why dont people want to work throug things anymore it seems like people jump ship at the first sight of stormy sea isnt this sad do you not think people today just dispose of people in relationships like disposible tisuesWhy do people hurt others in relationships why do we do this 10 POINTS?
Because now-a-days people are selfish and only think of their wellbeings. Especially guys, they just want to have as many girls as they can.Girls on the other hand are starting to act like guys too. give them a taste of their own medicine. It's too bad they get penalized for it. Double standard.
Either that or they are afraid to get hurt so they hurt instead.
make sense?Why do people hurt others in relationships why do we do this 10 POINTS?
cause we can
gl
people now a days only think about themselves and not the type of impact that their actions will have on the person they love.
because they are lazy and just interested in sex... not making relationships work.
a lot of people see relationships like their other toys. they are really cool right when you get them, but they get bored fast and want a new toy.
I tend to value relationships more over time, especially romantic ones.
i totally agree with u , but we're humans , we make bad stuff and good stuff
thats the main reason we're created for
Becauce they're afraid that it's not goin to work no matter how hard they try to work it out. They try to rush it thinking nothing should go wrong in a relationship.
Maby they are just scared that they might get hurt or something.....Alot of people do that.
i resolve my issues. and im 14. so i dont know about other people, but i don't get out of a relationship at the first sight of a problem.
Because no one wants to put in the work. Its pretty sad. PPL just throw away relationships like its absolutely nothing. And for dumb reasons. These days ppl want it to be happy all the time and thats just not humanly possible. There are going to be hard times and there are going to be those days when you feel like throwing in the towel. But you have to work through it (as long as its something thats workable). Most ppl just don't get that
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
What do you think of after-relationships?
Like an ex that stays friends, but wants to stay friends with you even after he/she gets with another person and keeps calling you, etc etc. Do you think that's healthy even?What do you think of after-relationships?
no it is not a healthy relationship as friends cause the other one can stalk you in hurt you or even kill youWhat do you think of after-relationships?
I wouldn't recommend it, i did the same thing and then i just stopped talking to her because i was distancing myself from her (She was acting worse than when we were together) and I couldn't take it anymore.
So it wasn't healthy for me, but for other people the situation could be different.
Not healthy
kinda strange and not healthy
yes...if you're over that person that is
only will lead to heartbreak
Nope. All ex's get cut off... The End.
lol i still talk to my ex.. shes fun to hang around with
no it is not a healthy relationship as friends cause the other one can stalk you in hurt you or even kill youWhat do you think of after-relationships?
I wouldn't recommend it, i did the same thing and then i just stopped talking to her because i was distancing myself from her (She was acting worse than when we were together) and I couldn't take it anymore.
So it wasn't healthy for me, but for other people the situation could be different.
Not healthy
kinda strange and not healthy
yes...if you're over that person that is
only will lead to heartbreak
Nope. All ex's get cut off... The End.
lol i still talk to my ex.. shes fun to hang around with
Can men with autism have successful relationships?
anyone no matter their handycap can have a successful relationship.. Just need to tak**** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED*** e it slowCan men with autism have successful relationships?
Absolutely, many men with autism or aspergers have had successful relationships and families of their own. There are many different types of autistic men who may function more or less similarly to men without autism, but there is no limit to how severe your autism can be and still fall in love with another person. Here are some comments from people who are autistic or in a relationship with someone who is.Can men with autism have successful relationships?
Anyone can be in a successful relationship including those with disabilities. Three things you have to have, understanding, willingness, and patience. I have had a stroke and while it isn't the same as autism it is in a way. It took me a while to let my boyfriend in, to let him touch my crippled side. You have to be open to doing things in a different way and moving slowly or at a comfortable pace. Being disabled means nothing when it comes to being able to love or to hold on. Good Luck. Email me if you need too.
