grossed out about gay/lesbian relationships?
They were raised to think it's gross, or they were influenced by peers to feel this way, or the society we live in does not really fully accept it, so most people go with that, there are many reasons. People will always hate someone or something and be against something or someone and grossed out. Unfortunately, not everyone is going to approve of everyone, and how people decide to live their lives. Why do some people get grossed out about gay/lesbian relationships?
- Well; there is a few reasons why actually, lol.
- #1
- Cuz straight people just happen 2 envy all the freedom that gay %26amp; lesbian have.
- %26amp; #2
- Is that, all gay %26amp; lesbian have the capability of being able 2 live outside of the box, %26amp; straight people R just jealous %26amp; miserable that they can't (boo-hoo-hoo).
- I could go on %26amp; on %26amp; on about the subject, but I wouldn't wanna imply anything about all those narrow minded little people.
- Oops !
- Did I just say that out loud ?
- Oh well !
- It was just an expression of speech anyway, lol.
- (smiley face).
- But hell !!!
- Who am I 2 judge hey !
- rotflmao
- Well, I hope that this answers U're question %26amp; chow for now, SEXY LADY !
- Wink !!!
Because they are nasty and un-natural. I don't get how your ';born gay'; or ';turn gay'; God made men and women for a reason if he wanted gays/lesbians to be together he would have made everyone that same gender.
Because it challenges their understanding of society and some people are afraid to change or accept new ideas.
I don't as long as they love eachother it's all good....gay or straight I only think a relationship is gross if there is no love and it's just about sex or promiscuity
It's not normal.
When all else fails;
Read the Directions (book). It's called the Bible.
Because they are gross. It is pretty obvious that men were created to have sex with women and not with each other.
They were raised to think it's gross, or they were influenced by peers to feel this way, or the society we live in does not really fully accept it, so most people go with that, there are many reasons. People will always hate someone or something and be against something or someone and grossed out. Unfortunately, not everyone is going to approve of everyone, and how people decide to live their lives. Why do some people get grossed out about gay/lesbian relationships?
- Well; there is a few reasons why actually, lol.
- #1
- Cuz straight people just happen 2 envy all the freedom that gay %26amp; lesbian have.
- %26amp; #2
- Is that, all gay %26amp; lesbian have the capability of being able 2 live outside of the box, %26amp; straight people R just jealous %26amp; miserable that they can't (boo-hoo-hoo).
- I could go on %26amp; on %26amp; on about the subject, but I wouldn't wanna imply anything about all those narrow minded little people.
- Oops !
- Did I just say that out loud ?
- Oh well !
- It was just an expression of speech anyway, lol.
- (smiley face).
- But hell !!!
- Who am I 2 judge hey !
- rotflmao
- Well, I hope that this answers U're question %26amp; chow for now, SEXY LADY !
- Wink !!!
Because they are nasty and un-natural. I don't get how your ';born gay'; or ';turn gay'; God made men and women for a reason if he wanted gays/lesbians to be together he would have made everyone that same gender.
Because it challenges their understanding of society and some people are afraid to change or accept new ideas.
I don't as long as they love eachother it's all good....gay or straight I only think a relationship is gross if there is no love and it's just about sex or promiscuity
It's not normal.
When all else fails;
Read the Directions (book). It's called the Bible.
Because they are gross. It is pretty obvious that men were created to have sex with women and not with each other.
Do long distance relationships really work?
I'm a freshman in high school, and I'm dating a senior. I know you probably think thats weird, but I don't really care because our relationship is nothing like you would think of it as. Anyways, he is going to college in San Fransisco (quite far from where we go to high school now, in TX). And I was just wondering, does anyone know from first hand experience, that long distance relationships actually work?Do long distance relationships really work?
The commitment doesn't ALWAYS, work, but the relationship itself will work, as long as you guys keep fighting for it. The distance isn't going to be the biggest barrier, when it comes to a LDR, its weather or not you guys can continue to grow together. Also, the reason people ';dis'; youngins, when their in a relationship ISN'T BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW LOVE!!!! Love isn't that f'in simple, no offense, theres ALOT of learning HOW TO F'IN LOVE!!! This is EXTREMELY important for an LDR, it is about the only thing thats going to keep it together. You guys need to use that '; know you probably think thats weird, but I don't really care because our relationship is nothing like you would think of it as'; relationship and try to always talk honestly about what it is you NEED from each other, that satisfied, talk about what you WANT. But as soon as you starte ';hiding'; truths, halfing truths, and separating your lives, its over. But as long as you continue to keep that relationship up, nothing can tear it down, but death, such is love. So its on you, him, and this world, if you fight the good fight, its on like donky-kong, you slack-off, change, find someone else, stop loving, stop relating, stop being honest, its over.........
The commitment doesn't ALWAYS, work, but the relationship itself will work, as long as you guys keep fighting for it. The distance isn't going to be the biggest barrier, when it comes to a LDR, its weather or not you guys can continue to grow together. Also, the reason people ';dis'; youngins, when their in a relationship ISN'T BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW LOVE!!!! Love isn't that f'in simple, no offense, theres ALOT of learning HOW TO F'IN LOVE!!! This is EXTREMELY important for an LDR, it is about the only thing thats going to keep it together. You guys need to use that '; know you probably think thats weird, but I don't really care because our relationship is nothing like you would think of it as'; relationship and try to always talk honestly about what it is you NEED from each other, that satisfied, talk about what you WANT. But as soon as you starte ';hiding'; truths, halfing truths, and separating your lives, its over. But as long as you continue to keep that relationship up, nothing can tear it down, but death, such is love. So its on you, him, and this world, if you fight the good fight, its on like donky-kong, you slack-off, change, find someone else, stop loving, stop relating, stop being honest, its over.........
How do bi relationships work?especially if you already have a boyfriend? :)?
does your man get in on the benefits..is it expected for him to? Dates together??How do bi relationships work?especially if you already have a boyfriend? :)?
For me, he has to know about it - no secrets
but no participation, I am not into men, he does not even get to watch.How do bi relationships work?especially if you already have a boyfriend? :)?
I think bi is too confusing...just choice between straight or gay/lesbian
well for me..
he can watch
but he is MINE!!!
:]
If your Bi it doesn't mean your with both at the same time. It just means you like both
For me, he has to know about it - no secrets
but no participation, I am not into men, he does not even get to watch.How do bi relationships work?especially if you already have a boyfriend? :)?
I think bi is too confusing...just choice between straight or gay/lesbian
well for me..
he can watch
but he is MINE!!!
:]
If your Bi it doesn't mean your with both at the same time. It just means you like both
Why are so many woman asking ?s about men and relationships? Are we men such dogs?
Every other ? I've came across has been by a woman asking questions about why men are interested in other woman and relationship ?s. I think you ladies need to marry a good old Latin boy that will value you as a lady and also have family values. Trust me.Why are so many woman asking ?s about men and relationships? Are we men such dogs?
There are many men who are not latin that can value women like they should be. I know because I am married to one. I know many other men and they are not latin. What makes you think only latin men are capable of this?Why are so many woman asking ?s about men and relationships? Are we men such dogs?
Actually, the Latin men that I know are the ones that are more likely to be dictatorial to their wives and kids and also are more likely to cheat (yes I am talking about friends' husbands). I do not want those types of ';family values'; in my house. I'll take my husband that believes in teamwork and fidelity over a Latin man anyday.
You find me a guy that doesn't cheat and I will be happy!! My ex husband cheated twice, his best friend cheated about 5 times on his wife, his other friend several times on his girlfriend, another friend some more cheating, and another friend, some more cheating. My friend (a girl by the way) cheated, and my other ';girl'; friend cheated on their husband. My dad cheated on my mother. My sisters husband cheated on her.
So you tell me where to find these nice guys with some family values and I will be there!!!! :)
Many women are whinning about really stupid stuff like porn or watching a stripper.
unless my man is having SEX with another person -- THEN HE IS NOT CHEATING
These women need to wake up and smell the coffee..life is fun not cut and dried up like a prune...geeze..they need to relax...
I reckon the better question is why do so many of them have such low self esteem..that is really the problem here...and yes I am a woman..but I have no problems with my man watching porn or a stripper...I watch with him..
Haha soo funny.
Latin boys have a huge game. They know how to lure woman in. Doesn't necessairly make them better gentlemen.
BUT i do have to admit...most of then do know how to be a gentlemen and lains are very family oriented.
Yes, a great number of men are total pigs. Well, not you and I, but I think a majority of men think with their little head, and there are plenty of dirty whores out there (married and otherwise) to accommodate them.
Hahah i know its because we all marry scum bags...I plan on marrying an unattractive man this next time around maybe he will appreciate me. Of course wiht my luck all these great looking women will wonder why im with him and he will get all the attention he never got and enjoy every cheating night of it....UGH....never win do you jk
Woof! Woof! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!
Some women just enjoy drama, and even if they have the man of their dreams, they will find a reason to whine about it.