Not very likely Most children with autism lack social support, meaningful relationships, future employment opportunities or self-determination.Although core difficulties tend to persist, symptoms often become less severe with age.[Few high-quality studies address long-term prognosis. Some adults show modest improvement in communication skills, but a few decline; no study has focused on autism after midlife. Acquiring language before age six, having an IQ above 50, and having a marketable skill all predict better outcomes; independent living is unlikely with severe autism.[132] A 2004 British study of 68 adults who were diagnosed before 1980 as autistic children with IQ above 50 found that 12% achieved a high level of independence as adults, 10% had some friends and were generally in work but required some support, 19% had some independence but were generally living at home and needed considerable support and supervision in daily living, 46% needed specialist residential provision from facilities specializing in ASD with a high level of support and very limited autonomy, and 12% needed high-level hospital care.
Here's an article about a guy with either Autism or Aspberger's Syndrome who is happily married, and working on a doctorate degree:
http://www.autism.com/individuals/datara鈥?/a>
Sorry, I'm being POLITICALLY CORRECT and can't answer that question honestly so...
Yep. Better not to answer at all.
Copy this if you agree and us PCs will take over Y!A
I think they can love comes from within.
Absolutely, many men with autism or aspergers have had successful relationships and families of their own. There are many different types of autistic men who may function more or less similarly to men without autism, but there is no limit to how severe your autism can be and still fall in love with another person. Here are some comments from people who are autistic or in a relationship with someone who is.Can men with autism have successful relationships?
Anyone can be in a successful relationship including those with disabilities. Three things you have to have, understanding, willingness, and patience. I have had a stroke and while it isn't the same as autism it is in a way. It took me a while to let my boyfriend in, to let him touch my crippled side. You have to be open to doing things in a different way and moving slowly or at a comfortable pace. Being disabled means nothing when it comes to being able to love or to hold on. Good Luck. Email me if you need too.
Not very likely Most children with autism lack social support, meaningful relationships, future employment opportunities or self-determination.Although core difficulties tend to persist, symptoms often become less severe with age.[Few high-quality studies address long-term prognosis. Some adults show modest improvement in communication skills, but a few decline; no study has focused on autism after midlife. Acquiring language before age six, having an IQ above 50, and having a marketable skill all predict better outcomes; independent living is unlikely with severe autism.[132] A 2004 British study of 68 adults who were diagnosed before 1980 as autistic children with IQ above 50 found that 12% achieved a high level of independence as adults, 10% had some friends and were generally in work but required some support, 19% had some independence but were generally living at home and needed considerable support and supervision in daily living, 46% needed specialist residential provision from facilities specializing in ASD with a high level of support and very limited autonomy, and 12% needed high-level hospital care.
Here's an article about a guy with either Autism or Aspberger's Syndrome who is happily married, and working on a doctorate degree:
http://www.autism.com/individuals/datara鈥?/a>
Sorry, I'm being POLITICALLY CORRECT and can't answer that question honestly so...
Yep. Better not to answer at all.
Copy this if you agree and us PCs will take over Y!A
I think they can love comes from within.
Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
Me %26amp; My co-worker have been very interested in eachother for some time now. Occasionally, after work, we make out in the back room. We plan on maybe dating sometime in the future. Do you agree with relationships at work? Or what is your personal opinion with it.Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
Keep it private away from the workforce. If you tend to get to touchy and get caught, that is a sure fire. Also fratenizing in the workforce is frowned upon, and result is being fired.
(';'\(o.o)/';')Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
You know what its your life if you wanna date someone you work with then go ahead.
It's OK unless you 2 break-up. Then it's going to be rough seeing your X everyday at work. It'll lead to fights at work, and problems.
Photo,
Hey that is great that you two are interested in each other.
My best advice and (opion),is keep every thing professional at work,and keep relationship out side of work.
It is bad news,and it will come back and bite you in the end.
My opion photo.Relationships do not belong in the work place because of sexual harassment laws and other law that comes with it,oh yes and gossips too.
I hope you understand,and gl with your relation ship.
God bless you both,
Kenny
Inhibits work, and when the inevitable breakup comes - it's awkward thereafter.
I did the same thing many years ago and you know what it in a way it was a mistake. I was the boss though and then one day I was told by my boss I had to fire the girl's mom.
That kinda put a damper on my love life with her anyway. But that was okay at the time I was also seeing the boss's niece.
Not to mention the two other girls I was seeing at the time.rosacea
Keep it private away from the workforce. If you tend to get to touchy and get caught, that is a sure fire. Also fratenizing in the workforce is frowned upon, and result is being fired.
(';'\(o.o)/';')Do you agree or disagree with relationships at your place of work?
You know what its your life if you wanna date someone you work with then go ahead.
It's OK unless you 2 break-up. Then it's going to be rough seeing your X everyday at work. It'll lead to fights at work, and problems.
Photo,
Hey that is great that you two are interested in each other.
My best advice and (opion),is keep every thing professional at work,and keep relationship out side of work.
It is bad news,and it will come back and bite you in the end.
My opion photo.Relationships do not belong in the work place because of sexual harassment laws and other law that comes with it,oh yes and gossips too.
I hope you understand,and gl with your relation ship.
God bless you both,
Kenny
Inhibits work, and when the inevitable breakup comes - it's awkward thereafter.
I did the same thing many years ago and you know what it in a way it was a mistake. I was the boss though and then one day I was told by my boss I had to fire the girl's mom.
That kinda put a damper on my love life with her anyway. But that was okay at the time I was also seeing the boss's niece.
Not to mention the two other girls I was seeing at the time.
What should i do about this relationships?
ok i have a bf but i havent seen him in over 3 months right n now like dis other guy likes me n im starting to like him but i still like my bf also there is this other guy dat als likes me but idk n since i havent seen my bf for like 3 months things have changed. I jus dont know if i love him like i did before thats the problem??What should i do about this relationships?
There is no good answer to your scenario because no one can tell you what's in your heart - right? :) The only thing I can advise is to make a decision before the decision gets made for you.
Here's what I mean. If you don't make a conscious decision about who you feel more drawn to or which one you actually want as a boyfriend - you'll end up in some close compromising moment with some other boy and get caught up in the moment. If you screw up by screwing then the decision is almost made for you by your pants instead of your head and heart.
Of course, if you're not looking for an instant relationship and like this moment in your life where multiple boys like you - there may be some benefit / reward for you in staying single and playing around a little more. Just make sure to be honest with everyone that you're dating around - they should have the choice whether or not to wait and see if there one of the finalists or not.What should i do about this relationships?
I think that, before you do anything else, you should have a heart-to-heart discussion with your boyfriend -- preferably in person. But if that's not possible, you should at least talk to him over the phone.
Express your concerns about your relationship to him as tactfully as possible. Then go from there. If the two of you can salvage your relationship, that's great. If not, you'll be free to date other guys (including the two available ones you described) until you find your true ';Mr. Right.';
Good luck, brother!
well, first i think you should talk about things with your bf and see where they're going. and then if you decided that you shouldn't be together then just break up. just don't do anything with another guy while still being with your boyfriend. that's not cool.
follow ur heart
There is no good answer to your scenario because no one can tell you what's in your heart - right? :) The only thing I can advise is to make a decision before the decision gets made for you.
Here's what I mean. If you don't make a conscious decision about who you feel more drawn to or which one you actually want as a boyfriend - you'll end up in some close compromising moment with some other boy and get caught up in the moment. If you screw up by screwing then the decision is almost made for you by your pants instead of your head and heart.
Of course, if you're not looking for an instant relationship and like this moment in your life where multiple boys like you - there may be some benefit / reward for you in staying single and playing around a little more. Just make sure to be honest with everyone that you're dating around - they should have the choice whether or not to wait and see if there one of the finalists or not.What should i do about this relationships?
I think that, before you do anything else, you should have a heart-to-heart discussion with your boyfriend -- preferably in person. But if that's not possible, you should at least talk to him over the phone.
Express your concerns about your relationship to him as tactfully as possible. Then go from there. If the two of you can salvage your relationship, that's great. If not, you'll be free to date other guys (including the two available ones you described) until you find your true ';Mr. Right.';
Good luck, brother!
well, first i think you should talk about things with your bf and see where they're going. and then if you decided that you shouldn't be together then just break up. just don't do anything with another guy while still being with your boyfriend. that's not cool.
follow ur heart
How does war change people's relationships?
depends on the person. i am against the war completely, but some of my friends are for it. A few of my best friends are Marines and one of them is in Iraq right now. We all agree that we disagree with the war and some of the President's decisions, but that does not affect our relationship at all. They respect my views as I respect theirs, and I definately have respect for all of our troops overseas.How does war change people's relationships?