Some Latin men cheat? How about 90% of them cheat. I know because I right there with them. lol
latin men cheat too so dont go there
See sad thing is obv that is not the case.No woman in her heart wants to think badly of the guy she is with.Who would choose a dog?Prob is that men are diff to women,we operate largely,though not exclusively,upon a different code.Shock and horror,we get burned again and being women,we seek advice,ironically the advice from men is most valued and therein lies the rube.See 99% of women go into a relationship of any nature,even casual,with the same expectations she has,i.e some..no matter how little..emotional connection.Even a one night stand if most women were honest,rides upon the way in which she was treated the morning after. It is our biology and though we rage against it,take pills,use condoms, act like we don't give a f,biologicallly we are programmed to care.See women have two functions species wise.First we have to carry the child for nine months, have an alien inside us,then the pain of childbirth...also if we weren't emotionally involved in sex, then the planet would be overrun.,cause someone has to be discerning in the breeding stakes.We love sex too, many women act/ behave like porn stars to work out a high and equal sex drive that is also their right.But under it all we all crave the hug and what that means.What that means is that yo will stay with us and value sharing our genes.Sounds animal, but basically that is the case.Equally, men don't get us.Women whinge when they accept less than what they want and blame the man,most of the time knowing deep down that they want more,but use their sexual control to feel good about the situation and in control of it.the odd thing is though that with all the blurge about communication etc.people who get together speak less than friends and ess have no relationship.I as a woman do feel that men are ***** most of the time,have a hard time understanding how someone can be so OK and sweet and seemingly genuine,then to turn into a cold hearted bastard the minute he has sex with you...but I understand that in nature that is the job of the man,he means it at the time,he must breed and must play the game to breed.Why so many women post answers is because we don't get men, we crave but cannot have that emotional exclusion from intimacy of any kind.And yes,if you yourself were to look back upon your own rel,we do get tired of being lied to or seduced or whatever you want to call it.Most women, like men, ess crave honesty.Sadly in the breeding game, whatever kicks in re DNA,,deceit and half truths and shallowness creep in.Hope I helped.
There are many men who are not latin that can value women like they should be. I know because I am married to one. I know many other men and they are not latin. What makes you think only latin men are capable of this?Why are so many woman asking ?s about men and relationships? Are we men such dogs?
Actually, the Latin men that I know are the ones that are more likely to be dictatorial to their wives and kids and also are more likely to cheat (yes I am talking about friends' husbands). I do not want those types of ';family values'; in my house. I'll take my husband that believes in teamwork and fidelity over a Latin man anyday.
You find me a guy that doesn't cheat and I will be happy!! My ex husband cheated twice, his best friend cheated about 5 times on his wife, his other friend several times on his girlfriend, another friend some more cheating, and another friend, some more cheating. My friend (a girl by the way) cheated, and my other ';girl'; friend cheated on their husband. My dad cheated on my mother. My sisters husband cheated on her.
So you tell me where to find these nice guys with some family values and I will be there!!!! :)
Many women are whinning about really stupid stuff like porn or watching a stripper.
unless my man is having SEX with another person -- THEN HE IS NOT CHEATING
These women need to wake up and smell the coffee..life is fun not cut and dried up like a prune...geeze..they need to relax...
I reckon the better question is why do so many of them have such low self esteem..that is really the problem here...and yes I am a woman..but I have no problems with my man watching porn or a stripper...I watch with him..
Haha soo funny.
Latin boys have a huge game. They know how to lure woman in. Doesn't necessairly make them better gentlemen.
BUT i do have to admit...most of then do know how to be a gentlemen and lains are very family oriented.
Yes, a great number of men are total pigs. Well, not you and I, but I think a majority of men think with their little head, and there are plenty of dirty whores out there (married and otherwise) to accommodate them.
Hahah i know its because we all marry scum bags...I plan on marrying an unattractive man this next time around maybe he will appreciate me. Of course wiht my luck all these great looking women will wonder why im with him and he will get all the attention he never got and enjoy every cheating night of it....UGH....never win do you jk
Woof! Woof! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!
Some women just enjoy drama, and even if they have the man of their dreams, they will find a reason to whine about it.
Some Latin men cheat? How about 90% of them cheat. I know because I right there with them. lol
latin men cheat too so dont go there
See sad thing is obv that is not the case.No woman in her heart wants to think badly of the guy she is with.Who would choose a dog?Prob is that men are diff to women,we operate largely,though not exclusively,upon a different code.Shock and horror,we get burned again and being women,we seek advice,ironically the advice from men is most valued and therein lies the rube.See 99% of women go into a relationship of any nature,even casual,with the same expectations she has,i.e some..no matter how little..emotional connection.Even a one night stand if most women were honest,rides upon the way in which she was treated the morning after. It is our biology and though we rage against it,take pills,use condoms, act like we don't give a f,biologicallly we are programmed to care.See women have two functions species wise.First we have to carry the child for nine months, have an alien inside us,then the pain of childbirth...also if we weren't emotionally involved in sex, then the planet would be overrun.,cause someone has to be discerning in the breeding stakes.We love sex too, many women act/ behave like porn stars to work out a high and equal sex drive that is also their right.But under it all we all crave the hug and what that means.What that means is that yo will stay with us and value sharing our genes.Sounds animal, but basically that is the case.Equally, men don't get us.Women whinge when they accept less than what they want and blame the man,most of the time knowing deep down that they want more,but use their sexual control to feel good about the situation and in control of it.the odd thing is though that with all the blurge about communication etc.people who get together speak less than friends and ess have no relationship.I as a woman do feel that men are ***** most of the time,have a hard time understanding how someone can be so OK and sweet and seemingly genuine,then to turn into a cold hearted bastard the minute he has sex with you...but I understand that in nature that is the job of the man,he means it at the time,he must breed and must play the game to breed.Why so many women post answers is because we don't get men, we crave but cannot have that emotional exclusion from intimacy of any kind.And yes,if you yourself were to look back upon your own rel,we do get tired of being lied to or seduced or whatever you want to call it.Most women, like men, ess crave honesty.Sadly in the breeding game, whatever kicks in re DNA,,deceit and half truths and shallowness creep in.Hope I helped.
Whats life and relationships all about is there a surefire way of being positive no matter what?
yes, decide to be positive no matter what. take nothing personally, and view every experience as a teacher. what's being taught? research in the areas of psychology and mysticism and you'll find the answer. btw check out *the complete idiot's guide to toltec wisdom* for some helpful hints ;-)Whats life and relationships all about is there a surefire way of being positive no matter what?
Develop an affinity for pain.Whats life and relationships all about is there a surefire way of being positive no matter what?
Wow that is a question that we would all love to know the answer to.I believe that you have to be positive most of the time and one way to manage that is to think for a couple of seconds before you speak.It gives you time not to regret a sudden comment and also to work out a positive reaction when you can.However there are times when you must be negative but even then try to find the best slant .For example if someone asks you out and you do not want to go ,your answer has to leave them feeling that you care about the world and them.Tricky but worth it in the long run.
Good luck with your life and relationships
I believe that having integrity,and knowing when when one of the two have exhausted thier resorces,and being the strong one and move on.Or bask in the love you feel from it.
A surefire way of being positive no matter what: be an idiot.
Life and relationships is all about the being aware enough to appreciate and encourage the ';ups'; while being strong and broad-minded enough to deal with the ';downs';.
Xan Shui,
Philosophic Philanthropist, Honest Man
The way to remain positive lies in knowing everything has the potential to change and to not become upset when it happens.
Life is made up of things you can't change or things that might happen!
Learn to change the only thing you can control which is YOU. Always missing buses or being late? You can change the behaviour that might make it happen.Getting up 10 mins earlier could be enough and the more you think Positive (I will catch the bus) the easier it becomes to change.
As for what might happen, if worrying is not going to change the outcome then dont.
The bad will happen sometimes and how we face it is individual to us all but people who remain positive really do better than the ones who dont!
Develop an affinity for pain.Whats life and relationships all about is there a surefire way of being positive no matter what?
Wow that is a question that we would all love to know the answer to.I believe that you have to be positive most of the time and one way to manage that is to think for a couple of seconds before you speak.It gives you time not to regret a sudden comment and also to work out a positive reaction when you can.However there are times when you must be negative but even then try to find the best slant .For example if someone asks you out and you do not want to go ,your answer has to leave them feeling that you care about the world and them.Tricky but worth it in the long run.
Good luck with your life and relationships
I believe that having integrity,and knowing when when one of the two have exhausted thier resorces,and being the strong one and move on.Or bask in the love you feel from it.
A surefire way of being positive no matter what: be an idiot.
Life and relationships is all about the being aware enough to appreciate and encourage the ';ups'; while being strong and broad-minded enough to deal with the ';downs';.
Xan Shui,
Philosophic Philanthropist, Honest Man
The way to remain positive lies in knowing everything has the potential to change and to not become upset when it happens.
Life is made up of things you can't change or things that might happen!
Learn to change the only thing you can control which is YOU. Always missing buses or being late? You can change the behaviour that might make it happen.Getting up 10 mins earlier could be enough and the more you think Positive (I will catch the bus) the easier it becomes to change.
As for what might happen, if worrying is not going to change the outcome then dont.
The bad will happen sometimes and how we face it is individual to us all but people who remain positive really do better than the ones who dont!