I think it changes the outlook of life for a person who went? I remeber my hubby, when he came home. He was in good sprits but when he would talk, he talked of the poor. He had seen poor here but over there it was so sad to hear him speak of it. He is alot more I don't know senstive to certain issues? I know that I changed while he was gone.
MY respect grew a 10000 more than it did for single moms and dads that do this everyday! That was hard. But you know what it made me stronger than before.How does war change people's relationships?
they become animals
nightmares, nightsweats, weird rashes, Oh and that is from DESERT STORM.......the war everyone forgets we fought.
This war they have fun tents (big screen TVs, computers, hot food)!
That war (waited a week to make a call, burned their own ****, slept on top of their vehicles too avoid snakes, scorpions and spiders.)
This war they are paid almost 3 times what those who fought in Desert Storm received.
Oh back to the question......wake up with someone who has is sweating, screaming and trying to find the top of his vehicle. That is how ';war'; changes a relationship.
Other than that.....oh wait the rash...no skin problems until.....yep......the ';other war';.
We are great.....he didn't get DVD's when he was there but he got cigarettes and ramen LMAO. Believe me that mattered!
Well, my husband, who is on his way back home for the 2nd time, has nightmares, wakes up in a cold sweat, he also talks in his sleep so I know more than what he thinks I do. I have also dodged a few swings from him while he was sleeping. While he is sleeping if anyone walks by our door he sits straight up. Other than in his sleep, some nights all he wants to do is lay in the floor with me and the kids and just hold all of us, where other nights he just spaces out and is jumpy when someone says anything to him. He doesn't talk about what he saw or what he did the first time he was there, but I know that when he is ready to talk he will. It's hard to deal with at times because I love him and there is nothing I can do to help him deal with it because he doesn't WANT me to know what happened over there, and I can't go to him and say I know because you talk in your sleep so just talk to me about it.
Not for the better, but with out knowing more about your question, I can't elaborate.
It does a lot. I know some people who went to war and act different. Those people have terrible experiences that haunt them for the rest their lives. WAR IS HELL! I do wish good luck to those out there though
i've been to war and i don't think i change
War changes people's relationships because war changes people. The most changed are those who experience combat, especially on a personal or face to face level.
Once, in psychology class, the question was asked ';How do people change? The answers were frontal lobotomy, religious conversion, and traumatic experience (like war).
this war doesn't change anything.
watch JarHead i jsut did it might help altho its not always like in that movie but it is quite a few of the times
the relationship has a few more things thrown into the mix. My significant other needs to realize that sometimes I need to vent, to talk about what happened, about being shot at, and about shooting back. She understands that I'm going to have occasional nightmares and sleepless nights. Overall, it's not just the person that experienced the war that is effected, it's their loved ones as well.
War changes most people no matter if they want to admit it or not. I try not to show it outwardly but it will affect you. It does affect some differently than others but no one goes truly unchanged. A word to the spouses, hang in there and try not to get frustrated with them if they do not want to talk about it. Sometimes it is just to hard to talk about. We see things no one should have to see over there.
I think it changes the outlook of life for a person who went? I remeber my hubby, when he came home. He was in good sprits but when he would talk, he talked of the poor. He had seen poor here but over there it was so sad to hear him speak of it. He is alot more I don't know senstive to certain issues? I know that I changed while he was gone.
MY respect grew a 10000 more than it did for single moms and dads that do this everyday! That was hard. But you know what it made me stronger than before.How does war change people's relationships?
they become animals
nightmares, nightsweats, weird rashes, Oh and that is from DESERT STORM.......the war everyone forgets we fought.
This war they have fun tents (big screen TVs, computers, hot food)!
That war (waited a week to make a call, burned their own ****, slept on top of their vehicles too avoid snakes, scorpions and spiders.)
This war they are paid almost 3 times what those who fought in Desert Storm received.
Oh back to the question......wake up with someone who has is sweating, screaming and trying to find the top of his vehicle. That is how ';war'; changes a relationship.
Other than that.....oh wait the rash...no skin problems until.....yep......the ';other war';.
We are great.....he didn't get DVD's when he was there but he got cigarettes and ramen LMAO. Believe me that mattered!
Well, my husband, who is on his way back home for the 2nd time, has nightmares, wakes up in a cold sweat, he also talks in his sleep so I know more than what he thinks I do. I have also dodged a few swings from him while he was sleeping. While he is sleeping if anyone walks by our door he sits straight up. Other than in his sleep, some nights all he wants to do is lay in the floor with me and the kids and just hold all of us, where other nights he just spaces out and is jumpy when someone says anything to him. He doesn't talk about what he saw or what he did the first time he was there, but I know that when he is ready to talk he will. It's hard to deal with at times because I love him and there is nothing I can do to help him deal with it because he doesn't WANT me to know what happened over there, and I can't go to him and say I know because you talk in your sleep so just talk to me about it.
Not for the better, but with out knowing more about your question, I can't elaborate.
It does a lot. I know some people who went to war and act different. Those people have terrible experiences that haunt them for the rest their lives. WAR IS HELL! I do wish good luck to those out there though
i've been to war and i don't think i change
War changes people's relationships because war changes people. The most changed are those who experience combat, especially on a personal or face to face level.
Once, in psychology class, the question was asked ';How do people change? The answers were frontal lobotomy, religious conversion, and traumatic experience (like war).
this war doesn't change anything.
watch JarHead i jsut did it might help altho its not always like in that movie but it is quite a few of the times
the relationship has a few more things thrown into the mix. My significant other needs to realize that sometimes I need to vent, to talk about what happened, about being shot at, and about shooting back. She understands that I'm going to have occasional nightmares and sleepless nights. Overall, it's not just the person that experienced the war that is effected, it's their loved ones as well.
War changes most people no matter if they want to admit it or not. I try not to show it outwardly but it will affect you. It does affect some differently than others but no one goes truly unchanged. A word to the spouses, hang in there and try not to get frustrated with them if they do not want to talk about it. Sometimes it is just to hard to talk about. We see things no one should have to see over there.
MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
I don't believe in a ';bro code';, I believe in being ruthless and fighting for what you want. And I know women would find that mentality attractive.
NOW, there's this one girl in my college class whom I talk to daily, but she has a boyfriend and let me know about it. What are some effective field strategies you've used before in order to get a woman to dump her guy, for YOU?MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Awww..... Samian.... There are other fish in the sea...
I know you feel that women find it attractive but that's not true of any respectful woman. Its ruthless and underhanded. This only shows her that you have no respect for relationships or care about other peoples interests or investments. It might make her like you less. Be her friend but move on with your life. There's no telling what kind of person you will meet down the road in your life.MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Judging by your question, it is obvious you are retarded. She is not interested in you at all, she is being nice. Like volunteering at the special olympics, it makes her feel good about herself. Does she help you with the seatbelt in the front seat of the bus, too?
';effective field strategies'; - wow, you're a stalker, too.
Good luck with life. Don't forget your helmet.
You learn to be a mature adult and respect someone elses wishes. Look she has someone else, thats a major hint to you that she's not interested nor will ever be. The more you try to persue her the more she will be turned off.
Also I don't use ';stratagies'; on women because I'm gay, and I don't even use them on men. At least not in a homewrecker way.
Find some self respect.
-Connor
for one u sound like an *** and two no girl is gonna leave her bf for someone else if she is happy and if she is letting u know about her boyfriend that means shes telling u too back off. and i would be careful if i were u a lot of guys are very protective of their girlfriends. and no girls do not find that attractive. but if you do want to try it would be to wine and dine her take her on expensive dinners and buy her everything and u have to be super sweet to her. but if shes happy with her bf it wont matter what u do.
No, we don't find that mentality attractive. We find it arrogant.
Oh, and you saying ';no women allowed'; just makes us women want to answer even more. ;)
If you really care about this girl why do you want to hurt her? You're just being selfish. Wait till she breaks up with her boyfriend, be her friend, let her come to you.
First if your going to behave like this you need to be WELL ARMED have a security expert check your car for bombs everyday and live in a windowless room deep underground, or your going to live a VERY SHORT LIFE.