Do long distance relationships generally work?
Or do u drift apart especially if the one is in uni and u only see each other twice a wkDo long distance relationships generally work?
generally no they don't but that doesn't mean they can't. and twice a week?! that's plenty - that's more than some couples who live near each other! relationships take work and effort.
good luck :-)Do long distance relationships generally work?
Twice a week is not long distance. A different country and 6 months apart, that was my long distance relationship and it did not last.
At least you get to see each other...!
I was involved with a long distance relationship... over 2400km with the sea between us and I am proud to say I am not a statistic of failed long distance relationship.
It takes hard work and commitment but the rewards are there to be reaped.
Good luck and all the best!
they are hard to make work but it's possible, twice a week will help it to wrok, i never really saw my ex when we were in a long distance relationship, which ended up being the reason for finishing, which was sad as i really loved her too.
Depends how you work on them
Mine did and we only saw each other monthly.
Now married nearly 40 years.
long distance relationships really need to be worked at by both involved. They can be hard work, but if you love the person enough then they can also work. Twice a week is a good amount of times to see each other - some long distance relationships dont allow the people to see each other twice a year!
I think you have good grounds for it to work out
xx
Seeing each other twice a week sounds pretty good to me. That could work.
My partner works in the Netherlands we only see each other ever other weekend holidays etc we have been together now for two years so I guess you could say it works we talk each day either phone, text email or msn its hard work but worth it
Im sorry,but unfortunatly long distance relationships don't ever seem to work,UNLESS you two are deeply in love,and it is more then just the physical,but you have to trust each other as well. Alot of the time people do seem to drift apart if they don't see each other alot,but if you talk daily,love,and trust each other who knows,itcould work!
good luck,hope this helped!
please answer my question!:D
mine does last night celebrated 2 yrs :)rosacea
generally no they don't but that doesn't mean they can't. and twice a week?! that's plenty - that's more than some couples who live near each other! relationships take work and effort.
good luck :-)Do long distance relationships generally work?
Twice a week is not long distance. A different country and 6 months apart, that was my long distance relationship and it did not last.
At least you get to see each other...!
I was involved with a long distance relationship... over 2400km with the sea between us and I am proud to say I am not a statistic of failed long distance relationship.
It takes hard work and commitment but the rewards are there to be reaped.
Good luck and all the best!
they are hard to make work but it's possible, twice a week will help it to wrok, i never really saw my ex when we were in a long distance relationship, which ended up being the reason for finishing, which was sad as i really loved her too.
Depends how you work on them
Mine did and we only saw each other monthly.
Now married nearly 40 years.
long distance relationships really need to be worked at by both involved. They can be hard work, but if you love the person enough then they can also work. Twice a week is a good amount of times to see each other - some long distance relationships dont allow the people to see each other twice a year!
I think you have good grounds for it to work out
xx
Seeing each other twice a week sounds pretty good to me. That could work.
My partner works in the Netherlands we only see each other ever other weekend holidays etc we have been together now for two years so I guess you could say it works we talk each day either phone, text email or msn its hard work but worth it
Im sorry,but unfortunatly long distance relationships don't ever seem to work,UNLESS you two are deeply in love,and it is more then just the physical,but you have to trust each other as well. Alot of the time people do seem to drift apart if they don't see each other alot,but if you talk daily,love,and trust each other who knows,itcould work!
good luck,hope this helped!
please answer my question!:D
mine does last night celebrated 2 yrs :)
Do you listen to neighbors about what to do about relationships?
i think neighbor should mind their own businessDo you listen to neighbors about what to do about relationships?
your neighbors should keep out of yer personal life, and mind their own business! good luck;-)
your neighbors should keep out of yer personal life, and mind their own business! good luck;-)
How many ';relationships'; would you consider to many re: your submissive partner?
Multiple relationships are very common in the BDSM community. If that is what you are talking about. re: your submissive partner and all parties in the relationship. If everyone isn't behind the process, it's doomed to fail in the long run. People get angry, sad, hurt and emotional. I how ever would never go that way. Too much for me to even think about. I am one who only believes in having one man and only one man. When it comes to a relationship for me there is only one and that is me and my boyfriend. No matter how many relationships you have in the past should not matter to anyone. It is what you do and how you feel about someone in the present. Love, honey
How do you feel AIDS has affected your society, relationships, and your choices.?
pls do not post anything retarded i need this for a homework i jst need opions ... htank youHow do you feel AIDS has affected your society, relationships, and your choices.?
Well I don't think it has really affected my society, because people still sleep around unproteted.
But relationship wise,
If a guy has been with way too many girls sexualy,
I won't even give him a second look.
And my choices, I just don't sleep around, plain and simple.
But I don't think I would even if there weren't any STD's.How do you feel AIDS has affected your society, relationships, and your choices.?
i just came out.i was dating a guy who always wanted me to bring home a woman.he said come on we can pick one up at the bar.i never would i didn't want to get anything.so it has made me more cautious.i don't want to get anything.i think the decisions i have made to keep myself safe have been wise.i also think that the children of our society need to be better educated about STDs.they are having sex and not being careful some are having kids as young as 13.
i think it has made society as a whole be a bit more careful when it comes to sex. But unfortunately there are still lots of people (gay AND straight people) that dont protect themselves as they should.
You have to take extra precautions. You get just have wreckless sex because once you get it, its a done deal.
There is a homework section!!
If you want help send me $25 an hour and I will do your H.W. for you.
Well I don't think it has really affected my society, because people still sleep around unproteted.
But relationship wise,
If a guy has been with way too many girls sexualy,
I won't even give him a second look.
And my choices, I just don't sleep around, plain and simple.
But I don't think I would even if there weren't any STD's.How do you feel AIDS has affected your society, relationships, and your choices.?
i just came out.i was dating a guy who always wanted me to bring home a woman.he said come on we can pick one up at the bar.i never would i didn't want to get anything.so it has made me more cautious.i don't want to get anything.i think the decisions i have made to keep myself safe have been wise.i also think that the children of our society need to be better educated about STDs.they are having sex and not being careful some are having kids as young as 13.
i think it has made society as a whole be a bit more careful when it comes to sex. But unfortunately there are still lots of people (gay AND straight people) that dont protect themselves as they should.
You have to take extra precautions. You get just have wreckless sex because once you get it, its a done deal.
There is a homework section!!
If you want help send me $25 an hour and I will do your H.W. for you.
In all relationships of intimacy and commitment, why is infidelity such a popular act?
Cause people love doing what they cant, what forbidden to them. They want what they cant have...that's why they cheat.In all relationships of intimacy and commitment, why is infidelity such a popular act?
Because people always want what they aren't getting...or at least they want what they THINK they aren't getting. Infidelity has been going on ever since the beginning of time, we as a people have emotions and we never know what we want until we get it.In all relationships of intimacy and commitment, why is infidelity such a popular act?
Its because of the 80/20 rule. It has been said that you are going to get 80% of what you need in a realtionship. Well when a 20 comes along its going to look mighty good, but are you going to leave your 80 for a 20??
Because people always want what they aren't getting...or at least they want what they THINK they aren't getting. Infidelity has been going on ever since the beginning of time, we as a people have emotions and we never know what we want until we get it.In all relationships of intimacy and commitment, why is infidelity such a popular act?
Its because of the 80/20 rule. It has been said that you are going to get 80% of what you need in a realtionship. Well when a 20 comes along its going to look mighty good, but are you going to leave your 80 for a 20??
In Helen Edmundson's version of Orestes, what point is she trying to make about the sexual relationships?
Just saw it last night. We noticed lots of interesting threads about sexuality, from the ';pimp'; clothing of the grandfather, Helen's taunting of the virgin Electra, Electra's view of Helen as whore, Helen's description of Clytemnestra as a rape victim making the best of a bad marriage by finding a lover, and the flowering of incestuous attraction between Electra and Orestes. I thought it was interesting that right after the scene when Orestes is aroused by his sister, he suddenly switches from accepting death to wanting to live. Fits nicely with a Freudian analysis--the return of Eros banishes Thanatos.In Helen Edmundson's version of Orestes, what point is she trying to make about the sexual relationships?
shes talking about the pleasure and the pain of sexual gratification
shes talking about the pleasure and the pain of sexual gratification
In all relationships of intimacy and commitment, why is infidelity such a popular act?
Well, there are lots of reasons. Biologically speaking, there are large advantages to discrete infidelity- seeking attractive mates can help a man pass his genetics into the next generation (ie have children) who are likely to thrive. For a woman, the benefits are more limited- since she can only have 1 child every 9 months, it makes more sense to pursue one good mate who will provide for the child, rather than multiple mates.
That said, humans should be aware of this, to help them overcome this animal nature. Infidelity is popular because the grass is always greener (or preferably shorter) on the other side.rosacea
That said, humans should be aware of this, to help them overcome this animal nature. Infidelity is popular because the grass is always greener (or preferably shorter) on the other side.
Why do so many women expect to find committed relationships from casual sex web sites?