Second, be prepared for PAIN.
Next to impossible.
What you can do is:
Remember this: Love them, appreciate them and always treat ALL women with respect no matter if overweight, skinny, pretty, homely, short or tall.
In the end - personality is everything and beauty IS only skin deep!
women get very attached (even if it doesn't make sense)... its kinda difficult, unless their relationship is on the rocks.
best bet is to build a better relationship with her than the other guy.... but this usually places u as a friend, and making a move after is awkward.... er... so.... start working out a lot and make lotsa money
Does Yo Mama have good dental insurance for you? Any day now, somebody will probably be rearranging your dental work when you mess with the wrong one. She could file charges for stalking or sexual harrassment - then whatcha gonna do - call Mama?
You're a douchebag. Don't ruin a relationship because you want to date a girl.
You suck
Sniches are bitches and bitches get stitches.
You get her drunk and **** the hell out of her. If she doesn't dump him, who cares?
you are really mentally ill and sick minded...
personally i just whip out my wanker. gets em every time.
NOW, there's this one girl in my college class whom I talk to daily, but she has a boyfriend and let me know about it. What are some effective field strategies you've used before in order to get a woman to dump her guy, for YOU?MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Awww..... Samian.... There are other fish in the sea...
I know you feel that women find it attractive but that's not true of any respectful woman. Its ruthless and underhanded. This only shows her that you have no respect for relationships or care about other peoples interests or investments. It might make her like you less. Be her friend but move on with your life. There's no telling what kind of person you will meet down the road in your life.MEN ONLY (NO WOMEN ALLOWED): Explain your strategies you use on women already in relationships to be with you?
Judging by your question, it is obvious you are retarded. She is not interested in you at all, she is being nice. Like volunteering at the special olympics, it makes her feel good about herself. Does she help you with the seatbelt in the front seat of the bus, too?
';effective field strategies'; - wow, you're a stalker, too.
Good luck with life. Don't forget your helmet.
You learn to be a mature adult and respect someone elses wishes. Look she has someone else, thats a major hint to you that she's not interested nor will ever be. The more you try to persue her the more she will be turned off.
Also I don't use ';stratagies'; on women because I'm gay, and I don't even use them on men. At least not in a homewrecker way.
Find some self respect.
-Connor
for one u sound like an *** and two no girl is gonna leave her bf for someone else if she is happy and if she is letting u know about her boyfriend that means shes telling u too back off. and i would be careful if i were u a lot of guys are very protective of their girlfriends. and no girls do not find that attractive. but if you do want to try it would be to wine and dine her take her on expensive dinners and buy her everything and u have to be super sweet to her. but if shes happy with her bf it wont matter what u do.
No, we don't find that mentality attractive. We find it arrogant.
Oh, and you saying ';no women allowed'; just makes us women want to answer even more. ;)
If you really care about this girl why do you want to hurt her? You're just being selfish. Wait till she breaks up with her boyfriend, be her friend, let her come to you.
First if your going to behave like this you need to be WELL ARMED have a security expert check your car for bombs everyday and live in a windowless room deep underground, or your going to live a VERY SHORT LIFE.
Second, be prepared for PAIN.
Next to impossible.
What you can do is:
Remember this: Love them, appreciate them and always treat ALL women with respect no matter if overweight, skinny, pretty, homely, short or tall.
In the end - personality is everything and beauty IS only skin deep!
women get very attached (even if it doesn't make sense)... its kinda difficult, unless their relationship is on the rocks.
best bet is to build a better relationship with her than the other guy.... but this usually places u as a friend, and making a move after is awkward.... er... so.... start working out a lot and make lotsa money
Does Yo Mama have good dental insurance for you? Any day now, somebody will probably be rearranging your dental work when you mess with the wrong one. She could file charges for stalking or sexual harrassment - then whatcha gonna do - call Mama?
You're a douchebag. Don't ruin a relationship because you want to date a girl.
You suck
Sniches are bitches and bitches get stitches.
You get her drunk and **** the hell out of her. If she doesn't dump him, who cares?
you are really mentally ill and sick minded...
personally i just whip out my wanker. gets em every time.
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