There are a number of web sites out there that are for the primary purpose of people meeting for casual sex and non-committed intimate encounters. The names and the descriptions of the web sites clearly state this. Yet, there are so many women who in their profile state that they are looking for committed long term relationships, the love of their life, marriage and children, and the list goes on. If that's the case, then why are they on a web site that is specifically designated for casual sex? Why don't they join the infinite number of other web sites that are designed for more serious and committed long-term relationships?
You don't go to a shellfish shop to look for kosher food. So why go on a casual sex personals web site to look for serious and committed long-term relationships?Why do so many women expect to find committed relationships from casual sex web sites?
Because they are stupid
Whatever happened to going somewhere and meeting real people and not the fake weirdo perverts here on Yahoo?Why do so many women expect to find committed relationships from casual sex web sites?
they r nuts
It's the pretty woman complex. Some women think that if they give good sex men will fall in love like richard gere and julia roberts in pretty woman. They are living in la la land.
What ever happened to social Meetings in person?? i'm sure i'm not the only one who feels that we ';Humanity'; are losing in touch with each other and distancing our social order. becuase of this, that's why we have ';these'; websites that exists. Women are more protective in the area of sex/relationships. so the internet is like a dream come true for them. but there are many DANGERS that LURKE ONLINE AS WELL. so go figure.
I gotta agree with the first guy: stupidity. It's like women dating way older man they meet in bars or disgusting places and they think they have found a mature responsible man, just because he is older.
A lot of people believe that all someone needs is the right man (or woman) to set them straight.
they are just expanding their options - who knows - they could meet the love of their life on a casual site - how could they then explain the commit thing after the fact.
excuse me that ball bounces both ways..personally i dont want anything off internet except chat.. face it ..people are crazy
low/bad self-esteem!
anyone with good self-esteem would not go to a web site at all........they'd be looking right where they are for that 'someone'.
Can't read?
thats a good question, I think they want casual sex, but are afraid to say it, so they lie ?
You don't go to a shellfish shop to look for kosher food. So why go on a casual sex personals web site to look for serious and committed long-term relationships?Why do so many women expect to find committed relationships from casual sex web sites?
Because they are stupid
Whatever happened to going somewhere and meeting real people and not the fake weirdo perverts here on Yahoo?Why do so many women expect to find committed relationships from casual sex web sites?
they r nuts
It's the pretty woman complex. Some women think that if they give good sex men will fall in love like richard gere and julia roberts in pretty woman. They are living in la la land.
What ever happened to social Meetings in person?? i'm sure i'm not the only one who feels that we ';Humanity'; are losing in touch with each other and distancing our social order. becuase of this, that's why we have ';these'; websites that exists. Women are more protective in the area of sex/relationships. so the internet is like a dream come true for them. but there are many DANGERS that LURKE ONLINE AS WELL. so go figure.
I gotta agree with the first guy: stupidity. It's like women dating way older man they meet in bars or disgusting places and they think they have found a mature responsible man, just because he is older.
A lot of people believe that all someone needs is the right man (or woman) to set them straight.
they are just expanding their options - who knows - they could meet the love of their life on a casual site - how could they then explain the commit thing after the fact.
excuse me that ball bounces both ways..personally i dont want anything off internet except chat.. face it ..people are crazy
low/bad self-esteem!
anyone with good self-esteem would not go to a web site at all........they'd be looking right where they are for that 'someone'.
Can't read?
thats a good question, I think they want casual sex, but are afraid to say it, so they lie ?
Why are relationships so frustrating? Advice please! ?
I seem to find it really difficult to find someone - There have been people in the past that i've really REALLY liked (not all at once) and most of them are actually good friends of mine but none of them have felt the same; Is there something wrong with me?
P.S. I have had a boyfriend before but it's never lastedWhy are relationships so frustrating? Advice please! ?
hmm maybe you should look for someone that is not your friend. Because dating out of your comfort zone may bring out the results you want.
P.S. I have had a boyfriend before but it's never lastedWhy are relationships so frustrating? Advice please! ?
hmm maybe you should look for someone that is not your friend. Because dating out of your comfort zone may bring out the results you want.
On/off relationships? How often has this happened to you?
For those couples who are always on and off, what is the most number of times you've ever broken up and then hook back up with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Are you guys still together?
Do you feel like your chasing pavement in your relationships?
I like that Song, Adele is a good singer
If you like Adele, try Lachi (search Lachi on iTunes)Do you feel like your chasing pavement in your relationships?
You gave m 10 points, like I really care if its a good answer?
Do you feel like your chasing pavement in your relationships?
I love that song, havent listened to it ina while, thanks
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If you like Adele, try Lachi (search Lachi on iTunes)Do you feel like your chasing pavement in your relationships?
You gave m 10 points, like I really care if its a good answer?
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Do you feel like your chasing pavement in your relationships?
I love that song, havent listened to it ina while, thanks
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Where can i get online councelling regarding Love and relationships?
i'm in love and my relation with my LOVE is not going easy these days, i really need some online councelling regarding this matter.Where can i get online councelling regarding Love and relationships?
Online counseling is not a good option because you don't know if the person is a certified counselor or not. Look in your local phone book for a good counselor and if money is an issue, a lot of counselors offer a reduced or sliding fee scale.
Online counseling is not a good option because you don't know if the person is a certified counselor or not. Look in your local phone book for a good counselor and if money is an issue, a lot of counselors offer a reduced or sliding fee scale.
Are men just as scared of being hurt in relationships as women?
Nadia, this is very true in most relationships. Men are also human and have feelings etc. just as much as their female counterparts. Plus a lot of guys have been burnt in the past also and so are gun shy about getting burnt again. Females appear to get over being hurt either better or quicker than males.Are men just as scared of being hurt in relationships as women?
Quick answer: yes. (';*Just* *as* scared,'; I don't know). For a lot of men the fear of rejection when we first approach a woman may be the larger issue. --signed, a man who has been hurt beforeAre men just as scared of being hurt in relationships as women?
Yes. My husband has 2 exes that raked his ***, and it took him 5 years to propose because he didn't want to get hurt again.
Yeah alot of them are. My bf asks me everyday not to hurt him, and I promise him I won't because I won't I love him to much.
Absolutely. I had big trust issues after getting burned on different occasions and still do to a certain extent. Honestly, I probably would never marry again if it weren't for my fiance.
No, I think they do not care because most of the time they do not develop any feelings for a woman even if they date for a long time
Absolutely! The fear of being hurt again scares me to death!!
No. Men don't have feelings.
Not all, but most are.
Betrayed yes.
I think so.
Without a doubt yes
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Quick answer: yes. (';*Just* *as* scared,'; I don't know). For a lot of men the fear of rejection when we first approach a woman may be the larger issue. --signed, a man who has been hurt beforeAre men just as scared of being hurt in relationships as women?
Yes. My husband has 2 exes that raked his ***, and it took him 5 years to propose because he didn't want to get hurt again.
Yeah alot of them are. My bf asks me everyday not to hurt him, and I promise him I won't because I won't I love him to much.
Absolutely. I had big trust issues after getting burned on different occasions and still do to a certain extent. Honestly, I probably would never marry again if it weren't for my fiance.
No, I think they do not care because most of the time they do not develop any feelings for a woman even if they date for a long time
Absolutely! The fear of being hurt again scares me to death!!
No. Men don't have feelings.
Not all, but most are.
Betrayed yes.
I think so.
Without a doubt yes
no
Linear relationships between two quantities can be described by an equation or a graph? Why?
assuming identical units, two points describe a line
a line can be represented by an equation or a graph of that equation
ax+b=y,
a line can be represented by an equation or a graph of that equation
ax+b=y,
Why is there more black male/ white female relationships than vice versa?
And why do black footballers nearly always go for the white bimbo types?Why is there more black male/ white female relationships than vice versa?
well the same could be said about asian females.
its just preferences i guess and as for the football thing idkWhy is there more black male/ white female relationships than vice versa?
Black male / White female
visa-versa would be
White female / Black female.
If you mean male / female, I'd say it's probably because most white guys just plain don't find black girls attractive. It's a matter of preference.
And considering that black guys go for white women as well, according to you, that is, maybe the male population just prefers white women. Still, I'm sure there's someone out there for you, black girl reading this.
Go ahead, call me racist.
White woman are prettier, latinas even more so. Mixed race women, like Halle Berry or Mariah Carey, are even hotter.
Ever see the ';baby daddy'; episodes on Maury Povich? Nothing but welfare brood mares, 7 babies with 20 suspected daddys, for each baby. Do you really want to marry that?
And it may have something to do with getting back at the man. I don't know, I'm just a racist cracker.
According to Freud, All boys want to kill their fathers and marry their mothers. All girls are jealous of their mothers and want to marry their fathers.
White women that marry black men probably had lousy fathers and date black men to get back at them.
Lots more white/white and black/black
it is probably because black males want to show off, it is like having a certain car
Who really cares? It's none of my business who other people take up with. Nor is it anybody else's business
White trash !
well the same could be said about asian females.
its just preferences i guess and as for the football thing idkWhy is there more black male/ white female relationships than vice versa?
Black male / White female
visa-versa would be
White female / Black female.
If you mean male / female, I'd say it's probably because most white guys just plain don't find black girls attractive. It's a matter of preference.
And considering that black guys go for white women as well, according to you, that is, maybe the male population just prefers white women. Still, I'm sure there's someone out there for you, black girl reading this.
Go ahead, call me racist.
White woman are prettier, latinas even more so. Mixed race women, like Halle Berry or Mariah Carey, are even hotter.
Ever see the ';baby daddy'; episodes on Maury Povich? Nothing but welfare brood mares, 7 babies with 20 suspected daddys, for each baby. Do you really want to marry that?
And it may have something to do with getting back at the man. I don't know, I'm just a racist cracker.
According to Freud, All boys want to kill their fathers and marry their mothers. All girls are jealous of their mothers and want to marry their fathers.
White women that marry black men probably had lousy fathers and date black men to get back at them.
Lots more white/white and black/black
it is probably because black males want to show off, it is like having a certain car
Who really cares? It's none of my business who other people take up with. Nor is it anybody else's business
White trash !
Why do I keep getting e-mails offering me a larger pen1s and other sexually explicit relationships?
I obviously don't need a larger pen1s, since I am a woman, and I haven't logged on to any porno sites or anything like that, so how do I keep getting this junk?Why do I keep getting e-mails offering me a larger pen1s and other sexually explicit relationships?
You do not have to go into porn sites. I have never been on a porn site in my life! You get them because of other websites you have gone into. Somehow the porn sites attach to different sites and you automatically start getting porn emails. I just keep hitting the spam button. It is embarrassing when your kids see this!!! Hope this helps!!
You do not have to go into porn sites. I have never been on a porn site in my life! You get them because of other websites you have gone into. Somehow the porn sites attach to different sites and you automatically start getting porn emails. I just keep hitting the spam button. It is embarrassing when your kids see this!!! Hope this helps!!
Are relationships suppose to be easy? Or what kind of work do you personally put in to make things work?
Do you ever wish you never gotten married or had kids and wish you had done things different? Or is your life perfect just the way it is?Are relationships suppose to be easy? Or what kind of work do you personally put in to make things work?
Relationships should be relatively easy, but there is always some compromise. The most important things are respect, a sense of humor, and being able to take an honest look at yourself before complaining about your spouse. I had my first child when I was 16. There were times in my life when I thought that my life would have turned out better if I'd made different choices. As I've gotten older though I realize that my definition of better has changed. My life couldn't get any better - I have a wonderful husband, 5 great kids, enough material things to live comfortably, and people who love me.Are relationships suppose to be easy? Or what kind of work do you personally put in to make things work?
No i have never wished that i didn't get married cause i love my husband more then anything and he is my whole life.
He is my best friend and i couldn't imagine my life without him in it.
Our relationship and marriage has always been easy cause we get along great and rarely fight and we have never found married life hard not even from the beginning.
no relationship is easy.. kids are not easy... you have to work at it every day.. with kids, it is not about you anymore.. no life is perfect.. everything has a flaw or something..
I let my wife sleep in, feed breakfast to the kids, buy her flowers randomly, go shopping, vacuum and clean house, do laundry, buy her ';woman products';, etc... we trade off.. her list is much longer of the things she does for me.. you cannot keep ';score'; of who does what.. marriage is not a contest... you will end up divorced... everyone has struggles and everyone handles struggles differently.. you have to ';run your own race'; in life.. don't worry about everyone else...
I love my kids and would never wish I did not have them. I wish I picked a different dad for them but whats done is done. Relationships are work and anyone that tells u theirs is perfect is lying their a** off and it's them that have the most screwed up one!
Right now I love my life... It's not perfect but it makes me happy! So would I do anything different? No, cuz my life has brought me to where I am today!!
relationships are never easy,i believe everyone second guesses their lives from time to time, when expectations aren't met, and problems come.but u have to make the most of what u have, because if u leave it for someone else chances are there will be the same problems there also.
life is never perfect. i have been married 21 yrs today. and it is just as hard today as it was 21 yrs ago maybe even harder. but it is worth the work that you have to put into it. if your not willing to put forth the hard work and hard times then you will not make it.
Relationships are NEVER easy. You can make them easier by trusting, respecting, and loving your lover. Life is never perfect, you go through days when you want to start the day all over, like if you said something that you didn't mean to say.
I think about what it would be like if I hadn't gotten married or had children. We all think that. But it's just a thought. We can't erase them. We just move on and make our lives the best we can. I love my children and my husband. I wouldn't change them to save my life.
Relationships should be relatively easy, but there is always some compromise. The most important things are respect, a sense of humor, and being able to take an honest look at yourself before complaining about your spouse. I had my first child when I was 16. There were times in my life when I thought that my life would have turned out better if I'd made different choices. As I've gotten older though I realize that my definition of better has changed. My life couldn't get any better - I have a wonderful husband, 5 great kids, enough material things to live comfortably, and people who love me.Are relationships suppose to be easy? Or what kind of work do you personally put in to make things work?
No i have never wished that i didn't get married cause i love my husband more then anything and he is my whole life.
He is my best friend and i couldn't imagine my life without him in it.
Our relationship and marriage has always been easy cause we get along great and rarely fight and we have never found married life hard not even from the beginning.
no relationship is easy.. kids are not easy... you have to work at it every day.. with kids, it is not about you anymore.. no life is perfect.. everything has a flaw or something..
I let my wife sleep in, feed breakfast to the kids, buy her flowers randomly, go shopping, vacuum and clean house, do laundry, buy her ';woman products';, etc... we trade off.. her list is much longer of the things she does for me.. you cannot keep ';score'; of who does what.. marriage is not a contest... you will end up divorced... everyone has struggles and everyone handles struggles differently.. you have to ';run your own race'; in life.. don't worry about everyone else...
I love my kids and would never wish I did not have them. I wish I picked a different dad for them but whats done is done. Relationships are work and anyone that tells u theirs is perfect is lying their a** off and it's them that have the most screwed up one!
Right now I love my life... It's not perfect but it makes me happy! So would I do anything different? No, cuz my life has brought me to where I am today!!
relationships are never easy,i believe everyone second guesses their lives from time to time, when expectations aren't met, and problems come.but u have to make the most of what u have, because if u leave it for someone else chances are there will be the same problems there also.
life is never perfect. i have been married 21 yrs today. and it is just as hard today as it was 21 yrs ago maybe even harder. but it is worth the work that you have to put into it. if your not willing to put forth the hard work and hard times then you will not make it.
Relationships are NEVER easy. You can make them easier by trusting, respecting, and loving your lover. Life is never perfect, you go through days when you want to start the day all over, like if you said something that you didn't mean to say.
I think about what it would be like if I hadn't gotten married or had children. We all think that. But it's just a thought. We can't erase them. We just move on and make our lives the best we can. I love my children and my husband. I wouldn't change them to save my life.
Why do some people in long-term committed relationships choose not to get married?
I've heard these couples say that they are happy where they are and they don't need to get married, they don't need to have that piece of paper. Why is that? How do you feel about that?Why do some people in long-term committed relationships choose not to get married?
scaredWhy do some people in long-term committed relationships choose not to get married?
some people just don't want to take that big step.
Because they are afraid about the only fact that they have to take Divorce if any problem occur and in this type of relation there is no such legal matter called ';Divorce';....I hate this type of relation.....
Thats a really good question and they are real stupid?
I think it's ok. My mom would kill me and harrass me over it, though. Goldie Hawn did it and seems very happy. I think it could be a good thing.
ITS ABOUT COMMUNICATION BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE ...
SO SCREW EVERYONE WHO HAS OPINIONS OF WHY I DON'T GET MARRIED... MY LIFE IS MINE ... AS LONG AS I DON'T BREAK ANY LAWS... MY RELATIONSHIP BELONGS TO ME .. LET ME AND MY PARTNER DECIEDED WHAT WE SHOULD DO AND BUTT OUT ....
IF I WANT YOUR OPINION, I'LL ASK
I've been in a relationship for 10 years who says were happy we have our monents
You just get comfortable and you just do not need a piece of paper to declare your love for one another.
On the mans part, its fear of losing half his worth if it goes wrong,
also it gives him a feeling that in reality deep down, hes really free
but only until he gets actually really tired or finds ms. right will he
be playing the house and husband role. For the woman, it may be fear of making this only everlasting mistake but in the end, the
one losing is her if she doesn't try to push it along for that paper.
Honestly, I don't know why.. but one thing my grandpa said (he's in a lonnnggg term relationship with a woman who's not my grandma (they divorced years ago).. he said that he doesn't wanna be ';hurt'; again.. although what happened during the divorce..he wasn't hurt.. it was dumb.. but that could be a reason.. not sure why else though...
I honestly think it's kind of silly.
-Chantel
becuz they are not ready for marrige.
I think it is o.k. some people have trust issues and can't even trust themselve and would rather be single but mess around on their partners rather then marry and mess around on the spouce. That sucks but is very true! My thing is play around together safely or don't play around at all.
Other reasons maybe financial - if a rich person meets a poor person and they fall in love why loss everything to someone that that wasn't theirs to begin with!
Marriage is a big commitment that is supossed to last your whole life, with the divorce rate it is better to be sure then divorced o matter how many years it may take.
My mom lived witht her boyfrined the man that raised me for 18 years before they go married and me and my husband would not marry till' his youngest turned 18 - I would not have got married but he insisted, it was just something I would not rather do but did - It wouldn't have bothered me a bit to live with him forever but now that we are I happy! I have ended a few relationships b/c they've wanted to get married and I just wasn't ready - I married in my 30's and very happy I didn't at any other younger age! Maturity means a lot in a marriage as well!
I am in a long term relationship and was very happy until he almost died and I didn't have 1 ounce of say-so when he was in the hospital because he was not my husband. He put my name on his admissions paperwork, but when it came down to the nitty gritty, his kids came in and put their name over mine. They were legally related and I wasn't. They had his x wife in looking at his labs etc...He dropped into a coma and I held his hand and cried while the kids locked me outa the house and went to his employer to get his paychecks.
I was devastated. It turned out to be a regular fiasco.
When he finally was released from the hospital and ready to go home, the kids were no where to be found, not even to drive him home and get him into the house.We had to break into the house and I took care of him for 2mo. He thanked me by taking me to Texas on a winter vacation. We needed a break. He is in total denial about what his adult kids did when he was in the hospital.
To make matters worse, I am a Registered Nurse and work in a hospital full time. Unless he wakes up and smells the roses, I will never marry him. Its too much with all those rottin, ignorant adult kids around.rosacea
scaredWhy do some people in long-term committed relationships choose not to get married?
some people just don't want to take that big step.
Because they are afraid about the only fact that they have to take Divorce if any problem occur and in this type of relation there is no such legal matter called ';Divorce';....I hate this type of relation.....
Thats a really good question and they are real stupid?
I think it's ok. My mom would kill me and harrass me over it, though. Goldie Hawn did it and seems very happy. I think it could be a good thing.
ITS ABOUT COMMUNICATION BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE ...
SO SCREW EVERYONE WHO HAS OPINIONS OF WHY I DON'T GET MARRIED... MY LIFE IS MINE ... AS LONG AS I DON'T BREAK ANY LAWS... MY RELATIONSHIP BELONGS TO ME .. LET ME AND MY PARTNER DECIEDED WHAT WE SHOULD DO AND BUTT OUT ....
IF I WANT YOUR OPINION, I'LL ASK
I've been in a relationship for 10 years who says were happy we have our monents
You just get comfortable and you just do not need a piece of paper to declare your love for one another.
On the mans part, its fear of losing half his worth if it goes wrong,
also it gives him a feeling that in reality deep down, hes really free
but only until he gets actually really tired or finds ms. right will he
be playing the house and husband role. For the woman, it may be fear of making this only everlasting mistake but in the end, the
one losing is her if she doesn't try to push it along for that paper.
Honestly, I don't know why.. but one thing my grandpa said (he's in a lonnnggg term relationship with a woman who's not my grandma (they divorced years ago).. he said that he doesn't wanna be ';hurt'; again.. although what happened during the divorce..he wasn't hurt.. it was dumb.. but that could be a reason.. not sure why else though...
I honestly think it's kind of silly.
-Chantel
becuz they are not ready for marrige.
I think it is o.k. some people have trust issues and can't even trust themselve and would rather be single but mess around on their partners rather then marry and mess around on the spouce. That sucks but is very true! My thing is play around together safely or don't play around at all.
Other reasons maybe financial - if a rich person meets a poor person and they fall in love why loss everything to someone that that wasn't theirs to begin with!
Marriage is a big commitment that is supossed to last your whole life, with the divorce rate it is better to be sure then divorced o matter how many years it may take.
My mom lived witht her boyfrined the man that raised me for 18 years before they go married and me and my husband would not marry till' his youngest turned 18 - I would not have got married but he insisted, it was just something I would not rather do but did - It wouldn't have bothered me a bit to live with him forever but now that we are I happy! I have ended a few relationships b/c they've wanted to get married and I just wasn't ready - I married in my 30's and very happy I didn't at any other younger age! Maturity means a lot in a marriage as well!
I am in a long term relationship and was very happy until he almost died and I didn't have 1 ounce of say-so when he was in the hospital because he was not my husband. He put my name on his admissions paperwork, but when it came down to the nitty gritty, his kids came in and put their name over mine. They were legally related and I wasn't. They had his x wife in looking at his labs etc...He dropped into a coma and I held his hand and cried while the kids locked me outa the house and went to his employer to get his paychecks.
I was devastated. It turned out to be a regular fiasco.
When he finally was released from the hospital and ready to go home, the kids were no where to be found, not even to drive him home and get him into the house.We had to break into the house and I took care of him for 2mo. He thanked me by taking me to Texas on a winter vacation. We needed a break. He is in total denial about what his adult kids did when he was in the hospital.
To make matters worse, I am a Registered Nurse and work in a hospital full time. Unless he wakes up and smells the roses, I will never marry him. Its too much with all those rottin, ignorant adult kids around.
Who knows a good place to find me a hot girlfriend that will want an online relationships?
i want an girlfriend (by the way im a girl) that would be okay with an online line thing where should i find thisWho knows a good place to find me a hot girlfriend that will want an online relationships?
match.com etc is probably place to start.
match.com etc is probably place to start.
What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
If Talking about Couples:
Trust
Intimacy
Compatibilty
Forgiveness
If talking about Families:
Trust
Responsiblity
Forgiveness
Expectations
(just a few thoughts, certainly not an expert at them!)What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
I recommend you to read this free E-book called 97 Steps To A Happy Relationship. It's a free and easy download, so it won't hurt to check it out.What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
Abuse
Trust
Intimacy
Compatibilty
Forgiveness
If talking about Families:
Trust
Responsiblity
Forgiveness
Expectations
(just a few thoughts, certainly not an expert at them!)What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
I recommend you to read this free E-book called 97 Steps To A Happy Relationship. It's a free and easy download, so it won't hurt to check it out.What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
Abuse
Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
the situation on the show was, lets say i was the husband(im a guy)
and i had a wife, and a best friend. i was close to my best friend enough to encourage him to have a sexual relationship with my wife and according to the show i wouldn't feel jealousy AT ALL. this hit me like wow, what state of mind must one be to just give away a woman you love to another close bloke? its male nature to want that one girl for yourself. is this tv guy normal or is it me?Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
You're normal. I would never share my partner, nor would I ever cheat on him. To do so is to have lack of respect for yourself and your partner.Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
Some people oddly enough are in a wierd way turned on by that. I personally could'nt share my husband with anyone because I'm a selfish lover. I have to have him all to myself. I think the arrangement with that situation on the show is based on the physical needs of the husband and sexual fantasy fulfillment. It has nothing to do with love. That kind of behavior leads to relationship damage. Its playing with fire.
Some people have no issue sleeping with others while in a relationship and some married couples become swingers and swap partners. You can love someone but not be in love with them and I think that is the only way these people are able to do what they do. Detaching is also possible. Porn stars get married and still work in the business so it's all up to the individual. I personally would not.
No one can feel emotionally, or even physically, fulfilled in a joke of a relationship like that. That guy sounds like a real douche...he has no love or respect for his wife whatsoever if he just offers her up to other guys. He's definetely NOT normal!
I think that the term ';open relationships'; is just a term to excuse all the infidelity that these people do. If people arent willing to keep the vows they make, they shouldn't bother making them in the first place. It's an insult to everyone out there who does keep their vows.
Polygamy.. hmm.. Well my theory is that most humans are not naturally monogamous anyway. Really we are just like every other sex driven animal %26gt;%26gt; with some added complicated emotions..like jealousy, haha.
I can understand why people do it. At the end of the day it just depends on the relationship. Essentially its just a trade off - between freedom and pride/ego.
Me? Not sure. Unlikely, but I wouldnt rule it out. Freedom verse Pride.. Which is more important to me? Both.. but Freedom perhaps a little bit more.
Then again im not a bloke.. lol.
in the normal course of events, a unit, man and woman, seek exclusivity. each member of the unit, seek to keep each others full attention.
in most societies, a man will do the needed to protect his woman.
there are deviants who do otherwise.
All the men and women I know would agree with you, I do too. One partner only. I don't want to share or have him share either, that's called cheating. It's frowned upon by most people. That's a total lack of respect for yourself and your partner.
You are absolutely normal
It's scary...I think the tv guy is crazy...You are normal...but the tv guy is crazy!
I definitely wouldn't hand over the person I love to anyone else. My fiance is mine - no touching!
and i had a wife, and a best friend. i was close to my best friend enough to encourage him to have a sexual relationship with my wife and according to the show i wouldn't feel jealousy AT ALL. this hit me like wow, what state of mind must one be to just give away a woman you love to another close bloke? its male nature to want that one girl for yourself. is this tv guy normal or is it me?Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
You're normal. I would never share my partner, nor would I ever cheat on him. To do so is to have lack of respect for yourself and your partner.Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
Some people oddly enough are in a wierd way turned on by that. I personally could'nt share my husband with anyone because I'm a selfish lover. I have to have him all to myself. I think the arrangement with that situation on the show is based on the physical needs of the husband and sexual fantasy fulfillment. It has nothing to do with love. That kind of behavior leads to relationship damage. Its playing with fire.
Some people have no issue sleeping with others while in a relationship and some married couples become swingers and swap partners. You can love someone but not be in love with them and I think that is the only way these people are able to do what they do. Detaching is also possible. Porn stars get married and still work in the business so it's all up to the individual. I personally would not.
No one can feel emotionally, or even physically, fulfilled in a joke of a relationship like that. That guy sounds like a real douche...he has no love or respect for his wife whatsoever if he just offers her up to other guys. He's definetely NOT normal!
I think that the term ';open relationships'; is just a term to excuse all the infidelity that these people do. If people arent willing to keep the vows they make, they shouldn't bother making them in the first place. It's an insult to everyone out there who does keep their vows.
Polygamy.. hmm.. Well my theory is that most humans are not naturally monogamous anyway. Really we are just like every other sex driven animal %26gt;%26gt; with some added complicated emotions..like jealousy, haha.
I can understand why people do it. At the end of the day it just depends on the relationship. Essentially its just a trade off - between freedom and pride/ego.
Me? Not sure. Unlikely, but I wouldnt rule it out. Freedom verse Pride.. Which is more important to me? Both.. but Freedom perhaps a little bit more.
Then again im not a bloke.. lol.
in the normal course of events, a unit, man and woman, seek exclusivity. each member of the unit, seek to keep each others full attention.
in most societies, a man will do the needed to protect his woman.
there are deviants who do otherwise.
All the men and women I know would agree with you, I do too. One partner only. I don't want to share or have him share either, that's called cheating. It's frowned upon by most people. That's a total lack of respect for yourself and your partner.
You are absolutely normal
It's scary...I think the tv guy is crazy...You are normal...but the tv guy is crazy!
I definitely wouldn't hand over the person I love to anyone else. My fiance is mine - no touching!
Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
i, personally, find nothing wrong with them.Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
In my opinion -- the wrong is not in the inter-racial relationship (love has no boundaries or preference on race) --- it is when they bring a child in this world --- that makes it so unfair to the child. The child does not totally fit into either nationality ! It makes it harder on the child growing up -- especially when the cultures are so different and the beliefs are so different ! I have 14 other siblings (4 brothers and the rest are 1/2 brothers and sisters --- and there are a lot of mixed in the bunch ! So I do know what I am talking about !Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
I find nothing wrong with them either. You can't control your feelings. I'm in love with someone out of my ethnicity.
Got no problem with that, I do, however, frown on interspecies relationships!
Doesn't matter to me.
People can love who they want, its not for me to judge.
Don't believe in it.Race should stay in own race.
I don't even notice that.
My cousins all have bi-racial children..doesn't bother me.
In my opinion -- the wrong is not in the inter-racial relationship (love has no boundaries or preference on race) --- it is when they bring a child in this world --- that makes it so unfair to the child. The child does not totally fit into either nationality ! It makes it harder on the child growing up -- especially when the cultures are so different and the beliefs are so different ! I have 14 other siblings (4 brothers and the rest are 1/2 brothers and sisters --- and there are a lot of mixed in the bunch ! So I do know what I am talking about !Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
I find nothing wrong with them either. You can't control your feelings. I'm in love with someone out of my ethnicity.
Got no problem with that, I do, however, frown on interspecies relationships!
Doesn't matter to me.
People can love who they want, its not for me to judge.
Don't believe in it.Race should stay in own race.
I don't even notice that.
My cousins all have bi-racial children..doesn't bother me.
What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
I was with a man for 7 years, and it ended. I have been dating for about 5 years now and have not found anyone extremely long term. I have only had 2 long term relationships since and they have both ended after the 1 year mark. The first guy wanted me to turn my life completely upside down for him with no compromise. He wanted me to quit school and move where he wanted to move. I wanted to finish my couple of classes to get my degree and then move, because not all my courses transferred. I only had a couple of classes left about 2 semesters and wanted to finish. Since I didn't drop everything, he found some girl 10 years younger to drop out of school and move to the other city with him. This last guy decided that we got along to well, that we didn't fight or argue. We did disagree on things but not so much to cause an argument. So apparently that's a bad thing. I'm starting to think I'm going to be single forever. I鈥檓 not in a hurry because I want to find the right guy first, but eventually I want the home and the family, and I'm not getting any younger. Does anybody have dating advice, because I don鈥檛 know what it is about that year mark, or why getting along well is a bad thing.What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
Sounds like you are still very young...you have plenty of time for marriage and a family. Until then...you are doing what you are supposed to...which is dating.
So have fun with it...its okay to date several people at a time and without doing anything sexual as long as you are open about it. Also helps to know what you want and communicate that to anyone you are thinking about being serious with so you don't waste your time or his.
Too bad your former boyfriend found your compatibility a deal breaker... I can't image why anyone would wantssomebody they can't get along with as a life partner...sounds like an excuse to me...he basically flaked out on you...so forget him.
A good partner will respect you, your boundaries, your choices, and want to work at having a good relationship with you. He won't want you to turn yourself and your life upside down for him and women who do this just regret it later and worse... the men resent them for doing it..even.
The right person will come along...until then enjoy your single life and career as these are the best years of your life!What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
you should try the reverse vector and decide you DO NOT want a relationship, and that is usually when they come floking to you.
i did it and now im married, I accually wasn never gonna get married and have been in lots of those ';please marry me'; relationships, but its when I really decided it was all about me then I found my guy!
when we reject honor and marriage-its about free benifits
John 3 then, Just think about this: If God Cares for the smallest of His creations, just think about how much He cares for us....Praise the Lord! God is so Good and I'm so Thankful that I belong to Him! Thank You Jesus!!! Have a good day and a Blessed week-end.
Sounds like you are still very young...you have plenty of time for marriage and a family. Until then...you are doing what you are supposed to...which is dating.
So have fun with it...its okay to date several people at a time and without doing anything sexual as long as you are open about it. Also helps to know what you want and communicate that to anyone you are thinking about being serious with so you don't waste your time or his.
Too bad your former boyfriend found your compatibility a deal breaker... I can't image why anyone would wantssomebody they can't get along with as a life partner...sounds like an excuse to me...he basically flaked out on you...so forget him.
A good partner will respect you, your boundaries, your choices, and want to work at having a good relationship with you. He won't want you to turn yourself and your life upside down for him and women who do this just regret it later and worse... the men resent them for doing it..even.
The right person will come along...until then enjoy your single life and career as these are the best years of your life!What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
you should try the reverse vector and decide you DO NOT want a relationship, and that is usually when they come floking to you.
i did it and now im married, I accually wasn never gonna get married and have been in lots of those ';please marry me'; relationships, but its when I really decided it was all about me then I found my guy!
when we reject honor and marriage-its about free benifits
John 3 then, Just think about this: If God Cares for the smallest of His creations, just think about how much He cares for us....Praise the Lord! God is so Good and I'm so Thankful that I belong to Him! Thank You Jesus!!! Have a good day and a Blessed week-end.
Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
the situation on the show was, lets say i was the husband(im a guy)
and i had a wife, and a best friend. i was close to my best friend enough to encourage him to have a sexual relationship with my wife and according to the show i wouldn't feel jealousy AT ALL. this hit me like wow, what state of mind must one be to just give away a woman you love to another close bloke? its male nature to want that one girl for yourself. is this tv guy normal or is it me?Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
You're normal. I would never share my partner, nor would I ever cheat on him. To do so is to have lack of respect for yourself and your partner.Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
Some people oddly enough are in a wierd way turned on by that. I personally could'nt share my husband with anyone because I'm a selfish lover. I have to have him all to myself. I think the arrangement with that situation on the show is based on the physical needs of the husband and sexual fantasy fulfillment. It has nothing to do with love. That kind of behavior leads to relationship damage. Its playing with fire.
Some people have no issue sleeping with others while in a relationship and some married couples become swingers and swap partners. You can love someone but not be in love with them and I think that is the only way these people are able to do what they do. Detaching is also possible. Porn stars get married and still work in the business so it's all up to the individual. I personally would not.
No one can feel emotionally, or even physically, fulfilled in a joke of a relationship like that. That guy sounds like a real douche...he has no love or respect for his wife whatsoever if he just offers her up to other guys. He's definetely NOT normal!
I think that the term ';open relationships'; is just a term to excuse all the infidelity that these people do. If people arent willing to keep the vows they make, they shouldn't bother making them in the first place. It's an insult to everyone out there who does keep their vows.
Polygamy.. hmm.. Well my theory is that most humans are not naturally monogamous anyway. Really we are just like every other sex driven animal %26gt;%26gt; with some added complicated emotions..like jealousy, haha.
I can understand why people do it. At the end of the day it just depends on the relationship. Essentially its just a trade off - between freedom and pride/ego.
Me? Not sure. Unlikely, but I wouldnt rule it out. Freedom verse Pride.. Which is more important to me? Both.. but Freedom perhaps a little bit more.
Then again im not a bloke.. lol.
in the normal course of events, a unit, man and woman, seek exclusivity. each member of the unit, seek to keep each others full attention.
in most societies, a man will do the needed to protect his woman.
there are deviants who do otherwise.
All the men and women I know would agree with you, I do too. One partner only. I don't want to share or have him share either, that's called cheating. It's frowned upon by most people. That's a total lack of respect for yourself and your partner.
You are absolutely normal
It's scary...I think the tv guy is crazy...You are normal...but the tv guy is crazy!
I definitely wouldn't hand over the person I love to anyone else. My fiance is mine - no touching!rosacea
and i had a wife, and a best friend. i was close to my best friend enough to encourage him to have a sexual relationship with my wife and according to the show i wouldn't feel jealousy AT ALL. this hit me like wow, what state of mind must one be to just give away a woman you love to another close bloke? its male nature to want that one girl for yourself. is this tv guy normal or is it me?Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
You're normal. I would never share my partner, nor would I ever cheat on him. To do so is to have lack of respect for yourself and your partner.Open relationships. i saw this show on tv about people sharing partners, would you do that?
Some people oddly enough are in a wierd way turned on by that. I personally could'nt share my husband with anyone because I'm a selfish lover. I have to have him all to myself. I think the arrangement with that situation on the show is based on the physical needs of the husband and sexual fantasy fulfillment. It has nothing to do with love. That kind of behavior leads to relationship damage. Its playing with fire.
Some people have no issue sleeping with others while in a relationship and some married couples become swingers and swap partners. You can love someone but not be in love with them and I think that is the only way these people are able to do what they do. Detaching is also possible. Porn stars get married and still work in the business so it's all up to the individual. I personally would not.
No one can feel emotionally, or even physically, fulfilled in a joke of a relationship like that. That guy sounds like a real douche...he has no love or respect for his wife whatsoever if he just offers her up to other guys. He's definetely NOT normal!
I think that the term ';open relationships'; is just a term to excuse all the infidelity that these people do. If people arent willing to keep the vows they make, they shouldn't bother making them in the first place. It's an insult to everyone out there who does keep their vows.
Polygamy.. hmm.. Well my theory is that most humans are not naturally monogamous anyway. Really we are just like every other sex driven animal %26gt;%26gt; with some added complicated emotions..like jealousy, haha.
I can understand why people do it. At the end of the day it just depends on the relationship. Essentially its just a trade off - between freedom and pride/ego.
Me? Not sure. Unlikely, but I wouldnt rule it out. Freedom verse Pride.. Which is more important to me? Both.. but Freedom perhaps a little bit more.
Then again im not a bloke.. lol.
in the normal course of events, a unit, man and woman, seek exclusivity. each member of the unit, seek to keep each others full attention.
in most societies, a man will do the needed to protect his woman.
there are deviants who do otherwise.
All the men and women I know would agree with you, I do too. One partner only. I don't want to share or have him share either, that's called cheating. It's frowned upon by most people. That's a total lack of respect for yourself and your partner.
You are absolutely normal
It's scary...I think the tv guy is crazy...You are normal...but the tv guy is crazy!
I definitely wouldn't hand over the person I love to anyone else. My fiance is mine - no touching!
What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
If Talking about Couples:
Trust
Intimacy
Compatibilty
Forgiveness
If talking about Families:
Trust
Responsiblity
Forgiveness
Expectations
(just a few thoughts, certainly not an expert at them!)What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
I recommend you to read this free E-book called 97 Steps To A Happy Relationship. It's a free and easy download, so it won't hurt to check it out.What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
Abuse
Trust
Intimacy
Compatibilty
Forgiveness
If talking about Families:
Trust
Responsiblity
Forgiveness
Expectations
(just a few thoughts, certainly not an expert at them!)What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
I recommend you to read this free E-book called 97 Steps To A Happy Relationship. It's a free and easy download, so it won't hurt to check it out.What are some topics on ethical behavior in relationships?
Abuse
Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
i, personally, find nothing wrong with them.Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
In my opinion -- the wrong is not in the inter-racial relationship (love has no boundaries or preference on race) --- it is when they bring a child in this world --- that makes it so unfair to the child. The child does not totally fit into either nationality ! It makes it harder on the child growing up -- especially when the cultures are so different and the beliefs are so different ! I have 14 other siblings (4 brothers and the rest are 1/2 brothers and sisters --- and there are a lot of mixed in the bunch ! So I do know what I am talking about !Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
I find nothing wrong with them either. You can't control your feelings. I'm in love with someone out of my ethnicity.
Got no problem with that, I do, however, frown on interspecies relationships!
Doesn't matter to me.
People can love who they want, its not for me to judge.
Don't believe in it.Race should stay in own race.
I don't even notice that.
My cousins all have bi-racial children..doesn't bother me.
In my opinion -- the wrong is not in the inter-racial relationship (love has no boundaries or preference on race) --- it is when they bring a child in this world --- that makes it so unfair to the child. The child does not totally fit into either nationality ! It makes it harder on the child growing up -- especially when the cultures are so different and the beliefs are so different ! I have 14 other siblings (4 brothers and the rest are 1/2 brothers and sisters --- and there are a lot of mixed in the bunch ! So I do know what I am talking about !Poll: What is your opinion on inter-racial relationships?
I find nothing wrong with them either. You can't control your feelings. I'm in love with someone out of my ethnicity.
Got no problem with that, I do, however, frown on interspecies relationships!
Doesn't matter to me.
People can love who they want, its not for me to judge.
Don't believe in it.Race should stay in own race.
I don't even notice that.
My cousins all have bi-racial children..doesn't bother me.
What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
I was with a man for 7 years, and it ended. I have been dating for about 5 years now and have not found anyone extremely long term. I have only had 2 long term relationships since and they have both ended after the 1 year mark. The first guy wanted me to turn my life completely upside down for him with no compromise. He wanted me to quit school and move where he wanted to move. I wanted to finish my couple of classes to get my degree and then move, because not all my courses transferred. I only had a couple of classes left about 2 semesters and wanted to finish. Since I didn't drop everything, he found some girl 10 years younger to drop out of school and move to the other city with him. This last guy decided that we got along to well, that we didn't fight or argue. We did disagree on things but not so much to cause an argument. So apparently that's a bad thing. I'm starting to think I'm going to be single forever. I鈥檓 not in a hurry because I want to find the right guy first, but eventually I want the home and the family, and I'm not getting any younger. Does anybody have dating advice, because I don鈥檛 know what it is about that year mark, or why getting along well is a bad thing.What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
Sounds like you are still very young...you have plenty of time for marriage and a family. Until then...you are doing what you are supposed to...which is dating.
So have fun with it...its okay to date several people at a time and without doing anything sexual as long as you are open about it. Also helps to know what you want and communicate that to anyone you are thinking about being serious with so you don't waste your time or his.
Too bad your former boyfriend found your compatibility a deal breaker... I can't image why anyone would wantssomebody they can't get along with as a life partner...sounds like an excuse to me...he basically flaked out on you...so forget him.
A good partner will respect you, your boundaries, your choices, and want to work at having a good relationship with you. He won't want you to turn yourself and your life upside down for him and women who do this just regret it later and worse... the men resent them for doing it..even.
The right person will come along...until then enjoy your single life and career as these are the best years of your life!What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
you should try the reverse vector and decide you DO NOT want a relationship, and that is usually when they come floking to you.
i did it and now im married, I accually wasn never gonna get married and have been in lots of those ';please marry me'; relationships, but its when I really decided it was all about me then I found my guy!
when we reject honor and marriage-its about free benifits
John 3 then, Just think about this: If God Cares for the smallest of His creations, just think about how much He cares for us....Praise the Lord! God is so Good and I'm so Thankful that I belong to Him! Thank You Jesus!!! Have a good day and a Blessed week-end.
Sounds like you are still very young...you have plenty of time for marriage and a family. Until then...you are doing what you are supposed to...which is dating.
So have fun with it...its okay to date several people at a time and without doing anything sexual as long as you are open about it. Also helps to know what you want and communicate that to anyone you are thinking about being serious with so you don't waste your time or his.
Too bad your former boyfriend found your compatibility a deal breaker... I can't image why anyone would wantssomebody they can't get along with as a life partner...sounds like an excuse to me...he basically flaked out on you...so forget him.
A good partner will respect you, your boundaries, your choices, and want to work at having a good relationship with you. He won't want you to turn yourself and your life upside down for him and women who do this just regret it later and worse... the men resent them for doing it..even.
The right person will come along...until then enjoy your single life and career as these are the best years of your life!What is it about that year mark in relationships, why does it seem so hard to get passed it now-a-days?
you should try the reverse vector and decide you DO NOT want a relationship, and that is usually when they come floking to you.
i did it and now im married, I accually wasn never gonna get married and have been in lots of those ';please marry me'; relationships, but its when I really decided it was all about me then I found my guy!
when we reject honor and marriage-its about free benifits
John 3 then, Just think about this: If God Cares for the smallest of His creations, just think about how much He cares for us....Praise the Lord! God is so Good and I'm so Thankful that I belong to Him! Thank You Jesus!!! Have a good day and a Blessed week-end.
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